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At the age of 30, it is an important turning point in life, we become mature, and our vision of the world becomes different. After the age of 30, if you want to live a better life, please force yourself to quit these 4 bad habits.
1. Do not save money
Many people are moonlight clans in their twenties, whether they earn more or less, and there is very little left at the end of each month. In the bank account, there are not many deposits.
But after the age of 30, the habit of not saving money is necessary to correct. One is for oneself; second, for one's family.
As the saying goes, if you have grain in your hands, you don't panic in your heart. Some people say that saving money is to prevent problems before they occur, parents are older, children are still young, their bodies are vulnerable, sometimes someone in the family is sick, if you have your own savings, you will not worry about relatives getting sick and have no money to treat, and you will not delay medical treatment because of insufficient money.
Moreover, when people reach middle age, unless you can ensure that your job is stable enough, you are not sure which day the work is gone, but how many people can say that they can stay in the unit safely? There is too much uncertainty in the world.
Therefore, saving money can also have enough funds to get you and your family through the "empty window" period after you accidentally lose your job, until you find a job. This is actually to add a sense of security to an uncertain life.
Having a deposit is a person's greatest confidence and the best talisman for a family.
Don't feel that young people are just happy, if you don't want to be afraid of major choices in life after the age of 30, because you have no economic foundation, please force yourself to develop the habit of saving money.
2, give the bad temper to the family
The cousin and the cousin-in-law divorced a year ago, when many relatives persuaded them, and the cousin-in-law finally whispered to the cousin not to divorce, but the cousin was still very determined.
Relatives do not understand, cousin brother-in-law can make money, but also take care of the family, the two also have a child who is only 5 years old, this divorce, the impact on both sides is very large, but the cousin is still so insistent.
Later, when my cousin chatted with us, we learned that it turned out that my cousin-in-law had given all his bad temper to the family. Whether he encounters difficulties at work or just has some conflicts with others, his cousin-in-law will vent his dissatisfaction on his family and not give his family a good look.
Over time, the cousin could not accept it, because the cousin's bad temper, together with the influence on the mood of the family, was really uncomfortable.
My cousin's words made me see many examples in life, we always leave our temper to the people close to us, think that we are very familiar with each other, or have a relationship that cannot be easily cut, so as not to consider each other's feelings, and even casually vent to others.
But in fact, no one can endure the bad emotions brought by others forever, and love is also bounded, not squandered. After the age of 30, there are fewer and fewer people who stay around, and the rest are either close friends or close relatives. Don't let your bad temper take away your precious people.
3. Smoke and drink
After the age of 30, how much worse is your physical function now than it was ten years ago? Not to mention that the physical function is poor, and the bad habits have not fallen.
Smoking and drinking, is a lot of people in modern life in the existence of bad habits, some people think smoking is cool, but do not know that smoking endangers health, some people in a bad mood, like to borrow wine to dispel sorrow, but do not know the problem after waking up or have to face, find a way to solve the problem is the right way.
You may say that smoking and drinking are also forced to be helpless, and getting along with people will inevitably involve tobacco and alcohol, so please uphold this principle: if you can push it off, you will push it off, and if you can't push it off, you will touch less.
The body can't be bought for how much money, don't lose big because of small.
4. Focus only on non-nutritious entertainment information
Once, a colleague asked everyone in the group, how is the time arranged after work? Almost everyone's time is spent paying attention to entertainment news and swiping small videos.
A colleague said: "I play games every night, and before I know it, the night has passed, and sometimes I am still watching entertainment news at 1 o'clock and don't want to go to sleep until I am sleepy." "It's like a portrait of us, addicted to entertainment, not wanting time to pass, or even reluctant to sleep."
Spend a lot of time browsing entertainment information, you may feel very relaxed during that time, but as long as you stop, you will find that these can not bring you lasting happiness, and in the process of watching entertainment, brushing videos, etc., it will make it difficult for you to stop, to really stop, time has passed, perhaps will make you regret wasting time like this.
No nutritious entertainment information is often a waste of time, only reading, sports, learning a skill, etc. can make you get lifelong benefits, and the happiness brought to you is also lasting.
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