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As the old saying goes, "The year is hard, the days are hard." ”
Prosperous people, the internet of all things, the more to the end of the year, the more the worldly chaos.
The stronger the taste of the year, the more rituals there are, and the more complicated the chores.
How a person's character is, it is also exposed in the details.
"The present is in the matter, and the heart is hidden in the body."
Seemingly inconspicuous small things and details can best reflect a person's character and see a person's cultivation.
People who know how to clear accounts in a timely manner are more trustworthy
The world is bustling, all for profit; the world is bustling, all are for profit.
People interact with each other, and they are rarely allowed to deal with money.
Near the end of the year, many friends have opened a fancy "collection" mode:
"Put down all the reasons, please feel free to send money, thank you."
"Every amount of money owed comes from trust, and every dunning is a last resort."
"The account, do not ask to settle, very touched; a question on the settlement, next time how to owe do not worry!"
Clearing accounts years ago is our principle, and it is also a tacit understanding of your fellowship..."
Collecting arrears has become the most important event in the New Year, which not only affects the livelihood of the coming year, but also affects the evaluation of a person.
Whether you know friends or meet in Pingshui, always treat people with sincerity and know how to clear accounts in time, which is the performance of good character.
If you blindly take and lose your integrity, it is like water without a source and a wood without a root, and it is difficult to go to the long term.
In the hit drama "Win or Lose", there is such a farce:
Entrepreneur Cao Tianyou ordered a batch of servers from Jieke Company, but he did not pay the final payment for a long time.
Zhou Rui had to take a few sales department employees to ask for debts, but Boss Cao blindly played rogues.
After several arguments, he finally got into the police station.
"Borrow money to see people's hearts, and repay money to see people's character."
People live all their lives, and everyone has a time when they don't have enough money.
When you encounter urgent things, difficult things, and big things, it is trust in yourself to have someone lend you money.
If the debt is not repaid, not only the character is lost, but also a vicious circle.
In his book Trust: Social Virtue and the Creation of Economic Prosperity, francis Fukuyama, a well-known American political scientist, points out:
"The biggest difference between trust-based virtues and social relations based on legal norms is that the former can save a lot of transactional costs."
Trust has a shelf life, and there is a countdown to clearing accounts.
"The New Year is not clear, and the next year is not credited."
Don't be blinded by the temporary gains and losses, know how to pay off the accounts at the New Year, is to explain to the other party, more reassuring to yourself.
If you really have to, don't play missing, the phone is not answered, WeChat is not returned, and it is easy to lose the trust of others in you.
Facing the accounts calmly and taking responsibility bravely, can we "get more help" and become the hardest core card of a person.
"Golden mountains and silver mountains, born not to bring, to go and not to take away; the power is in the sky, after a hundred years, all return to dust."
Look down on desire, look at the long term, treat people with sincerity, and stand up with character, in order to calmly celebrate the New Year and go steady and far.
People who know how to "exchange courtesies and courtesies" are more respected
As the saying goes, "It's not strange to be polite." ”
Celebrating the New Year is not only a tradition, but also a science.
There is a saying on the Internet:
"The most valuable gifts contain the essence of warm relationships, and if the worldly value of money and financial resources is mixed in, the essence of the gift will fade."
Spring Festival gifts, do not show off, do not mix interests, but to build on the basis of sincerity.
Gift-giving that does not touch the bottom line is the performance of good character, and can make interpersonal relationships more harmonious and harmonious.
In the novel Maggie's Gift, Jim and Della are a small couple.
Jim has an ancestral gold watch and Della has beautiful hair.
Christmas is coming, and in order to prepare gifts for each other, the couple has their brains up their heads.
Jim sold the gold watch and bought Della a comb made of "pure tortoiseshell with jewelry on the edges."
Della cut off her waterfall-like hair and bought Jim a precious white gold bracelet.
Although in the end, their gifts seem to have lost their meaning.
But this couple is willing to give up their most precious things for each other, and such a "gift" is not the most precious?
The Little Prince writes:
"The sense of ceremony is to make a certain day different from other days, to make a certain moment different from other moments."
A good life requires the initiative to create some sense of ritual.
Especially in such a festive and peaceful moment as the New Year, a simple gift and a little surprise can make this Spring Festival extra warm and meaningful.
Life is the sea, the sun rises and sets.
Between people, gifts are the best link to express greetings and convey feelings.
Those unspoken thanksgiving are hidden in carefully prepared gifts; those strong cares and love are condensed in a small gift box.
"Luoyang relatives and friends ask each other, a piece of ice heart in the jade pot."
With a small gift, to the people who have cared, helped, and supported themselves in the past year, sincerely say "thank you", just fine.
People who know how to visit relatives and friends pay more attention to feelings
Someone on the Internet asked: "Why don't young people like to visit relatives and friends?" ”
One netizen replied:
"Sometimes I don't like strange greetings, sometimes I compare myself with others.
This contrast will become a talking point for relatives and friends, both stressing parents and making them feel uncomfortable.
Over time, this kind of relative will be rejected. ”
Indeed, when visiting relatives and friends, it is inevitable that it will involve children's work and marriage promotion, so that the original valuable contact time has become a comparison and competition with each other.
But from another point of view, it is not only an exchange of resources and experiences, but also a rare emotional maintenance and nostalgia release.
Coupled with the impact of the epidemic, many people have not gone home for many years to see, and more and more relatives at home are really seeing each other less.
If conditions permit, it is still necessary to move around more. Visit more and make more contact.
Especially for some distant relatives, the daily busyness not only reduces the contact with each other, but also makes the feelings much lighter.
Visiting the door, reminiscing about the past, eating and eating, sharing your thoughts, and expressing your concern.
Let the nostalgia and concern that have been hidden in the heart be able to express it freely; also give the days of busy chasing, learn to press the pause button.
My cousin was wandering away all year round, and in the past few years, in order to pay off his mortgage, he always worked overtime, and he was reluctant to buy a train ticket to go home during the New Year's Festival.
In the past few years, life has been a little better, and he has temporarily closed the shop early and returned to the seaside town.
As soon as he got home, he went around visiting relatives and friends.
Make dumplings with grandma and touch grandma's wrinkled face.
Get a few small drinks and talk about fun things about school.
Visit a few uncles in business and hear their business experience...
He said with emotion:
"I always feel like a migratory bird when I'm outside, and I feel like I've found a habitat when I go home."
"The little boy left home and returned to the old man, and the township tone did not change the sideburns."
No matter where you go and how far you go, the most familiar is still the hometown sound, and the closest is still relatives.
The more you get to the end of the year, take good protection and visit distant relatives who have not been seen for many years.
In this life, but a few decades of time, it is not long to say that it is not long, and it is not short to say that it is short.
Cherish the limited time and get together with relatives and friends, so that the busy days can have a little more of a happy reunion background.
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Mr. Lao She wrote in the article "New Year":
"In the busy city, in the crowd of people in a hurry, the taste of the new year is getting weaker and weaker, and sometimes it is the New Year immediately, and I remember it."
The New Year is approaching, and it is not only the "Year", but also the "Off".
People often say: "Appreciation of a person begins with appearance, in line with character, for a long time than kindness, and finally on character." ”
People live a lifetime, ability determines how fast you go, character determines how far you can go.
The more you get to the end of the year, the more you can see a person's character.
People who can settle their debts know how to understand the difficulties of others; those who know how to give gifts and thanks have a grateful heart; people who do not forget to visit relatives and friends will not forget their original intentions.
When the character crosses the threshold, the annual pass will not become a "difficulty".
May you and I be able to correct our mentality, pay attention to character, think about ourselves in the first half of the night, think about others in the second half of the night, and live a happy and peaceful year.
Taste the beauty and sorrow of life
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In order to present the most perfect lesson listening experience to everyone, Ms. Jingjing personally carefully selected the world's best version of the music repertoire, interspersed with the plot for everyone to enjoy. She will deeply analyze the music, plot, characters, era background, composer anecdotes and other interesting things, and ridicule western "serious" opera from the perspective of a young artist after the 80s and a first-line actress active on the opera stage. Listening to beautiful arias and learning about the moving story behind the music, will you fall in love with opera on the spot?