Like, can not hide, cover the mouth, will also flow from the eyes.
A person who has a deep affection will not be able to help but be good to you, and cannot help but let you feel the joy in his heart.
You will find that you suddenly have a "sticky spirit" around you, he will take you everywhere to play on the weekend; in the morning he will set an alarm clock to tell you to eat breakfast; at night he will worry that you stay up late to remind you to go to bed early; when it is cold, he reminds you to dress more; when the big aunt comes, he will prepare brown sugar water for you; you are fat, he praises you cute, you cry, he makes you laugh...
In short, you will feel how lucky you were to meet this person.
But the human heart is always the most unpredictable.
In particular, some girls will always have more doubts and more suspicions about a man's "dedication" after a love injury.
It is so-called: it is difficult to draw a dragon and a tiger to draw a bone, and it is difficult to know the face of the person and not to know the heart.
They will desire to use their own reason, to sober love, and they will also see with their own eyes, and they will not sink in the man's sea oath mountain alliance. Even if that person has shown all sincerity and taken their relationship seriously.
In fact, if you want to see it thoroughly, the most direct way is to see if he takes you to these three places, so that you can see the truest side of him.
If he has never taken you, let alone mentioned it to you, then you have to really think about it, and it is likely that he is "fake" to you.
Take you to meet his parents, longing for your love and getting the approval of your family
Whether men love you or not, it's really obvious.
He has you in his heart, he will long for your love, get the approval of his family, and hope that your future can be blessed by his family.
When a man is serious about a woman, you will find that he will suddenly grow from a naïve little boy to a mature and stable adult.
He will begin to consider his marriage, whether the temper and personality of the two people are compatible, whether the living habits can be adapted, and whether the family background can be integrated, and begin to test and weigh.
Once he makes up his mind that you are the person he wants to marry back home, you will find that he will act in a different way, no longer talking only about the present with you, but starting to discuss the future.
He will understand you to his own home, meet his parents, will hope that his family will accept you, and will hope that his parents will be like him, like you, and approve of you.
If a man, you have been with him for a long time, but he will never mention his family situation, will not let you see his parents, or even take the initiative yourself, he will find all kinds of excuses to reject you. Well, you must be careful, either he has something to hide from you, such as he has a wife at home and is still messing around outside; or he does not identify you, just play with you; or he has mentioned it with his family, but his parents do not agree.
Love should be real.
If a man's feelings to you are vague, confusing, and distressing, then such feelings, the next direction, will most likely make you very disappointed.
Take you to where he works and show that he is working hard for your future
In Young You, Gu Xiaobei is a little, but after meeting someone he likes, he says: I have nothing as a person, but I like a person, and I want to give her a good ending.
It can be seen that whether a man is successful or working hard at the moment, as long as he has someone he likes in his heart, he will feel that he is not good enough and needs to work harder.
What he wants is for the people he loves to live a good life.
He will let go of the "chaotic days" of the past, no longer loose, no longer lazy, start to work down-to-earth, seriously improve himself, will plan to save money, will have a specific plan for the future, in which city to live, how big a house to buy, how many babies to have, what he wants to give you, is "stable and happy".
Lu Qinyang, the male protagonist in "I Want Us to Be Together", in order to marry the female protagonist home, go to the construction site as a supervisor, in order to earn a little more overtime pay, do not sleep for a few days, in order to make her mother approve, he will not hesitate to fight with his life.
Love, in fact, is so simple, he loves you, is to live an ordinary life with you, want to form a small family with you, want to tie up with you in this life, pull each other.
No matter how many storms will be encountered on the road of life, as long as he can be with you, he will bravely carry it; no matter how many challenges he will experience in the future, as long as you can accompany his heart, he will be at ease.
The lyrics he will make you feel:
At the most breathless, use your name and my last name to accomplish this story. From now on, there is no need for anything, the story is plain, but with you in it, it is enough.
Take you to the place where he once "stayed", let you know more about his growth process, let you know more about him
If a man identifies with you, you will find that he will desire more than you, and you can understand him, understand him.
He will take you to the place where he was a child and let you know about his elementary school, middle school, college... Let you know his growth process;
He will take you to places he is familiar with, restaurants he often goes to, bring his favorite dishes, show you a taste, frequent bars, introduce his friends to you, and let you into his circle of life;
He will take you to his "secret base", the place where he is distracted, the place where he likes to be alone when he is troubled, and he will share these places with you, because from now on, he has your company by his side.
He loves you, he will let you see his true heart, let you feel that he wants you to know everything about him, as if he is protesting to heaven for you to meet so late.
And a man who doesn't love you, he will only give you a hot and cold experience.
You will find that only when he needs you, he will come to you, and when you need him, he will have all kinds of excuses not to appear, and even play disappear, so that you can't find it. Not to mention, he'll tell you these familiar places so you can easily find him.
He will not randomly introduce his friends to you, will not let you know his past, he gives you a feeling, it is a sense of mystery, you do not know him deeply, do not know where his home is, do not know where his work is, do not know where he will go after work to relax.
He did these things only because he was ready for himself to slip away at any time.
Conclusion:
The world is always too complicated, and the human heart is always too impetuous.
At the moment, we chase a TV series, often get bored when we see half of it; a new song, when we hear half of it, we switch; we love someone, just have a little good feeling, and then let go in a hurry.
Only because, love is flowered before the moon, and marriage is chai rice oil salt.
Most people, when they are young, long for me and me, and when they are old, they long for the ordinary.
Two people, can hold hands, grow old together, watch the sunrise and sunset together, and experience the chickens and dogs in life together, it is really not easy.
Therefore, if a person, he shows all his enthusiasm, no longer covets "sentient drinking water when in love", but wants to walk with you into the future, run for livelihood, and work hard to give you happiness, then he really loves you.
Life is a long road, when a man, let you into his home, into his past, into his future, then he is taking your relationship, to make a change: from lover, to relatives.
This man, if you meet, must be cherished.
In fairy tales, the prince and princess may not necessarily live a happy life from then on, but they have shown their greatest courage and do not want to miss each other.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!