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Hanyu Yuzuru is caught in a divorce scandal! The ex-wife's family can't bear to break the cruel news: his mother and sister restrict the freedom of his daughter-in-law, and he is full of nonsense and has no responsibility?
It has been more than a month since Hanyu Yuzuru suddenly announced his divorce, but the divorce scandal exposed by the Japanese media "Weekly Wenchun" in the past few days has once again brought him back to the center of public opinion.
According to the revelations sent by Wen Chun the day before yesterday, the truth behind Hanyu Yuzuru's divorce is not the so-called "wanting to protect the woman from being harassed by the media", but the Hanyu family jointly restricted the woman's freedom, causing her to divorce angrily and unbearable...
The revelation also mentioned that Hanyu Yuzuru obeyed his mother's words and did not dare to resist his mother's decision, which ultimately led to him not being able to protect his wife?
After the report was released, it caused an uproar, and the person concerned, Hanyu Yuzuru, quickly denied the details in the revelation.
He personally logged on to his official account to issue a statement, saying that everything was excessive delusion, lamenting that lies and imagination could be written into reports.
At the same time, he also wrote a handwritten response letter, mentioning that since he was in his teens, he has been rumored by "related people" he has never met in person, and he should devote himself to his career rather than have the energy to deal with these rumors.
As Japan's national treasure figure skater and the only men's figure skating super-Grand Slam winner, Hanyu's achievements are nothing short of spectacular.
He has been ranked No. 1 in the world for five consecutive years, won two Olympic gold medals, and broken the world record 19 times... has brought figure skating into the field of vision of more ordinary people, and has also gained attention comparable to that of top stars.
On the evening of August 4 this year, he suddenly announced his marriage, and on the night of November 17, he suddenly announced that he was divorcing his wife who had just been married for three months. Now that the media has once again revealed his private life, it has once again subverted everyone's cognition.
Although Hanyu Yuzuru has never announced the identity of his ex-wife, as early as September 19, local media in Yamaguchi Prefecture took the lead in digging out the true identity of the woman: the daughter of the Suenobu family, who has been running a local construction company for more than 100 years, Mayuko Suenobe.
The Suobu family has a large local presence, and the grandparents' generation has close ties to the family of former Prime Minister Shinzo Abe. And Ma Yuzi started practicing at the age of 4 and is quite a well-known violinist in the industry.
And this revelation came from Ma Yuko's father's friend - 82-year-old Yasuda Masa. He is the president of a company in the cosmetics industry, and has a close relationship with the Suenobu family.
Since the death of Yuko's father in 2012, Yasuda has always regarded Yuko Asa as a daughter, which can be said to be a "guardian" in essence. In order to prove that what he said was true, he deliberately asked Wenchun Magazine to lift the anonymity protection for himself when he broke the news.
(There are a lot of photos taken with Yasuda on Masako's social media)
Yasuda mentioned that shortly after Hanyu's divorce announcement was announced, Yuko Asa and her mother visited him together. Ma Yuzi's mother looks like she has lost 20 pounds, and her whole condition is very poor.
From Yuko and Yuko Masa's mother, Masashi Yasuda learns the truth about her divorce: the Hanyu family does not respect Yuko Ma's independent personality, and Hanyu Yuzuru's mother and sister provoke Yuko in various ways and restrict Yuko Ma's freedom in life.
In fact, Yasuda received the news from Ma Yuko in March that she was about to get married, but to his surprise, Ma Yuko said that her husband's identity should be kept secret: "I'm sorry, because the other party is a world-renowned figure, and both the other party and the other party's mother have said that they want me to keep it a secret..."
Because he knows a lot about Asa Yuko's circle of friends, Yasuda was thinking about whether it would be Hanyu Yuzuru. In August, Hanyu's marriage announcement was officially announced, and he immediately echoed the cause and effect.
Yasuda said: "At first, Mayuko thought that the marriage could be successful, but the other party's parents lived next door, and her life always felt like she was being watched. ”
According to him, after marriage, Yuko Mayuko must follow the instructions of Hanyu's mother and sister, not go out for half a step, not be allowed to go out to take out the garbage, and not be allowed to contact others for no reason - "You can't be caught by the media and talk about something that you don't have." ”
Even Ma Yuzi worked hard all her life to pursue her violin career, but her mother-in-law and sister-in-law did not allow her to continue. It's not even allowed to go out to play, it's not even allowed to play in private.
Originally, Ma Yuko also had a small status in the industry, but the Hanyu family used "giving up her career" as a condition for marriage, requiring her to maintain her status as an "ordinary person".
In order to integrate into her husband's family, Ma Yuko began to try her hand at cooking and confectionery. But considering Hanyu's physical condition, her mother Yumi even had to intervene in the choice of recipes, so Mayuko's life as a wife basically has no freedom at all.
And according to Yasuda Masa, Hanyu Yuzuru, as a husband, just watched all this happen. After all, in the big and small affairs of his own life and career, he has always obeyed his mother's words and cannot resist.
Wenchun's revelations also mentioned that for Hanyu Yuzuru, his mother and sister are very important existences.
(Hanyu Yuzuru and mother Yumi)
The relationship between Hanyu Yuzuru and his mother Yumi can be described as a "mother-son connection", and he once mentioned in a previous speech: "I can communicate with my mother no matter what topic."
During his race expedition, Yumi would stay in the same room or next room to his son's hotel, help him change his T-shirt when he was sweating while Xi, and because his son had asthma, Yumi would pay attention to his diet.
The players who traveled with Hanyu also mentioned:
"His mother was often next to him, and it was difficult to talk to him. Everyone goes to eat together after the game, and Hanyu usually disappears with his mother, so I feel like I've been living in this environment all along..."
The relationship between Hanyu's siblings is also very deep, and in the photos he used in his photo album, his sister would check the scene one by one to see if his brother's facial expression was distorted at the moment of jumping. Photographers who have worked with him also mentioned that Hanyu's sister is quite strict.
Yasuda Masashi finally mentioned that he chose not to speak out anonymously because he was a brother and sister to Ma Yuko's family, and he couldn't bear to watch his goddaughter Ma Yuko, who grew up watching her, suffer such treatment.
"Our employees often talk about 'women cater to men', but in my opinion, this is not the time when men can say such things from above.
But what Hanyu did was to make his wife meet his needs. ”
Ma Yuzi couldn't stand this kind of life, and finally only thought about how to escape from the family, so she quickly chose to divorce.
Before the divorce, she also signed an agreement not to disclose any of her experiences at Hanyu's house to a third party. ”
However, in the end, what really made Yasuda decide to stand up was Hanyu Yuzuru's divorce statement. In a statement, Hanyu said that in order to protect his wife, who is an ordinary person, from media harassment, he chose to divorce.
But Yasuda is very confused:
"That was Hanyu's unauthorized offering. Because he is a celebrity, all that comes out is the other party's claims. The so-called protection of his wife from the media is all a lie. ”
"Why do you have to portray your wife as an ordinary person? She is a well-known violinist who gave up everything she had to be with him.
But he failed to bring happiness to Ma Yuzi, and I hope he can apologize well. Even the only lover he chooses in this world can't be protected, such a man is really hopeless. ”
Of course, all the above revelations are, in the final analysis, just the statements of the media and the whistleblower, and the truth is not yet known.
After the revelations caused an uproar, Hanyu Yuzuru's categorical denial also divided public opinion into two completely different factions.
Japanese netizens who think the Hanyu family's operation is outrageous said:
"What I want to ask is, does he really like his wife?
In order to marry him, the wife even gave up her career path, and as a husband, she should be responsible for everything. But now the phrase 'can't protect his wife' is abandoned?
Because it didn't go well, so I threw it away? Marriage is not a child's playhouse, can you press the restart button casually, and you can turn back into Hanyu Yuzuru, who is loved by everyone?
The modest and frank Hanyu Yuzuru who won gold at the Sochi Winter Olympics is gone.
At that time, I was still thinking about what a promising and excellent player I was. But now Hanyu Yuzuru, from the perspective of being a human being, I hate it the most. ”
This netizen said:
"After all, if you don't want to make the other party's existence public, why do you want to make a marriage announcement? Since you have made a statement, you can definitely expect the media to inquire about it, right?
Since he didn't want the other party to make it public, there was no need to tell the world that he was married. If you start with a wrong step and make a wrong step, you should judge the right time before making a statement.
There is only disappointment in Hanyu Yuzuru, the other party is really pitiful. ”
"Presumably, regarding this divorce, Hanyu Yuzuru is almost a bystander. The accusations against each other and their families were too strong, and they judged that it was impossible to continue married life, so they left the matter of "dealing with the aftermath" to their families.
If not, there is no explanation for being so cold to the other person. The so-called media stalk affecting daily life sounds like a far-fetched reason.
In any case, as a social person, it is still too immature. Even if the reason for the divorce said by the media is true, then why not protect the wife who has decided to be with you? ”
Of course, there are also many people who think that the revelation itself is unreliable.
"In Fumiharu's report, statements such as 'Hanyu is lying' and 'mother and sister forbid his ex-wife to go out' were all testified by the ex-wife's guardian with his real name, but Hanyu Yuzuru's own reply was not so clear, causing many people to believe the whistleblower.
But when I look at it, I feel that there are many problems with the impression that the whistleblower gave me. Personally, I think lawyers and law firms should be included in the response.
In addition, given that the whistleblower is Wen Chun, there may also be cases of deliberate omission and distortion of information, and in general, it depends on more specific facts. ”
"It is true that you should divorce early, this whistleblower keeps saying that the man failed to bring happiness to the woman, and asks the man to apologize, in the end, shouldn't people's happiness be pursued by themselves?
If everything is controlled by the mother and sister as the news said, then there is no chance of the marriage itself being established, right?"
"I don't think it's just one side's fault. His ex-wife is older than him and has a lot of social experience, so she must have understood his position before choosing to get married. If Hanyu failed to protect his ex-wife, it is true, but marriage is not a unilateral thing to give happiness to the other party.
It is better for both parties to notice such differences and differences in each other's thoughts through marriage, and to dissolve the marriage as soon as possible before it gets deeper.
There are suitable and unsuitable marriages. In Hanyu Yuzuru, it's just not suitable. ”
Looking at the whole breaking news, I feel that there are still quite a lot of questions. The sense of disobedience when the divorce was suddenly announced, and the statement of the woman's guardian are somewhat true... It may only be clear to the parties concerned.
However, for the two, getting involved in public opinion again after a tortuous marriage may not be what they want...
(Excerpted from the WeChat public account British newspaper sister)