It is difficult to find a confidant in a lifetime

There is a young girl in the town, pregnant, and her parents force the girl to ask who the father of the child is. The girl was forced to be helpless, saying that the child's father was a senior monk in a nearby temple, and after the child was born, the family held the child and found the senior monk.

　　The monk only said, "That's it!" He silently took the child. Since then, the monks have been carrying their children from house to house every day to beg for milk. The town exploded and said anything. The monks were pointed out and even insulted.

　　A year later, the girl could not bear the torment of her heart and admitted that the child's father was another person and had nothing to do with the monk. The young girl and her family were ashamed to find the monk, and saw that the monk was very emaciated, but the child was white and fat. The girl was full of guilt. The monk replied faintly, "That's right! "Then he returned the child to the maiden."

　　The monk was discredited by the wrongdoing, but he never defended himself, why? The monk said, "The monks regard fame and fortune as something outside of the body. It doesn't matter if I'm misunderstood. I can solve the girl's dilemma, and it is a good thing to save a small life. When we are misunderstood, we spend a lot of time defending ourselves. But it didn't work. No one will listen, no one wants to listen. People make judgments based on their own hearing and understanding, and everyone is actually very stubborn. If he understands you, he will understand you from the beginning, understand you from beginning to end, instead of listening to your argument and understanding, instead of trying to reverse the judgment of others, it is better to suffer in silence and give others a little more time and space. Save the effort of justification to realize your own longer life value. Crossing people is like crossing oneself. Crossing is also a ferryman

If you can't see it, you carry it on your back.

If you can't put it down, just remember.

Reluctantly, just keep it.

Wait for the day...

I can't move my back, I can see it!

I can't remember clearly, so I put it down!

If you can't keep it, you'll give it up!

So don't worry too much about some things, open one eye, close one eye, and it will pass. Cherish the person in front of you and do the right thing in front of you. Everything is wonderful!

Cloudy, it doesn't have to rain.

Breaking up is not necessarily the saddest.

Disappointment, not necessarily despair.

Facing, not necessarily the saddest.

Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy.

To have it, it doesn't have to be guarded.

Silence, not necessarily indifference.

Failure does not necessarily mean giving up.

Miracles don't necessarily not appear.

Hate, not necessarily for a lifetime.

To lose, not necessarily to no longer have.

Rely on yourself in everything:

1. Meet someone who loves you and learn to be grateful;

Meet someone you love and learn to give.

2. Meet someone you hate and learn to forgive;

Meet someone who hates you and learn to apologize.

3. Meet someone who appreciates you and learn to be grateful;

Meet someone you admire and learn to praise.

4. Meet people who are jealous of you and learn to keep a low profile;

Meet someone you are jealous of and learn to transform.

5. Meet people who don't understand you, learn to communicate;

Meet someone you don't understand and learn to ask for advice.

　Having someone who understands you is the greatest happiness. This person may not be perfect, but he can read you, can go into the depths of your soul, and can understand everything in your heart. The person who understands you best will always be by your side and silently guard