Three days at both ends will see such a topic, how much women can spend money, what experience women spend their own money, the temptation of so-and-so goods, women can not resist.
Sometimes impulsive spending money has become a kind of show-off:
"Women, it's only natural to buy things."
This year, to save some money, it is really not as simple as we think.
But because of this, every woman who will save money is by no means ordinary.
I don't know when you made up your mind to save money, someone always asked you to be nicer to yourself.
At the beginning, it was said that women have to invest in themselves in order to marry well.
Now it is not popular, all kinds of business advertisements, and even your good girlfriends for many years will tell you that making money is to spend, and people should treat themselves.
Even if you can resist coaxing once and persuading twice, who can deny that buying something is really cool?
Li Jiaqi, known as "a brother with goods", released a single two years ago, called "Buy It", in the song MV, women are shopping and partying.
But what's left after the party, the clothes in the corner that's already clumped, the lipstick you've used only once or twice, the daily necessities you put in the out of date, and the dwindling savings.
Occasionally, there is an idea as to why most anchors with goods say, always "Sisters, buy it" instead of "Brothers, buy it." ”
It seems that women can only prove their worth if they desperately buy things.
The sense of refinement and high-quality that we pursue every day is not that we ourselves feel that this is exquisite, that is, high-end, but constantly being told us what objects are the same as the stars, which is the newly opened Internet celebrity store.
In the end, it is also a kind of thing, always pink is more expensive, women's is more expensive, with a little design more expensive.
Even if you know how much the cost is not bad, you will still be willing to pay.
When the storage box at home is getting bigger and bigger, and the lockers are full of useless things, you have to admit: spending money to buy anything is not as good as spending money on this process.
Women want to save money, much more difficult than men.
If you spend too much money, it's not that you love to buy by nature, it's not that you can't control yourself, it's just the trap that consumerism lays for women, and we are too difficult to resist.
I envy women who can save money, not only because they have money, but also because of their comfortable life state, which is something that everyone yearns for.
Qiao Sang, a girl in Shijiazhuang, used to be able to spend money.
Whether it's clothes, shoes, stud earrings, accessories, she will buy them at home. Even with the same style, she can buy many pieces of different colors.
Expensive fitness cards and massage cards at home, many of which have not been used.
The house was chaotic, and her life was getting more and more chaotic, and she finally decided to be a "non-consumerist."
Josan moved to a small house of 88 square meters, surrounded by only the necessities of life.
She hardly bought anything, and now the room was empty, leaving a total of 6 pieces of furniture, the few clothes and shoes she often wore.
The money saved is her confidence in coping with life.
Qiao Sang also took the opportunity to quit the habit of eating takeaway, went downstairs every day to buy cheap dishes, made his own nutritious meals, and practiced a good cooking skill.
She no longer has to organize things every day, gradually do yoga, read, and life is only relaxed.
Saving money is often just the beginning, the most superficial result.
Material simplicity and spiritual abundance are all chain reactions that follow.
The woman who can save money is not unpolished, nor is she desireless from the heart, but she has calmly thought about buying things, and she has more reason than others.
Some people say: "I want to buy things when I am angry, I have to spend money as soon as I buy things, I spend less money when I spend money, and I get angry when I have less money." ”
Buying things is like an endless cycle, not to mention the things you buy impulsively, not all of which you really like.
Something you think is amazing for a while, and sometimes it feels superfluous just after it's delivered home.
A really good life starts with saving money.
The clean space and the sense of solidity in your heart are all in your own hands.
There have always been many women who want to save money, but the people who can save are particularly rare.
Because most people have the consciousness of saving money and do not know where the money comes from, the result can only be repeated to overspending, and regret it repeatedly.
Know how to save money strategy, is a smart person.
1) Focus on practical functions
The "pink tax" and "gender tax" we hear are mostly very ordinary goods, change the color, add a flashy gimmick, and make you pay for it.
But a lot of these you can avoid.
Before buying a thing, it looks good, don't buy it if it's not good.
It has more gimmicks, don't buy if the material is not good.
Considering the use of things in a functional way, when you develop a habit, every money you spend will be great value for money.
2) You need to be the Master
Wang Manni in "Thirty Only" earns 15,000 yuan a month, even in a big city like Shanghai, it is a very decent salary.
She lived a terrible life, without any savings.
Can rent a cheaper house, have to rent 7,000, can buy cheap shoes, have to buy big-name shoes every quarter, quit a job, and immediately can't even pay the rent.
To say that it sounds good is to pursue the quality of life, and to say that it is ugly is to bury a pit for yourself.
Ask yourself, are the things you are pursuing with your heart and mind necessary, and is there anything that can be replaced?
Allow one or two impulses, but also grasp it, try to buy only what you need, and always give yourself leeway.
3) Even if you save money, you can love yourself
Many women who can't save money have an obsession, and they equate loving themselves with buying things, so that all irrationality has a legitimate reason.
The actual meals that you pair with are healthier than expensive takeaways.
Cheap and comfortable shoes that fit better than diamond-encrusted heels.
Run more, more effective than high-end skin care products.
Loving yourself should be an attitude to life, not an excuse for the inability to save money.
When you truly have the ability to love yourself, saving money won't be a problem.
Some people become impetuous as they walk, taking turns pretending to eat at high-end restaurants just to take a picture.
A few people spell a brand-name bag, just want to send a circle of friends.
Partner to rent a venue for a vacation and pretend to stay in a mansion.
Spend your own money, it's your own choice, but I just want to say: "Actually, that photo, that circle of friends, not even the little money that's worth fighting." ”
When your family is sick, the doctor won't decide to go free because you're wearing a brand.
It's time to pay the rent, and the landlord won't allow you to pay half a year late because you've been to a high-end hotel.
Play steadily, save enough money to have everything.
Wang Shen of the Douban cutting group loves to save money for 9 years, and now he is married, and 90% of his husband's salary can be saved, and he has saved up two suites.
She usually buys clothes, spending only 100 yuan a year, many of which are used second-hand.
The cost of daily necessities, she compares prices on various apps, receives coupons, and calculates carefully.
Every time he wanted to buy something, Wang Shen Ai had to think about it many times.
Some people say that she cut it, but now that she has saved enough money, she has gained a sense of security.
Even actor Liu Tao said that when she first debuted, she used 5 years to save 150,000 reserve funds in case something happened.
You think that by spending more money and using the same things, you can live like yourself and gain the independence you want, but you will find that you are saving money more than you can earn.
The most enviable thing for rich people is not because they can enter and exit all kinds of luxurious places, not because of how luxurious the things they use, but just because they have money.
You can't imitate it, you can only save it.
With the power to control your wallet, you're already independent.
Countless girls have asked a heartfelt question: "If you don't have money, you don't deserve to live well?" ”
I can tell you, no.
But when you don't have money, you should treat yourself well and see that what you want is not a bag, not lipstick and clothes, but a richer life.
We want to live exquisitely, but we don't want to be poor all the time.
So, remember to find your fun in your mundane life and take care of yourself when you don't spend too much money.
Only in this way can you calmly live the person you are looking forward to.
Click "Watching" and save money.
May you have the courage to be independent and the courage to really pay for your own wishes.
The author | Yew, the iron lady of the post-90s cute system, can turn the knife with a pen, and the eyebrows are smiling.
The anchor | Tong Tong, public number: Tong Tong Night Listening, Douyin: Tong Tong's Voice Classroom.
Pictures | Visual China