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The world says: "Beautiful skin bags are the same, interesting souls are one of the best"
But when these two choices are placed in front of them, it is often the "beautiful skin bag" that crushes the "interesting soul".
However, there is a person who takes this sentence as a life motto, and is bound to find a smart and talented partner.
Coincidentally, she really found such a person in 9 days, and then flashed marriage.
And this pair of avant-garde men and women are Liu Huan and Lu Lu.
Many people say, "To get married is to be divorced." ”
But Liu Huan Lulu, the "flash marriage couple" has been with each other for decades and is still as loving as ever,
On the contrary, When Chen Kaige and Ni Ping lived together for 5 years, they were about to enter the marriage but were quickly stepped in by others.
True to that sentence: "The moon has no ancient and modern, and the love is shallow and deep."
The unusual Liu Huan sang the fire of the great river, and also pulled this marriage past out of the length of life.
But few people know that the story of Liu Huan's acquaintance with Lu Lu is both simple and romantic.
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In 1963, Lu Lu, who was far away in Changsha, celebrated his second birthday, and a cry came from a hospital in Tianjin, and Liu Huan was born.
Because her parents are primary school teachers, Liu Huan's childhood is immersed in the atmosphere of literature and art.
Liu Huan finished primary school in Tianjin Gymnasium, and when he was 8 years old, he had already performed cross-talk with Dai Zhicheng, who was two years older than himself.
At that time, Liu Huan was a tease, a clever mouth made many people laugh, and he was talented at a young age.
How reiki does he really have? Chang Baohua, a famous family member of Tianjin Xiangsheng, once intended to take Liu Huan as an apprentice.
But Mother Liu felt that she could not let Liu Huan go on a line, which made Chang Baohua have no intention of receiving apprentices.
If you don't eat this line of rice, Liu Huan can still eat the "hundred lines of rice".
Liu Huan not only speaks cross-talk, but also sings Peking Opera, and is best at excerpts from "Wise Tiger Mountain", and can even say a few paragraphs of Shandong Quick Book.
In the gymnasium primary school that year, Liu Huan was full of power when he was young.
Liu Huan in his infancy
In that era of the heyday of literature and art, Liu Huanshun smoothly walked to the middle school.
Liu Huan graduated from junior high school in 1979, and then he was admitted to the famous key middle school in Tianjin - Yaohua Middle School with excellent results.
He became the "primary school brother" of Qian Weichang, Huang Zongjiang, and Jiang Dawei.
But unfortunately, the partner Dai Zhicheng did not enter the Yaohua,
Jiang Kun (left) Dai Zhicheng (right)
This also became the fuse for the end of the cooperation between Liu Huan and Dai Zhicheng, and then Liu Huan's "cross-talk career" was announced.
Liu Huan, who did not have cross-talk and rarely sang Peking Opera, began to cultivate other hobbies.
It was at this time that music entered Liu Huan's vast world.
One day in the second year of high school, one of Liu Huan's classmates wanted to apply for the conservatory and often practiced Chopin's "Butterfly" song.
At that time, Liu Huan, as an audience member, was fascinated when he listened, and then he realized that classical music was so beautiful.
Therefore, Liu Huan, who fell in love with music for a second, decided to chase it with his life.
In 1981, Liu Huan entered the door of the School of International Relations, one of the key universities in the country, majoring in French literature.
Faced with romantic French literature, Liu Huan had a deeper understanding of music and began to use his leisure time to study musical scores.
In his sophomore year, pop music began to spread wildly on college campuses, and Liu Huan, who was very deep in music and kung fu, also took advantage of this boom to learn guitar.
At the beginning of the third year, Liu Huan's guitar kung fu had already won the whole school, and the fire had become a celebrity.
Within two years, Liu Huan began to try to write his own songs, in the process, he was like a gluttonous child, wanting to learn all the singing techniques, and began to study ancient and modern Chinese and foreign books step by step.
In 1985, at the graduation party, Liu Huan stood in the center of the stage, accompanied by his classmate Li Guowei.
Liu Huan's voice floated out, and as soon as the voice came out, the audience under the stage was quiet for a few seconds, and then burst into fierce applause.
After singing three English songs, Liu Huan said: "These songs are arranged by myself. ”
As soon as the words fell, the audience even issued an exclamation, that is, from that time on, Liu Huan's creative road officially began.
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After graduating in 1985, Liu Huan voluntarily went to Shizuishan in Ningxia with the Central Lecturer Group and began a one-year volunteer teaching life as a music lecturer.
At that time, the three English songs at the party had already made Liu Huan famous in the music circle in Beijing.
In 1986, at the "Movie World" weekend literary and art evening held by CCTV,
Director Luo Youwei invited Liu Huan, who was teaching, and after receiving the invitation, Liu Huan returned to Beijing.
On that night, he shined again, singing the songs "Country Rock" and "My Way" in English and French, as well as the theme song of the movie "43 Years of Tehran".
After this time, Liu Huan's name began to ring out in the beijing boundary.
At that time, Liu Huan was a rare "musical genius", not only a rare pop singer who was proficient in foreign languages.
He was also one of the first musicians in Chinese mainland who could arrange and produce music using computers.
In 1987, it was already a year after Ni Ping and Chen Kaige broke up, and the TV series "Snow City" became a great medicine to save the "lost Ni Ping".
At the same time, Liu Huan also ushered in the first TV series song in her singing career, and it is also the most important song "Inseparable from You".
The sentence "We are too unfair, love and hate are all controlled by you" became Ni Ping's sad and speechless, but it raised Liu Huan to a new height.
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So, at the end of the year, a girl with a roll of her own hair hurried out of the Beijing airport.
Along the way, the eyes of her and her companions never left the tall buildings on both sides of the road.
The place name "Beijing" felt timid to her who came from Changsha, and the name "Lu Lu" was ordinary.
At that time, Lu Lu had just been engaged in work, but for the evening program, she had several positions, one side was the host, the other side was the assistant director.
And her trip to Beijing is to invite liu huan, who has just become famous, as an assistant director.
But in that era when the phone was not open and the letters were inconvenient, it was not easy to find someone.
In order to find Liu Huan, Lu Lu did not waste any trouble.
At that time, the only clue was that Liu Huan had been on CCTV and sang a song "The World Needs Enthusiasm" on Yuan Dewang's National Day program.
After coming and going, Lu Lu, who was flexible in his mind, went straight to CCTV, intending to find Liu Huan's "hiding place" .
After looking for a pass, Lu Lu learned from a young man named Huang Haibo of the Ministry of Literature and Art that Liu Huan lived in the tube building of the School of International Relations.
So, After a day of wandering around, Lu Lu finally found Liu Huan in the dormitory of the School of International Relations.
At that time, he had begun to have long flowing hair, not yet blessed, and a neck, and was also a spiritual boy.
In Lu Lu's words: "Liu Huan can really make an idol debut at that time." ”
Maybe Liu Huan was talented when he was young, or maybe the two of them had a heart since they first fought.
In short, when Lu Lu proposed the invitation, Liu Huan had no other conditions and did not say much, and he agreed in one breath.
After the negotiation, the sky has already drifted heavy snow, and Lu Lu and his companions still have to take a car back to Hunan.
Liu Huan, who was also waiting for the car, said in a rare way: "Let's take my car and go together." ”
But the thin-skinned Lu Lu still politely rejected Liu Huan, but at the moment of getting into the car, Lu Lu violently held out his hand and said to Liu Huan:
"Liu Huan, see you in Hunan."
Later, Lu Lu said: "At that time, I felt that I was very generous. ”
But Liu Huan was "frightened" and only bowed his head and held out his hand.
After Lu Lu returned to Hunan, Liu Huan was invited to participate in the evening party in Hunan.
But after the party, Liu Huan was "trapped" in Hunan.
At that time, Changsha Airport only issued two flights back to Beijing a week, and Liu Huan could not grab tickets at all.
So in desperation, Liu Huan had to stay for a week, and he looked at Lu Lu and asked, "Do you have anything interesting in Hunan?" ”
And Lu Lu took Liu Huan to Zhangjiajie, where she had never been, from the performance to Zhangjiajie to the return to Changsha, the two spent 9 days.
But it is this 9 that makes Liu Huan decide: get married.
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At that time, Lu Lu had also determined that the talented Liu Huan was the standard for him to find a boyfriend.
For two fierce but extremely serious people, it feels right that love is coming.
The two are happy with each other, and the two can't wait to settle the marriage event, and slip away the marriage certificate.
Perhaps overwhelmed by love, Liu Huan also made a big oolong on the day he received the license.
On the day of receiving the license, it was raining heavily in the sky, and Liu Huan, who was distressed by Lu Lu, asked her to go home and wait, and ran to the Civil Affairs Bureau alone to apply for a marriage license.
Until the staff cried and laughed and said: "A person can't get a marriage license",
Liu Huan found that he had made a joke.
Years later, Liu Huan recalled with a smile: "At that time, I didn't understand anything." “
After getting married, the two, due to work reasons, one in the north and one in the south, had a long period of "long-distance love".
During this period, Lu Lu's letters floated one after another to Liu Huan's tube building.
In order to be able to reunite, Lu Lu finally made a concession: quit his job in Hunan Tai and came to Beijing to develop.
For the sake of the Beijing hukou, Lu Lu, who was already a cadre, was willing to become a worker, as long as there was a unit that could accept her.
On the other hand, Liu Huan has already gone viral with the popular TV series "Plainclothes Police" all over the country.
In those years, the streets of those years could always hear the two golden songs of "Young Ambitions Don't Say Anything" and "The Sun in the Heart", and Liu Huan took advantage of this hot wind to reach the top again.
In 1989, Liu Huan's version of "Crooked Moon" came out, which swept the country for a while, blew into a northwest wind, and transformed into a representative work.
When Liu Huan's career was hot, Lu Lu became the "woman behind the successful man" and silently managed everything for the family.
In 1991, Liu Huan's daughter was born, named Liu Yisi, and Lu Lu once again put down her work and concentrated on taking care of her daughter.
As a father, Liu Huan also shouldered a huge responsibility and began to have a sense of urgency.
When Yang Lan asked, "After having a child, what changes have I had?"
Liu Huan said with emotion: "There are worries, and my driving speed is slow." ”
But before Liu Huan, he was a very tough person who treated his work very hard, and even set rules for commercial performances, so that he did not appear once in half a year.
But in front of her daughter, Liu Huan has become a "warm-hearted father".
When my daughter was in high school in the United States, she was faced with the pressure of studying for the examination, and her mentality was very problematic.
It just so happened that Liu Huan was in the ascendancy of his career at that time, but he was able to give up his work and fly to the United States to accompany his daughter.
In his words: "This is also the critical period of the child. ”
And this love once again returned to him.
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In 2019, the 56-year-old Liu Huan came to the stage of "Singer" amid the applause and joy of the audience.
As a hall-level singer, Liu Huan was unexpectedly nervous, because he was very concerned about his performance.
After the show, he would also call his daughter who was abroad and ask, "Can you see "Singer" over there?" ”
When her daughter said, "I can see, but I only look at you," Liu Huan immediately began to laugh.
Later, when he expressed his unconfident hesitation, the daughter spoke again: "You don't cater to the audience, you have to trust the audience." ”
The comfort of her daughter made Liu Huan feel comfortable a lot.
And the expression of emotion between father and daughter has once again allowed the public to see the way Liu Huan and Lu Lu get along.
Because: parents love each other, in order to let children learn to express more love.
At that time, Liu Huan and Lu Lu did not seem to think that this 9-day love could go all the way through decades.
But in this marriage, it was not all smooth sailing.
Someone once asked About Liu Huan: "In this circle, have you ever been touched by other girls?" ”
Liu Huan replied: "Young and beautiful girls who will look at each other twice, this is normal, but since I chose the family, I will not give up, this is the responsibility." ”
Later, Lu Lu wrote this passage into her published book "Marry Liu Huan",
She said: "Liu Huan is lazy, too lazy to brush her teeth, too lazy to write, too lazy to be narcissistic, too lazy to calculate."
But in terms of loving the family, Liu Huan has never been lazy, and the song "Lu Lu" written to Lu Lu is enough to prove it.
Even Lu Lu said: "I am married very well, and life is always much more exciting than the story." ”
In 2013, on the occasion of the 25th anniversary of their marriage, Liu Huan made up a grand wedding for Lu Lu, saying: "This is owed to her." ”
The wedding venue was in the Aegean Sea, Lu Lu was wearing a white wedding dress, and her daughter was holding Lu Lu's wedding skirt, and the two solemnly swore an oath again.
Liu Huan said: "It seems that today, I feel so lucky."
Lu Lu on the side was already in tears.
Someone once asked Liu Huan why he liked Lu Lu.
He said only three words: "She understands me." ”
In 2009, Liu Huan suffered from the disease of "necrosis of the femoral head", and his physical condition was very problematic, so he had to undergo surgery as a last resort.
After that serious illness, tobacco and alcohol have been far away from Liu Huan, but Liu Huan will sometimes say coquettishly: "Your man has this hobby", Lu Lu had to be soft-hearted, and handed him the bottle in his hand.
But in the long married life, the two also had quarrels.
Once, the two had an aggressive fight at night, and Lu Lu snatched the door and "left" Liu Huan in the studio.
At that time, the two still used the BB machine to contact, but no matter how Liu Huan called Lu Lu, Lu Lu just refused to call back.
But after a while, Lu Lu's BB machine once again came a sentence from Liu Huan: It doesn't matter if you don't like me, but don't hurt yourself.
A simple sentence made Lu Lu instantly moved, and after reading that sentence, she called Liu Huan back.
From that night on, the two agreed to quarrel, but not to remember the overnight vendetta.
In this "you come and go" marriage, Liu Huan said that he was lucky, Lu Lu also said that he was lucky, and there was only one answer:
Both people are working each other.
It is often said, "Marriage is the graveyard of love." ”
But often, what is bad is not marriage, but insincere feelings.
As Lu Lu said: "With marriage, love has a place to rest and recuperate." ”
Good love will not be defeated by time, will not be estranged by time, and will not be scared away by distance, but will be brave.
There is a kind of love called Liu Huan Lulu.