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Everyone has the right to choose how they live their lives, and you can live your life as you like according to your own ideas.
Some people like to spend tomorrow's money to realize today's dreams, they believe in living in the present, do not have too much consideration for the future, just want to live the life in front of them, take one step at a time, and do not want to add too much burden to their psychology. Such people tend to be content and happy, and it is easy to find the joy of life and live a relaxed and happy life.
But such a life often has a drawback, when you need to use money, only to find that your hands are empty, it seems that although the life in front of you is very dashing, it has caused great hidden dangers to your future life.
There is nothing wrong with choosing to live in the present when you are younger, because you have not suffered from the beatings of society, and you do not need to bear too much pressure in life, but when people reach middle age, they cannot only look at the present, but have more plans and considerations for their future lives.
People to middle age is often the most difficult time, to face the situation of old and young, life everywhere need money, shoulders, is the weight of a family, large and small things fall on their shoulders. At this time, it is not possible to eat as before, one person to eat enough for the whole family is not hungry, but to learn to take into account the family, everything should be considered carefully.
It is said that people are not as good as dogs in middle age, and in middle age, it means that life has reached a crucial stage, not only has it grown in age, but also its mind must become more mature, and it is necessary to properly arrange its own life.
When people reach middle age, the smartest way to live is nothing more than this.
Take care of your body and give your body an insurance
There is nothing more important in this life than good health. In the past, I often ignored the body and would take money very seriously, but until I was physically ill, I found that no amount of money could buy health.
There are some things that can no longer be obtained through their own efforts, but once the body collapses, no matter how much you have, it is a delusion.
When you are young, you still do not realize the importance of physical health, and after middle age, your physical function deteriorates, the number of times you enter the hospital increases significantly, and a lot of money you earn is spent on buying medicine to see a doctor. Some minor diseases and disasters are not yet masterful, but if they encounter some major diseases, they will destroy the whole family.
When people reach middle age, you are the pillar of the whole family, supporting this family, you must not fall, once you collapse, the family will be scattered.
Sometimes my family doesn't need you to make more money, as long as you can be healthy and take care of your body, they will feel that I am satisfied.
No matter how tired you are, don't forget to exercise, it is important to earn money, and do not consume your own body as a price. In order to take a list, some people take wine as water to drink, completely disregard their own bodies, drink their stomachs badly, and collapse their bodies, what is the use of the money they earn?
To give your body an insurance in case of conditions, it can play a very important role in major situations.
When people reach middle age, they must pay attention to the body, which is your most important capital.
Learn to save money to cope with life's ups and downs
Saving money is a person's wisest behavior, no matter how much money you earn, if you can't save money in your hands, then once you encounter some accidents, you can only be helpless.
Today's society has greatly facilitated the public's life in terms of spending money, even if you do not have money in your hands, you can also meet the needs of your life by overdraft.
Many young people are willing to use a variety of high-tech spending methods to realize their dreams, spend money madly, have no sense of saving money, and even feel that those who deduct and search and save money are too rigid and cannot keep up with the trend of the times.
As everyone knows, these advanced spending methods are convenient for people at the same time, but also cause great hidden dangers, because you do not realize that you are spending your own money when you brush, and eventually all your expenses still need to be repaid by yourself.
Many young people are moonlight people, there is no spare money in their hands, and there is nothing wrong with them when they are young, but in the middle age stage, they must quit their past spending habits and learn to save money. Only saving money can make you cope with any accident in life.
You never know when tomorrow and accidents will arrive, especially as you get older, there will be a lot of money for the elderly, money for the elderly to see a doctor, children going to kindergarten, applying for various tutoring classes, all need to spend money, when you have no savings in your hand, the whole person will feel very weak, dare not get sick, dare not cultivate children's interests and hobbies, and can only live by suppressing themselves.
People who have savings in their hands will feel confident and will not be afraid of any test of life. It seems that some people will feel that the pressure of life is so great, how can you save money, in fact, saving money is often not much, but it is accumulated over time, do not underestimate the small amount of 10 yuan and 50 yuan, the key moment may help you.
Learn to break off sex and enjoy being alone
After people reach middle age, the most important thing is to learn to give up.
There are some irrelevant relationships, it should be broken, and some people who are not worth it, don't try to please it anymore.
The first half of life is a process of continuous addition, want to establish contact with many people around you, maintain good communication, and invite all those who come to the side into their own lives, but ignore that some people are here to teach you, some people get along with them for a long time, which is only consuming for you and not beneficial.
Frequent turnover in some ineffective social activities will only cause you great loss, which is not conducive to your development, and will also cause unnecessary burdens.
When people reach middle age, they should actually live to understand, they should be able to see some people clearly, they can look down on some relationships, and for some meaningless social interactions, they should be broken.
Don't have to be aggrieved in order to cater to others, don't have to look at other people's faces, care too much about other people's eyes, and be true to your own heart is the most important.
Learn to enjoy being alone, figure out what your heart really desires, decide a direction, and make yourself clear about what you really want, no matter when it starts, it's never too late.
After middle age, you must learn to break off relations with those complicated people, learn to stay away from those hooks and corners, find the most comfortable way of life, get along with simple people, and communicate with people who deserve it, do not have to tell people about their grievances, no one can really empathize with you, and the most important thing is to live your own life.
When people reach middle age and half of their lives, they can be regarded as completely understood.
Don't put your life in the eyes of others, in fact, you don't have that many audiences.
Don't care too much about other people's feelings, your life is completely up to you, only you can dominate your own life.
In this world, in addition to life and death, there is no small matter, do not have to stick to some insignificant people and things, take care of their own body, take care of their families, save some money to cope with the unexpected life, is the real wisdom.
Don't go against your heart to accommodate others, don't let yourself be wronged for some unworthy people, leave time for worthy people and things, and live your own life.