There is an old saying on the mainland, which is called not listening to the old man's words and suffering losses in front of you.
The core meaning of this sentence is actually a manifestation of the advantages of experience, the experience of the elderly, the experience is richer than that of young people, the accumulation time is longer, for some right and wrong, some choices and judgments, the experience and experience advantages of the elderly will help young people avoid risks.
Nowadays, the Internet makes the relationship between people closer, the relationship between people and society, people and the world has become more delicate, and the things that people see, hear, and feel have become more complex, which has led to the value of experience and experience in the Internet era, which seems to be less important.
In this era, young people know more things than the elderly, so is the experience and experience of the elderly still useful?
The web doesn't make humanity more complex, it makes it more transparent.
Many times, people reach a certain age, because of the accumulation of experience and experience, let people begin to think, they began to become sophisticated, become shrewd, then all this will really become simple and intuitive with the advent of the Internet age?
In fact, we might as well understand this problem in a different way.
Different eras have created different people, science and technology are developing, the environment is optimizing, so is there anything that is inevitable in any era?
That is the inferior nature of man.
In any era, there are people who steal and slip, there are people who like to calculate others, there are self-righteous people, and there are people who harm others and harm themselves.
Bridges have been built and high walls have been built between people, and the relationship between people and groups has become sensitive and unpleasant because of the existence of some problems and contradictions.
In the past, people needed to feel the complexity of human nature through real experience, and now, people share their communication experiences on the Internet, and let those who have not experienced it feel the complexity of human nature in advance.
But how different is what comes out of the mouth of others and what you experience yourself?
"On paper, I finally realized that I had to do something about it."
Some things, only after experiencing themselves, can understand what the true meaning of these things is to themselves, which is just like the meaning of those truths, a person's growth, not that he knows a lot of truths, but he knows what kind of truth he should choose to accompany his growth, those who have heard a lot of truths but have a bad life, often mistakenly think that the truth is listened to, and the ignored truth itself is a kind of guidance based on practice.
The Internet will not solve this problem, experience and experience, in fact, will not solve this problem.
So what solves this problem?
Practice, think, practice, think.
Rather than saying that today's young people are more sober than the elderly, we should take out the qualification of age for the time being, and then re-examine the true meaning of this question:
Some people, they practice while thinking, and some people, thinking all their lives, but have never practiced anything in the real sense, then when the latter is older than the former, we will find a very interesting phenomenon, that is, age actually does not represent anything, the so-called old qualifications, just old age, in addition, there is no realistic condition for these people who can only be reasonable and have not practiced are qualified to educate others, to reprimand others, to ask others to live in their own way:
People who have lived a lifetime and have not lived to understand, they are not qualified to point fingers at those who struggle in life and survive in struggle, because their pointing will only make their lives seem more sad and desolate.
Admittedly, we cannot deny that there are older people who live very soberly and understand that their life advice is a valuable spiritual wealth for young people who are lost.
But, as I said earlier, on this subject,
Only by taking out the qualification of age can we get the real answer.
People with clear minds, practical powers, thinking, and action, whether young or old, tend to live more and more clearly in their lives.
On the contrary, those who are confused, have no ability to judge, cover their eyes, and cover their noses to live,
When they are young, they are often the object of ridicule by others, laughing at their ignorance, laughing at their lack of commitment, laughing at their ability to live only in their own world,
And when they are old, such a situation, such ridicule will not change a bit.
Does this fact seem cruel?
Maybe it's cruel, but what's even more cruel is that
This is the result of their self-inflicted wounds.