As my parents grew older and their children grew older, I found myself under more and more pressure, and sometimes even haggard.
I am the only daughter in the family, because my parents are deaf and mute, my parents have a slight discomfort in their bodies, I have to run the hospital alone, and sometimes my husband will help take care of the elderly when he is not busy.
I remember many years ago when I was a little girl, when my mother needed an operation, when I resigned without hesitation, I took my mother to Hangzhou, and then from surgery to discharge alone in the hospital to take care of my mother for more than half a month, I did not regret resigning, because the job was gone to find again, my mother needed me.
Now that I am married and have children, I have financial pressure and family constraints. Recently, dad's chest hurt and his head hurt, because it was deaf and mute, I went to the local hospital several times in succession and couldn't diagnose it, I could only take my dad back to my current home, and then get up at five o'clock in the morning every day, and then take the bus to the hospital together, because the waiter is working in two shifts, I have to rush to work when the hospital comes out, and then every day is like this, every day is tired and exhausted.
I sometimes think that if I have brothers and sisters around, I can at least take the handle, so that I will not go around alone, and I will always take leave to affect my work.
Now with a child family, do not dare to resign easily, because there is no financial resources to live will become tight, when the elderly need me, I also need a job to maintain my daily expenses, after all, my husband and I are migrant workers, did not say that there is a ability to make a lot of money, can only say that to live.
There are old people on the top and small on the bottom, which is the problem that many people will face in the future.
At this time, I hope that my parents can be healthy and disease-free, if there is something I really can't get out, resignation means that there is no source of economy, but the sick elderly need to be taken care of, at this time will feel that life is very desperate and helpless, and will feel unprecedented fatigue.
I sometimes wonder why my parents are disabled, even if one person is normal, how easy it is for me to be able to relax, or how good it is for me to have brothers and sisters to help me take turns to take care of them.
The adult world is really helpless, especially the only child, the pressure is really great, in fact, I think that today's young people can have more children, although it is hard to raise, but when the children grow up, when they are old, they are slowly getting older, I think children are also a kind of happiness, the pressure on a person is also too great for children, and it will be much better to have brothers and sisters to bear together, whether it is energy or money.