With the progress of society, the development of society, the number of unmarried people, or late marriage families, may be related to social openness, social progress and changes in people's concepts. Although more and more people can understand and accept this, there are still many people who do not accept it, thinking that there is a problem without marriage or having children, of course, we will not evaluate it here.
However, love is generally considered to be beautiful, this beauty can be reflected in film and television dramas, but also from the people around them, in reality, even if only chai rice oil and salt are left, but there is always a little taste of it, at least relatives do not nag it.
In order not to be told by the family, in order to let the family have a face, in order to make themselves have a good year, many people now take a way, that is, to rent a boyfriend or girlfriend to go home for the New Year.
We watch many film and television dramas that also use this theme, that is, renting a boyfriend or girlfriend to go back to the New Year, making a lot of discord, but also making a lot of jokes. But most of them are rented by two people and it comes true. But after all, it is a TV series, the ending is always beautiful, and the reality is definitely more bone-chilling. Of course, I have never seen a lease, but I think it should not be cheap, and there are still a few cases where lovers can eventually become dependents like the TV series.
However, the desire for true love, or having a real companion is not in the minority, after all, most of the time, men and women are still very attractive, so many years of marriage organization structure are firmly existing, indicating that this matter is still quite reliable.
Of course, many people feel that blind dates are very difficult because their strength is not good, because there is no money, no car, no house, etc., but after all, people are still emotional animals, and they certainly cannot be completely measured by materials. There are good material conditions better, not so good conditions, then try to find a cost-effective way.
People say that people rely on clothes and horses to saddle, some people don't trim the edges, some girls look no different from boys, and then the wisps say that I am an honest person. Honesty is important, but being better at yourself is actually a more cost-effective thing.
The first side of course to pay attention to, some people statistics in the first 4 minutes can actually produce a more certain answer, if more than this time, the later performance is very cold, it can basically be said that more than 50% of the cold.
So how do you make a first impression better? Dressing up cleanly and dressing generously is of course one thing, but other aspects are equally important.
First of all, the behavior should be generous and decent, always keep a smile, do not look away, appear approachable, lean forward slightly, show that you like to listen, chat, show interaction with each other, and show interest.
Secondly, you should show interest in the content of the conversation, don't be too stingy when it is time to share, and disclose some personal information appropriately, which will make it easier for people to accept you, even in topics that are not very good at, you should also seize the opportunity to guide the topic appropriately.
Finally, the attitude of the chat should be correct, to put yourself and the other party in the same position, the attitude is too high or too low, it will make people feel different, of course, usually accumulate some temperament will be more effective, such as confidence, tolerance, calmness, calmness and the like.
In short, the first impression is a very important and cost-effective thing, and it will also affect the bits and pieces of the future, after all, people are emotional animals, it is impossible to stand in a just and fair point of view, and there is a distinction between likes and dislikes.
So what other ways can you improve the blind date rate, welcome to discuss!