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I am 28 years old and have been urged to marry by my parents again this year.
In fact, I have a boyfriend, his name is Tan Fei, I have been in love with him for four years, and the relationship is very stable. Some time ago, I was proposed by Tan Fei.
I thought that our relationship in the past few years had become indestructible, and I had always believed in my heart that he was my true destiny. But at the last moment, I couldn't make up my mind. The reason for this is for a trivial matter.
02
A month before Tan Fei proposed, I had a conflict because Tan Fei went fishing with his friends again. That night, I felt more and more that Tan Fei was a very unreliable person.
In fact, Tan Fei is good at everything, that is, the addiction of fishing came up, and he was pulled by his friends, and he didn't even care about his work.
Tan Fei is a didi and works more freely. Sometimes, he works very hard and goes out of the car for a week without rest.
But sometimes, I don't go to work for several days in a row, run fishing with friends, and go for three or four days, and Whether I work or not only depends on his preferences. Because of this, I didn't argue with Tan Fei less.
In fact, I persuaded him to find a job with a higher salary and a little more stability, but Tan Fei was unwilling, saying that this job was free and had more time, and he could accompany me more and live with me in the world of two.
In the past few years of love, I have been by Tan Fei's temperament, and I feel that men only need to be good to me.
Tan Fei did a good job, almost every day he bought vegetables to cook and wash dishes, contracted all the housework, usually very intimate to me, like what, without saying a word to buy me.
But marriage is not a child's play after all. I am now beginning to worry, after getting married and having a baby, Tan Fei is still three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, hanging Er Lang Dang, what should I do?
Poor couple Pepsi lament, when the time comes, will he still be good to me? I was very confused in my heart, so in the face of my parents' urging to marry, I could not make up my mind.
At this moment, a man appeared, and he and Tan Fei were basically people of two worlds.
03
He is my little hair, called Jiahui, and lives next door to me.
When I was in junior high school, I liked Jiahui, but I was still young at the time, and I was very ignorant of feelings, and Jiahui and I were in love, but I didn't even hold hands.
After that, Jiahui graduated and went to guangzhou to work, and he broke off contact. This year, when he returned to his hometown for the New Year, he happened to run into me and asked me to go out for a party.
It turned out that Jiahui was now the company's project manager, and he mixed very well.
I look at the current Jiahui, mature behavior, talk is very different from before, the phenomenon is that the career is still on the rise, there should be a lot of girls like it. But strangely enough, he said that he had been busy working for several years and had no time for love.
Jiahui and I talked for a long time, and at first it was a bit strange, but after we got together that day, we quickly regained the familiar feelings we had before.
During the New Year's Day, I was always in my hometown, and as soon as I had time, Jiahui asked me to go out for supper. Jiahui talked about the previous things, drank cup after cup, drunk. That night, what he said, I will never forget for the rest of my life.
04
Jiahui raised his glass, looked at me and said to himself, Xinxin, how do you have a boyfriend, didn't you say that you were going to wait for me to make a lot of money, buy a big house, and raise a small flower cat with me?
I was overwhelmed when I heard these words, and many years ago, I wrote him a love letter that he actually remembered. Hearing Jiahui drunkenly say this, I realized that he had always liked himself. At that moment, my heart was racing, and I actually had some heart for him.
After that night, Jiahui came to my house and thought he wanted to say that he was drunk and talking nonsense, so I didn't mind. Who would have thought that Jiahui would actually confess to me directly. I didn't agree and told him I had a boyfriend.
But Jiahui didn't care, running to my house every day, coaxing my parents to close their mouths. My parents saw that Jiahui was so attentive, and they also guessed 9 points, knowing that Jiahui was interesting to me.
My mother has always disliked Tan Fei, saying that he is not qualified, almost 30 years old, and does not even have a serious job. And Jiahui has known since he was a child, knows the roots, and now Jiahui works well and has bought a house outside. She advised me to think about Jiahui and broke up with Tan Fei.
I have some entanglements, 4 years of feelings, just left behind, too cruel to Tan Fei, but Tan Fei is not self-motivated at all, I am with him, there is no hope at all. Now that a better man has emerged, should I accept him?