Text: Xinghua Archives
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Preface
What's going on now, the victim still has to be scolded, is it still a cyber attack if he is secretly photographed? What kind of distorted psychology are those who candid photographers? There are even people who use "he is still young" as an argument to ask the person concerned to let go of the boy who secretly photographed others, it is precisely because the child of this age is still in the stage of establishing the correct three views, so the requirements for him should be stricter, only in this way can he realize his mistake. Besides, is it true that a student who is already in high school does not understand anything? They also have their own female families, and age is definitely not the criterion for judging quality and bottom line.
The event passed
On May 12, as the incident of a boy secretly photographing the bottom of a girl's skirt in a shopping mall gradually fermented, it aroused widespread attention from all walks of life. An 18-year-old high school student in Hangzhou was caught by the girl on the spot after being found secretly photographing the bottom of the girl's skirt in a shopping mall, and then according to the notice issued by the boy's middle school, the boy had taken the initiative to go to the public security organ to surrender accompanied by his parents.
At first, a blogger named "Futakou Udon" described what happened in the form of a self-report on social platforms. The blogger said that he was shopping in a shopping mall and suddenly felt that something was wrong, so he turned his head to look over and found a boy secretly filming his upskirt at an extremely obscene angle. After the girl found out, she did not dare to speak up to defend her rights because she was afraid of making a public announcement, but chose to confront the boy in person and ask him loudly if he had secretly filmed.
The boy was then so frightened that he quickly apologized, and when the girl asked to open the phone to check it, he also stammered due to weakness, just saying that he was wrong. Under the pressure of the girls, the male high school student finally turned on his mobile phone slowly, and sure enough, he found a large number of photos or videos of secretly taking the bottom of the girl's skirt in the album. The male high school student was also afraid that he would be exposed, so he kept saying: Sister, I'm sorry, I was wrong, I was wrong. But what's the use of apologizing? In doing so, he should pay for his actions! 18 years old is not a child, he is already an adult, not to mention that no matter how young a child is, he cannot use age as a shield to erase his mistakes, and the cases of various juvenile crimes some time ago are the best examples.
The girl also bought the boy's apology, but asked the student: Have you studied in vain for so many years? I'm going to make you remember it for a long time this time, do you really think I'm a vegetarian? Although the boys have deleted these indecent videos, they should be punished if they do something wrong, not to mention that children of this age know everything, and if they are not disciplined, they will really hurt him because of everyone's temporary soft-heartedness. Of course, although the girl was very angry at the behavior of the male high school student and posted it on the Internet, she did not disclose the boy's appearance and name, but only wanted to teach the boy a lesson.
Public opinion ferments
The video was released on the Internet by the girl, which sparked heated discussions among the majority of netizens, and some netizens picked up his school according to the boy's school uniform, and the school involved has also restricted comments due to the influence of public opinion. The reason why the girl made the incident public was also in the hope that the boy's parents would be able to contact her and get a public apology from the school and students. Of course, any school has good students and students of low moral character, and you can't go up to school because of that.
I thought that with the boy's voluntary surrender, the matter would end here, but what was unthinkable was that the comments under the blogger's account simply made people feel that the three views exploded, obviously she was secretly photographed, and the victim was also her, but there are always people who put the set of "victim guilt theory" up and think that the girl's dress is too revealing, and even judge that she is not a legitimate professional person according to the girl's outfit that day, the Internet is not an illegal place, and not believing or spreading rumors is the most basic requirement of every netizen.
Now that the weather is getting hotter and hotter, according to those people, should girls wear long clothes and trousers so that they will not be harmed? But how many victims of similar cases have not been scantily clad or have been harassed to varying degrees, the most famous Tangshan beating case must have not been forgotten, those girls did not wear miniskirts, nor did they wear beautiful makeup, but the result? They experienced inhuman torture after the other party's request for WeChat was refused, which caused huge social repercussions at the time. Is it necessary to use this set of arguments to restrict girls' freedom of dressing?
The party broke the news
Many people feel that this boy has surrendered himself, and the girl should be forgiving and forgiving. But as the saying goes, you won't feel pain if the board doesn't fall on you, and the blogger broke the news that this is not the case. It is understood that the boy who secretly filmed himself did not turn himself in immediately after the accident, but obtained the girl's contact information and information through improper channels with the help of his parents. And the boy's father also called the girl in a very tough tone and asked her to delete the video, the editor wants to say that if it is really for the good of the child, he should let him remember it for a long time through this matter, and never commit it again in the future.
Finally, I would like to say
Age is not an umbrella for making mistakes, not to mention that 18 years old is no longer a minor, don't use the theory of victim's guilt to harm the victim twice, no snowflake is innocent during an avalanche. Many people think that the boy is just a student and that the person concerned should forgive him. But precisely because he is only a student, the requirements for him should be stricter, because it already involves the violation of the privacy of others, and since he can do such a thing, he should bear legal responsibility for his own actions. This incident also tells us that when our own rights and interests are violated, we must bravely take up legal weapons to protect our legitimate rights and interests, and only those who do the wrong thing can be punished.
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