I think: when I am young, it is a good time to increase my knowledge, and I should study hard, work well, and better serve the people. I also thought about it this way: I grew up under the guidance of the party, and I didn't need to worry about my marriage problems...
------ Lei Feng
The concept of love is people's fundamental views and attitudes towards the issue of love and marriage, and is an important part of the concept of life. People of different eras, different nationalities, and different cultural backgrounds have great differences in their understanding of love issues, and even people of the same era have completely different views on love because of their different personal experiences, cultivation, personality, moral realm, and family background. Therefore, establishing a noble concept of love under the guidance of socialist moral principles is not only the requirement of society and the times, but also the need for our healthy growth and happiness and love.
Lei Feng's life was short, and he had mutual feelings with the opposite sex, accounting for very little of his entire life
By understanding Lei Feng's story and reading Lei Feng's diary, people can understand Lei Feng's attitude and views on love, which, like other aspects, also shines with the light of communist thought.
In Lei Feng's story, three things related to heterosexual interactions can be found.
Lei Feng presented a photo of Wang Peiling
The first thing happened when Lei Feng responded to the party's call to go from Tuanshan Lake Farm to Northeast Angang Steel to support industrial construction. At that time, Wang Peiling, alias "your sister Huang Li", wrote a heartfelt parting message to Lei Feng: "You are brave and intelligent, wise, far-sighted, clear-minded, comprehensive in view of problems, innocent and lively, and cute." You have inner beauty and external beauty... You deserve more admiration, a rare ,...... among young people. I hope that in the cause of building communism, you will spread your light and enthusiasm to all of China and the world, let people know your name, and make people love you and admire you... Brother, go ahead! The future is great and bright. Because my sister's culture was too low, she couldn't write out everything I wanted to say in my heart, so I had to stop writing. ”
Afterwards, the party Concerned, Wang Peiling, came forward to clarify that the two people were only talking about the relationship between colleagues.
It is said that this is a photo given by Lei Feng to a female worker when working in Angang Steel
The second thing is that when Lei Feng was working in Angang Steel, he and a girl who came to Angang from Wangcheng, Hunan Province, cared for each other and were considerate of each other in their work and study, and formed a deep friendship.
The third thing is that when Lei Feng was on a mission in the Tieling Mountains, the female captain of the production team and the secretary of the regiment branch of the resident production team gradually developed a love for Lei Feng because of the name of Long Mu Lei Feng, tried to get close to Lei Feng, and wanted his mother to find someone to mention him. There was an enthusiastic lady who sought out Lei Feng for this matter and agreed on a time and place for them to meet. For this reason, the instructor talked to Lei Feng individually and made demands on Lei Feng. Lei Feng immediately said to the instructor: "You can rest assured! I will handle this matter well, and I will not do anything that violates organizational discipline. After that, Lei Feng looked for an opportunity to politely refuse the kindness of the eldest lady.
After this incident, Lei Feng wrote in a diary on July 29, 1962: "Today, the instructor talked to me. He said: "Comrade Lei Feng, since you left the company in March to carry out the transport task alone in Xiashibei Mountain, your work is very active, your sense of political responsibility is strong, the task has been completed very well, you have driven more than 4,000 kilometers safely without accidents, and at the same time you have done a lot of good things for the people. That's good, to keep going... However, now some people have reflected that you are talking about love with a female comrade, is there such a thing? You have a good talk. ”
From the inside out, I didn't make love to any female comrade. When the instructor asked this question, I felt inexplicable and did not know where the wind came from. Chiefs often teach us that no matter where we go, we must set strict demands on ourselves and not violate the law and discipline. I will never forget these words, and I will not knowingly commit them.
I think: when I am young, it is a good time to increase my knowledge, and I should study hard, work well, and better serve the people. I also thought about it this way: I grew up under the guidance of the party, and I didn't need to worry about my marriage problems...
Now, some comrades say that I talk about love without any basis and are completely misunderstood. I am a Communist Party member, and I cannot reject the reactions and opinions of others, even if it is only 0.5 percent correct, I must accept them with an open mind. Some comrades do not understand me yet. Wronged me, made me feel a little wronged. This is nothing, and if you do a revolution, you are not afraid of being wronged. "I didn't do anything wrong, I wasn't afraid of ghosts knocking on the door", I don't have this thing, I'm not afraid of people saying it.
"If there is one, change it, and if there is none, it will be encouraged." Things will always be clear, let the organization test me. ”
The only bit of Lei Feng's life experience of interacting with the opposite sex can be said to be very ordinary, however, these ordinary things can see through Lei Feng's noble view of love that is responsible for herself and others.
Lei Feng can correct the relationship between love and career, and put love in a correct position
When talking about marriage and love several times, Lei Feng did not say: "I am only eighteen years old, it is still early", that is, "We are all still young, it is still early to talk about this kind of thing." Eighteen or nineteen years old, twenty years old or so began to deal with the problem of marriage and love, which can not be said to be very early at that time. But Lei Feng thinks it is early, why? Lei Feng answered this question in a diary about marriage and love, the diary wrote: "When I am young, it is a good time to increase my knowledge, and I should study hard, work well, and better serve the people." It can be seen that Lei Feng first pursues the cause, and in the relationship between love and the cause, Lei Feng puts the cause of the party and the people in the first place, and makes his love obey the requirements of the party and the people's cause. Love is beautiful and happy, and it is also a serious life issue in front of people. Love is the love between men and women, but it is by no means just a matter between individuals, love has always been influenced and restricted by the social system, influenced and restricted by people's political attitudes.
Lei Feng's attitude towards love is serious, responsible, and can properly handle love issues
When Lei Feng was in Angang, he had contact with the girl who came from Wangcheng. But because the time is shorter, and because Lei Feng always puts study and work in the first place, there is no further development of emotions. Lei Feng did not write tender words on the notebook given to the girl, but wrote neatly: "Remember, the boat can ride the wind and waves to move forward." Man, can overcome difficulties to survive" aphorism. This cannot be done without a serious attitude that unites love with life and social responsibility.
Lei Feng's serious attitude towards love and marriage is very instructive for us. Love is happy, but at the same time love also contains social responsibility, and the correct handling of love problems itself is a social responsibility. Each of us should be like Lei Feng, have a serious attitude towards love and marriage, be able to unify love and social responsibility, and correctly think about and deal with the problems of love and marriage.