A person living in the world often encounters some unsatisfactory things, either others do not understand, or others force themselves to do something they do not want to do.
At this time, people are easy to be angry, unhappy, depressed, pessimistic, and the whole person is in a very irritable state. At this time, what to do?
For example, doing self-media is sometimes very slow, a fan of more than 2 million said that he wrote every day, few people can understand, he wrote for 5 years, did not earn a penny, but he is still insisting. In the seventh year, finally earning many, many years, he returned home for the first time.
In the accumulation period of a person's career, this is the case, some people see that there is no income for half a year, they do not want to insist; some people see that there is no income for a year, they give up; some people insist on 2 years, and then give up. There are very, very few people who can persist for more than 6 years and have no income.
Sometimes, when doing things, others simply can't understand it. After all, others have not seen anyone make money through this matter. Only when they see it with their own eyes will they believe that someone can make money by doing things seriously.
For example, in the New Year, some people like to call every relative in their hometown, make their own phone calls, and ask others to call as well. If you don't call, you don't understand things.
Sometimes, these people don't know each other, have never met, what the other party does, what they like, they don't know anything, they have nothing to say. He was asked to call to pay homage to the New Year.
A friend also told him that once, when his relatives were in trouble, he borrowed money everywhere, and sometimes he really didn't have any money and didn't want to borrow. He said directly: give 1,000 yuan, and you will not need to pay them back in the future.
As a result, the old man in the family said: "1,000 yuan is too little, absolutely not, must give 5,000 yuan." However, there is really no money, and to give money you have to use your credit card to withdraw cash, and the interest rate is very high.
The old talent does not matter, anyway, whether you have money or not, you must give 5,000 yuan. Rural people don't earn money and don't know that money won't come easily.
As a result, many years have passed and there is no repayment. It doesn't come out at all. The friend is angry again in his heart, and there is no way.
A person has experienced many things, and the more he knows, the more he knows that there are nine times out of ten that life is not satisfactory. Only a few things can be satisfactory.
In life, a person still has a long-term goal, as well as a thunderous goal to be completed every day, and work hard every day. This goal is more important than anything else.
For example, how many words to write, do not dare to encounter anything unsatisfactory, or insist on completing the goal of each day. Go according to your own goals, don't care what others think, don't tell others your goals, just keep doing them.
Some things, do as you please, do not have to listen to others.
If the elderly in the family want to lend money to relatives, let them use their own money, not their children's money to lend to others.
On the way to complete the goal, all the unsatisfactory things will be forgotten and not paid attention to for a long time.