Success has "six enlightenments"
1． Kindness is the background of life
A good life must be based on kindness. Kindness is the foundation of personality beauty, goodness should be the background of our personality, a person is not good, can only do evil or hypocrisy.
Kindness is like a fertile and vast earth, and only on such soil can politeness, modesty, helpfulness, and good listening be born... Kindness is the soil that produces all personal beauty, the most important cultivation of people, and the most beautiful spiritual appearance.
2． Pattern is the foundation of success
Read thousands of books, travel thousands of miles. Everything you've been through will affect your life pattern. Vision determines the pattern, and the big pattern achieves life. The people you have met, the books you have read, and the roads you have traveled constitute the pattern of your life. Pattern determines success. Because to a certain extent, the fight is the heart. The more angry you are, the easier it is to succeed.
3． Self-reliance and self-reliance, the foundation of self-reliance
The essence of self-improvement is what is said in many classics: daily renewal of virtue. Yin and yang are in harmony, and gossip is swinging together. The world is changing all the time, and everything is new in the next moment.
Self-improvement is always progressing and never being satisfied. Wise people should imitate the changes in yin and yang, constantly change their mistakes, constantly create new achievements, and cultivate themselves and sublimate themselves in the passage of time.
4. Workaround
In terms of personnel and self-cultivation, we must pay attention to a "change" word.
Zhisheng Dongfang Shuo deeply grasped the essence of "change" of Zhou Yi. He taught his children that the way of the saints, one dragon and one snake, the shape of the gods, and the change of things, are suitable at any time, and there is no permanent home.
This means that the principles of the saints' conduct in the world are to act, hide, move, and be still according to the conditions of the times, sometimes full of brilliance and mysterious gods; sometimes they are silent and dormant, unpredictable and profound. With the change of all things and timing, the most appropriate way to deal with the world is by no means fixed and unchanging, nor will it be rigid.
5. Confidence
People, you are confident. Confident people are always able to lift weights and retract themselves freely. As long as you raise the sails of self-confidence in life, you can ride the wind and waves and move forward. Self-confidence is based on a correct self-perception, which is an external manifestation of strength, confidence and good mentality.
Self-confident people often behave as self-reliant, autonomous, and self-reliant, dare to be the master, be willing to be the master, and be the master when things happen, and do not wait, rely on, and want; they will not stop improving themselves in the face of setbacks and difficulties, do not be discouraged and do not yield, and can be defeated but not defeated; in the face of interference and noise, they can not be confused, not tempted, not moved, and their hearts are strong and determined.
6. Difficulty
Hardship and chastity are two words, hardship means the hardship and poverty of the external environment; chastity is the gentleman's inner adherence to chastity. In a difficult and impoverished environment, a gentleman who maintains the chastity of his heart and conduct is ultimately blessed, and he will certainly get out of the predicament and win good luck for himself.
Dilemmas and adversities are constantly changing, and no one is lucky all their lives, and no one is unlucky all their lives. Although the hardships and hardships of life cannot be avoided, as long as we maintain a stoic and chaste heart, we can transform it into a smooth road.
Failure has "six mistakes"
1． Clever mistake
Some people fail because they are not smart enough. Some people fail because they are too smart. The failure of the latter kind of person is called clever mistake. People who are too smart may not be willing to work stupidly, and it is easy to stop doing things. But many things not only need to be smart, but also need enough persistence and patience to pay to achieve results.
There is also a kind of cleverness, which we call "love to take advantage". Such wise people often harm others and think that they have gained a bargain, but in fact they are consuming their good luck and blessings little by little. In the end, it will end up where everyone shouts and fights.
2． Pride mistake
The great trouble of man is just a proud word. Man's arrogance stems first and foremost from complacency, and arrogant people think that they have reached enough heights that they do not need to learn and work harder.
Once people have an arrogant heart, they will inevitably relax their vigilance in all aspects, and disasters and failures will inevitably follow. Pride is the way to kill oneself.
3． Selfish mistakes
Profit can be shared but not alone, and conspiracy can be widowed and not many. Benefits are often desired by everyone, and if anyone monopolizes the benefits and does not share them with everyone, it will inevitably lead to resentment and even become the target of everyone.
In reality, however, people often make people dizzy. For the sake of immediate interests, at the expense of others, even friends and relatives. There are also many people who are blind and sacrifice long-term happiness for the sake of immediate interests.
4． The mistake of indulgence
There is also an idiom called the heart ape horse. Apes and horses are fast-moving, difficult to control animals, and the ancients compared them to our hearts, which can be described as profound.
If people really want to do something, they must be indifferent, quiet, can not indulge their desires, should not be in the pursuit of sensory pleasures to consume their ambitions.
5. The mistake of blind obedience
A philosopher once said that what is more harmful than deception is blind obedience. Blind obedience is a manifestation of a lack of assertiveness. Blind followers, themselves are just a shell, when they take others as the direction of the crowd, the result is often into the blind obedience of the "quagmire", into the "dead end" of life, the result is sad and lamentable.
6. The mistake of impatience
When a person is impatient and irritable, he loses his main heart, and he loses his concentration and wisdom.
In today's society, the most common mistake is mania and lack of peace. Shallow water is noisy, deep water is quiet, and if you want to achieve great things, you must learn to be calm. Impatience and irritability are lacking rationality, rationality and composure, and many things are caused by not "controlling themselves" and "grasping themselves", resulting in uncontrollable results, or abandoning their previous achievements.