Liu Zhengliang, who has advanced esophageal cancer, is already skinny and unable to stand on his own, so he asked his family to send him to the school where Yang Xinxin was studying, hoping to recognize his daughter before he died.
However, 25 years ago, Liu Zhengliang, who preferred sons to daughters, insisted on sending away his newborn little daughter, and now that his daughter is out of the woods, he is even admitted to graduate school, knowing that his father who abandoned him at this time wants to "recognize father and daughter", what decision will she make?
(1) Liu Zhengliang, who is suffering from esophageal cancer, wants to recognize his daughter who was sent away
In 1996, Liu Zhengliang and Fan Guizhou gave birth to a third daughter, and the birth of this child was not good news for Liu Zhengliang, who had always wanted a boy to pass on the lineage.
The Liu family is poor, the couple already has two daughters, Liu Zhengliang is not willing to continue to raise the third daughter to grow up, so he decided to sell it to regenerate a boy, but his wife Fan Guizhou did not agree, after all, the child is a piece that fell off the body.
If it is really because the family conditions are poor and unable to support, she wants to find a good family for the child, she can still accept it, but the reason for selling the child is because the husband prefers sons to daughters.
"Our Liu family's incense can't be broken here, and if we don't sell this child, how can we have a son again?" Liu Zhengliang is very insistent on his ideas.
The mother-in-law also pointed at Fan Guizhou and scolded, "If you don't always have a daughter, how can our family always have no boys? ”
After the quarrel was fruitless, Fan Guizhou could only watch as Liu Zhengliang and his mother-in-law found an intermediary to sell the child to a family, and the daughter she had worked hard to give birth to in October was only worth 200 yuan and a pound of cloth.
Liu Zhengliang's fourth child is also a daughter, Fan Guizhou really has no way to continue to endure the endless accusations and scolding of her husband and mother-in-law, and is more worried that her young daughter will be sold shortly after birth, and she chose to end her marriage with Liu Zhengliang in 2001.
The court sentenced the youngest daughter Li Lan to her mother, the first two daughters lived with Liu Zhengliang, Fan Guizhou because of the psychological shadow that has always been unwilling to intersect with the Liu family, she lived alone with her daughter, Liu Zhengliang has not been married.
In 2021, Liu Zhengliang suddenly fell ill in the process of work, and when he was sent to the hospital for examination, he found that he had advanced esophageal cancer, and Liu Zhengliang's condition did not improve during the hospitalization, but deteriorated day by day.
Today, he is wearing a wide hospital gown, lying alone in a hospital bed, and advanced esophageal cancer has prevented him from eating like a normal person, suffering from pain and suffering from illness, and can only rely on infusions to survive.
Liu Zhengliang knew that his time was short, and during his illness, in addition to not being able to rest assured of his children in his family, he was most worried about his third daughter who had been sent away by him.
Liu Zhengliang took advantage of his sanity to call the children to the hospital bed, "When I was young, I didn't understand things, I only hoped to have a son and continue the incense in the family, at that time, the family conditions were poor and could no longer afford to raise a child to grow up, so I gave my daughter away." ”
The two daughters gathered around the hospital bed to watch their father's emaciated appearance was very painful, and even Li Lan, who lived with her mother, heard the news and rushed to cry in front of her father's hospital bed, "Dad, we will fulfill any wishes you have!" ”
Liu Zhengliang sighed, "Now that I have esophageal cancer, there are not many days in the advanced stage, and my biggest wish is to recognize my third daughter and listen to her call daddy." ”
Several children wanted their father to die without regrets, they contacted the reporter, and even found their uncle through the information provided by their father, and the uncle was also aware of the fact that the third daughter was given away.
The uncle looked at the reporter with several children to come to him and already knew why they came, "Over the years I have been paying attention to the news of the third elder, my friend is a colleague of the third adoptive parent, through him can learn the information of the adoptive parents." ”
Li Lan's uncle found the original friend, they inquired clearly that the third elder was adopted by Yang Yiwen, and after adoption, he changed his name to Yang Xinxin, the Yang family and his wife are both teachers, kind and amiable, although the family is not rich, but Yang Xinxin is raised as his own daughter.
Under the careful cultivation of the Yang family's parents, Yang Xinxin has excellent academic performance and a lively and cheerful personality, and now Yang Xinxin has just ended up in the sky, and she is also admitted to a graduate school of a famous brand school.
(2) The Liu family wanted to recognize their relatives but were rejected by their adoptive father
"Yang Xinxin's family is living very happily now, and since you have already decided to give her away, you should be prepared not to contact her again in this life, so why bother with their peaceful life now?"
The uncle's friend did not recommend that they go to Yang Yiwen's family, but when they learned that the child's biological father had advanced esophageal cancer, the only last wish was to see his daughter again, or to tell them Yang Xinxin's current address.
Because Liu Zhengliang was unable to move, the initial communication was carried out by his uncle with three children, and Yang Yiwen was very resistant to the people of the Liu family, and he was even more explicitly unwilling to let them find relatives.
But now Liu Zhengliang's health is getting worse and worse, and the time to wake up every day is also limited, and they also know that it is impolite to take the initiative to disturb the Yang family's life, but they have to go this way.
The uncle took the reporter to Yang Yiwen's home, and Yang Yiwen, who opened the door, saw so many people standing at the door, and he couldn't help but be stunned for a moment, and asked in a bad tone, "Why are you here again?" He was afraid that these people would continue to knock on the door, disturbing his neighbors, and he had no choice but to let them in.
"Their family just wanted the child to recognize her at this time, but we took the formal adoption route at that time, and over the years we worked hard to raise her on Yang Xinxin, and even more for her to study and work, why let Liu Jia come and recognize her now!" Yang Yiwen spat bitterly at reporters.
Moreover, these days, the uncle of the Liu family has repeatedly disturbed his normal life, which has completely affected his normal life, and Yang Yiwen is also afraid that their arrival has affected his daughter's mentality.
"This kind of unearned behavior is really unreasonable, and they don't think about it at all from the perspective of the child, although Liu Zhengliang has advanced esophageal cancer, but I don't think this is the reason why they can carry out moral kidnapping and have to recognize Xinxin."
However, the news provided by Liu Jia to the reporter was that they had no choice but to send their daughter to be adopted because of the poverty of the family, and the two insisted on sending and adopting each other, and did not give in to each other, and all the adoption process said by the uncle and the family was denied by Yang Yiwen on the spot.
In order to be able to let them leave their homes as soon as possible, Yang Yiwen can only tell what happened 25 years ago, "This child was placed at the door of my building at that time, my wife and I thought she was abandoned by whom, and it was the police, and it was waiting for several days to find the child's biological parents, and finally took Xinxin to go through the formal adoption procedures, for many years we got along like family, although there is no blood relationship, but the child has no difference from our own birth!" ”
Seeing that Liu's uncle and Yang Yiwen were about to start a fight, the reporter and several children quickly separated them, and the reporter told Yang Yiwen that Yang Xinxin's biological father was now in the late stage of esophageal cancer, and time was running out, and the last wish was to see his daughter who was abandoned, seeing Yang Yiwen's face turn blue, and Liu's uncle opened his mouth.
"Although you raised your child with painstaking efforts, you can't hide her identity, if one day Xinxin knows that her father wants to see her before he dies, but if he misses this opportunity, will he regret it for the rest of his life, you love Xinxin so much, naturally you can't bear to see her live in guilt, right?"
Seeing Yang Yiwen's look loosened, the Uncle liu family quickly followed the opening while it was hot, "If you agree, we can take out 50,000 yuan for paternity testing, after proving that Xinxin is the child of the Liu family, I hope you can allow Xinxin and Liu Zhengliang to meet." ”
As soon as this came out, Yang Yiwen simply drove them out of the Yang family, and said that Yang Xinxin had nothing to do with the Liu family, and they had found the wrong family.
The group could only go home and ask Liu Zhengliang whether he remembered the details of the original adoption, and finally asked Liu Zhengliang's mother and Fan Guizhou before finding the original intermediary, and through the intermediary, it was determined that Yang Xinxin was the daughter of the Liu family who was sent away at that time.
(3) Liu Zhengliang's attempt to see his daughter before his death was refused
After determining Yang Xinxin's identity, everyone was relieved, but difficulties followed, and no one could be sure that Yang Xinxin would be willing to see Liu Zhengliang, after all, Yang Xinxin and Liu Zhengliang had been separated for 25 years, and they had never known that they were children raised by the Yang family.
The Uncle Liu family and the reporter decided to go back to tell Liu Zhengliang the news of finding Yang Xinxin first, and also took a photo of Yang Xinxin provided by the teacher and brought it back to Liu Zhengliang to see, Liu Zhengliang spoke intermittently at this time.
He struggled to open his eyes to look at the girl in the photo, because Yang Xinxin and the other three daughters looked very similar, so Liu Zhengliang recognized her as his daughter at a glance, and the seriously ill old man begged everyone to take him to see his daughter.
In September 2021, the reporter and Liu's uncle came to Yang Xinxin's university campus where she was studying for graduate school, contacted her supervisor, and explained the reason for coming, hoping that the teacher could help them talk with Yang Xinxin, let Yang Xinxin and Liu Zhengliang meet, and the teacher agreed to their request after learning the cause and effect of the matter.
Yang Xinxin was told by her teacher that she was a child adopted by her current parents, and that her biological father was now suffering from advanced esophageal cancer for a long time, and her last wish was to see her.
Two days later, Yang Xinxin told the teacher that she promised to meet Liu Zhengliang, and the uncle of the Liu family immediately took Liu Zhengliang to the school where his daughter was studying, although Liu Zhengliang was already weak and could not walk and sit normally, but when he thought of seeing his daughter, he still had a strong spirit.
Even Liu Zhengliang's ex-wife Fan Guizhou came overnight, 25 years of separation made her heart like a knife, and now she has the opportunity to see her own daughter, how can she miss it?
After everyone came to the school and did not see Yang Xinxin as desired, her tutor told reporters apologetically, "Xinxin has been learning and excellent sunshine in school, after learning that her biological father wants to recognize her, she was once very resistant, and her mood was very low, although she nodded and agreed to meet, but Xinxin has been very afraid, I just found her hiding in the corner alone and crying loudly, this matter is still too big for the child, it is impossible to face it for a while, if we must force her to come out to meet now, it is unfair to Xinxin." ”
At this time, everyone already knew that Yang Xinxin would not come out to meet, Liu Zhengliang lay alone in a chair with weak tears, "I know that I will never see Yang Xinxin again in this life, I don't want her to live in pain, forget about the things I met, this life is my sorry for her."
After saying this passage, Liu Zhengliang exhausted all his strength, he closed his eyes and left the world, until he died he could not see the last side of the third daughter, Yang Xinxin's biological mother Fan Guizhou had already cried into tears, she blamed herself for not being able to protect the child well, and even more heartbroken may not be able to see her daughter again in the future.
Although Liu Zhengliang left with regrets, but now the result is caused by his own hands, if he did not have the idea of preferring sons to daughters, he would have raised Yang Xinxin well when he was born, fulfilled the responsibilities of a father, and now he will not regret it for life.
Some people will think that Yang Xinxin's adoptive parents are too cruel, do not agree to do paternity testing, and even more do not let Liu Zhengliang and his daughter recognize each other, but from the perspective of Yang Xinxin's adoptive parents, they have worked hard to raise a small baby to a young girl, and they have spent countless efforts and money for her to study, giving her a complete and happy family, at this time, how can they tolerate Liu Zhengliang, who abandoned Yang Xinxin, to come to recognize her?
Yang Xinxin, in any case, is also a 25-year-old girl, who always thought she had a happy family before Liu Zhengliang came to her, but was told overnight that her parents were adoptive parents.
Her biological father was terminally ill after abandoning her and wanted to recognize her back, if it weren't for the inability to accept this blow and the emotional breakdown, how could Yang Xinxin not come out to meet?
No one can understand how painful Yang Xinxin is now, after returning home, the Yang family and his wife intimately comforted their daughter and told Yang Xinxin, "No matter what happens in the future, you will always be our biological daughter, this is a fact that blood cannot change." ”
With the accompaniment and explanation of her parents, Yang Xinxin gradually recovered her emotions, regained her strength and returned to school, and decided not to contact the Liu family again in the future, after all, they did not fulfill their responsibilities and obligations of raising themselves after they were born.
Yang Xinxin decided that the only one who would be filial piety after graduating from graduate school and entering the work was Yang Yiwen and his wife, and she was unwilling to do something that made Yang Yiwen and his wife sad, after all, the grace of parenting was greater than the sky.