These days, the rice grain mother's eyes are not enough, the Winter Olympics are really too good-looking, "fairy fight" to see me thrilling, every time the heart mentions the throat eyes
These days are really a big hot spot every day, a little orgasm for a while.
Gu Ailing didn't need to say more about the rice grain mother, proud
Skiing, horseback riding, rock climbing, snorkeling, long-distance running, tennis, basketball are all in the list;
Piano and ballet from elementary school, often participating in performances;
Enjoys writing, serializing novels and publishing articles in the New York Times;
High appearance, can wear, is the darling of the fashion industry;
Complete two years of courses in one year of high school and graduate early;
She scored 1580 on the SAT test with a score of 1600 and was admitted to Stanford;
Dad Harvard, Mom Peking University + Stanford, proper high IQ...
So much so that lately everyone has been wondering, "What window did God close for her?" ”
Yesterday, I watched a video, and it was Gu Ailing who answered a reporter's question and responded to the criticism of American netizens.
An 18-year-old little girl, let the rice grain mother be completely impressed by her charm, not only saw her super logic, language expression, and super high emotional intelligence, three views, self-confidence, kindness, humor... Such a girl, who can not love?
The success of a child, the family behind ta is a big plus.
Economic conditions, educational background, and social status are of course one thing, but rice grain mothers feel that it is more of the subtle influence of parents, such as teaching by example. Another point that is also very important is the vision and pattern of parents.
Gu Ailing's mother once told her a sentence: If you want others to respect you, you can't be an athlete who can only ski, has no ability to think independently, and has no knowledge.
This is the vision that successful mothers have. Don't stick to the present, but let the child look to the future.
You're not just a champion, you're not just skiing, you have endless possibilities in your life.
In addition to Gu Ailing, there are many impressive players in this Winter Olympics, and the degree of excellence is beyond imagination.
For example, the Chinese female ice goalkeeper who was enshrined in world war I - Zhou Jiaying.
Who would have thought that the people were the princely Princeton school bullies, who gave up the high salaries of Wall Street investment banks and concentrated on sports
As soon as she came on the field that day, The rice grain mother was completely calmed by her "dragon robe", and this "Chinese style" was also too cool. Domineering
After that, Zhou Jiaying did use his strength to defend the "dragon gate", blocking all the opponent's shots in the "penalty shootout" battle, helping the Chinese team defeat the Japanese team.
Zhou Jiaying's mother is a Chinese and graduated from Xi'an Jiaotong University.
Zhou Jiaying's father is Canadian, a former ice hockey goalkeeper, and his brother also played for the Harvard University ice hockey team, zhou Jiaying was influenced by his family and fell in love with the sport of ice hockey.
▲ Zhou Jiaying was so cute when he was a child
Interestingly, she actually trained with boys and spent many years guarding the goal of her brother's ice hockey team, that is, a girl who kept the goal for a male ice hockey team member for 10 years. For this, she has made more efforts than ordinary people.
At home, Zhou Jiaying's mother focuses on learning, and of course, cram classes are indispensable, like Gu Ailing, Zhou Jiaying also completed credits in advance in middle school and was admitted to Princeton University with excellent results in finance.
Although during his college years, Zhou Jiaying often represented the varsity team to participate in competitions, and also won the World Championship for the Canadian national team. But after graduation, Zhou Jiaying still chose to work in an investment bank on Wall Street.
After seeing the bigger world, she understood what she really loved in her heart, so when Zhou Jiaying was invited to join Shenzhen Women's Ice in 2018, she did not hesitate anymore. And there is also a dream for the Chinese team to compete in the Olympics.
She received support from her whole family, especially her mother.
In fact, I admire Zhou Jiaying's mother, because ice hockey is a very fierce sport, and it is not easy to support my daughter to make ice hockey a career choice.
Aren't Wall Street investment banks fragrant? fragrant! But her daughter's dream is on the hockey rink, and her own abilities, willingness and choices are greater than anything else.
I think that Zhou Jiaying's family has brought her not only athlete genes, but also the courage to fight for her dreams, and the persistence and perseverance to strive to realize herself.
Only with the unconditional support of people with love behind them can we win the battle and be indestructible!
What's more, Zhou Jiaying's mother has always insisted that her daughter study hard and receive a better education.
When you have enough strength, you have the right to choose.
Therefore, Zhou Jiaying can do her best to fight in the best years of athletes, without fear and fearlessness; in the future, she can also retreat to the financial world, or she has a new goal to fight for.
Although there is a bit of Versailles, good people don't let their lives have only one possibility.
Do you remember the "shirtless little brother" at the opening ceremony of the Winter Olympics?
When everyone was concerned about whether he was cold or not, Migrain's mother also went out of her way to dig deep into his background and take a breath of cold air
The younger brother was Nathan Crumdon, his father was an American diplomat, his mother was of Chinese and Polynesian descent, and he had acquired American Samoan citizenship a few years earlier.
Most particularly, he also competed in the men's 100 meters at last year's Tokyo Olympics, where he will challenge for the steel-framed bobsleigh event.
Rice grain mother wanted to ask, how is such an all-round talent refined?
Nathan Crumdon says he grew up playing hockey, rugby and squash, and he was willing to try any sport he had access to, which helped him face different sports as an adult.
This is not the end, people also studied in Princeton, and Zhou Jiaying is an alumnus, and also created the third best triple jump in the history of Princeton University.
In addition to being an out-and-out student bully, he has also worked as a photographer, his works have been included in photography exhibitions, and he has published more than 500 pages of economics books...
This session of the school bully, it is really too rolled, Wen can climb the vine, Wu can rush the Olympics, what else can I say
But in fact, if you understand the background of Nathan Krupdon's upbringing, you can see why he became the "Almighty King".
Because his father was a diplomat, he grew up living with his parents in many countries and in different cultural backgrounds.
He spent most of his childhood in Africa, and then traveled to Australia and the United States.
The so-called wide-sighted, the so-called reading of thousands of books and miles, increases the horizon, but also makes the field of vision broader.
Seeing more, I realized that I also had infinite possibilities, and when I saw more, I was willing to challenge the impossible and live my life to the breadth of several lifetimes.
Nathan Cruptown is 36 years old, but in him, I don't see "people to middle age", but the real appearance of young people with vigorous vitality.
Rice Mother also wants to talk about Yu sheng knots. One of the company's editors was his super fan
She gave her daughter a special figure skating class before, and the result was that her daughter was not interested, saying that she did not learn anything, and colleagues now learn it by themselves, once a week, and learned very energetically, hahaha~
As a Japanese athlete, Yusuke Yusuke has a huge number of fans not only in our country, but even around the world. Watching him figure skating is really a beautiful enjoyment, worthy of the "ice prince".
He also has a particularly high emotional intelligence, treats people and things with courtesy and manners, and is very humble. Waseda graduated from university, and did not take the sports specialty, but took the normal examination channel.
Not to mention the figure skating technique, he was the first person to complete the outer ring of the jump in the international competition recognized by the International Skating Union, and also achieved the Grand Slam of the Olympic Games, World Championships and Grand Prix Finals, breaking the world record 19 times.
When it comes to Yusei's family background, it seems that there is nothing special about him, he was born in a very ordinary family, his father is the principal of the middle school, his mother is a full-time mother, and he has an older sister.
Yusei Yushin once said, "My father will give me great encouragement while rebuking me, and will help me with the existence of figure skating." ”
As a middle school principal, it is normal to be strict with his children, but he is not a hand-throwing treasurer who only knows blame regardless of his children, but he has always supported and accompanied his children on the road of figure skating.
Yusei said that before he went to Canada to train, he trained late every night, but his father would insist on picking him up. I would also think, research, and discuss with him how to jump better, although my father was only a "theoretical school"
So how hard is it to be a good parent? It is difficult to go to Harvard and Stanford; it is difficult to accumulate wealth, connections, and resources for generations; but it is difficult to accompany children wholeheartedly, love children unconditionally, support and encourage children, and can also help children achieve their dreams.
Two days ago, the circle of friends of the rice grain mother was brushed by Su Yiming, and this teenager who was not yet 18 years old won the silver medal in the men's slope obstacle course of the Winter Olympics, creating the best result in the history of this event for the Chinese team!
Su Yiming is really very likable, sunny, sincere, natural.
You can tell he is passionate about skiing, confident but very humble, and has a high emotional intelligence.
Su Yiming was born in Jilin to snowboard enthusiasts, he skied with his parents at the age of 4, and when he was six or seven years old, his level had surpassed that of his parents.
At the age of 14, Su Yiming decided to become a professional snowboarder. His parents also decided to fully support him.
▲ Su Yiming was once a child star
Like Yusheng, Su Yiming has no prominent family background, but his parents have played a crucial role in his life choices and career path.
Su Yiming said, "My parents were my first teachers on the snowboard road, and without them, I would not have tried this road. My dad took me skiing until I decided to become a professional skater when I was 14 years old, and to this day I stand at the Winter Olympics and they play a very important role in my growth."
Su Yiming's parents gave him not only financial support, but also emotional support and spiritual encouragement. No matter what, his parents support his life choices and will always be his strong backing and harbor.
The love and understanding, respect and support of parents are even more important to children than the money to give.
If we want our children to embrace the world confidently, we must hug our children without reservation and give them this confidence.
Rice grain mother wants to say that this Winter Olympics, it is really not in vain.
From these excellent athletes, we see the same extraordinary parents behind them.
Some parents know how to plan, have a high vision, and can give their children a higher starting point; some parents are good enough to subtly influence their children; some parents seem ordinary, but are willing to do their best to support their children's choices...
No matter what kind of parents, it is worth examining ourselves.
▲ Gu Ailing and Su Yiming trained together in 2017, and the two also exchanged skateboarding with each other
After watching the personal achievements, educational experiences, and family backgrounds of these top Winter Olympic players, what do you feel? Do you want to lie flat for a few seconds? Hahaha~
To be honest, it is true that the impact is too big, too high.
But think about it calmly, a genius girl like Gu Ailing, people are generations of genes + efforts to reach such an all-round ceiling, we really don't need to take children and others to benchmark, take ourselves and compare ourselves with the parents of the Vine School.
Rice grain mother said more popularly, we try our best to chicken baby can become an Olympic champion? Or can you kill the chicken yourself and make your chicken the richest man?
Realistically, what can we learn from these parents?
The first is self-discipline, what kind of person we want our children to become, we must first become what kind of person. Grandma Gu Ailing is old, still insisting on running and fitness every day, what reason do we have to lie flat?
The second is to take the child to broaden the horizon, how high a person can fly, how far he can go, depends on where his vision can reach. The so-called seeing the world, in addition to walking thousands of miles, but also to read thousands of books, let children know how vast the world is, how many unknown places are waiting for us to explore, maintain awe of life, but also full of enthusiasm, constantly challenge themselves, challenge unlimited possibilities.
In these top athletes, Melee Mom saw their love of sports. Not afraid to lose, not afraid to fall, embrace fear, challenge it, overcome it.
After the first two jumps, Gu Ailing made a phone call to her mother, wanting to try the 1620 she had never skipped, her mother's suggestion was to seek stability and save the silver medal, but Gu Ailing insisted on challenging the world's highest difficulty, and her mother also respected her daughter's decision, after all, this is her game.
In fact, we Chinese have always been introverted, conservative, low-key, and I can't think of things that I am not sure of, not to mention that in the world's highest competition, I have only practiced on the air cushion for two days, and I have not even been on the snow.
But for the confident Gu Ailing, enjoying the game, doing her best, and completing the actions she wants to do well is the most important, she does not care whether she will be ugly if she fails, whether there will be doubts, and whether she will lose medals. Wanting to do it and not doing it is her biggest regret.
This kind of enthusiasm, courage and passion is really too attractive, and this strong heart, absolute confidence in ourselves, is what we should teach our children the most.
In fact, it is not that the richer and more confident, from the 17-year-old Su Yiming, the rice grain mother also saw this enthusiasm and confidence.
It's enough for me to do my best, and it doesn't matter how the referee judges.
Such a good attitude shows that he has enough confidence and trust in himself.
This requires parents to pour more love, respect and support into their children. With love as the background, children dare to stride forward and pursue the life they want.
I hope that one day, our children can also be like Gu Ailing, proudly and confidently said: other people's (dad) mom is sorry, you are not as good as my (dad) mom!
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