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Music was his life's desire, and alcohol was his source of inspiration.
He lost so much in his pursuit of music.
The "laissez-faire" of his daughter, the guilt of his wife, the neglect of his parents, and his indifference to his body......
From "alcoholism like life" to "immortal cancer", Liu Huan's life is full of absurdity.
Is he to blame for all this?
The growth of a generation of grandmasters
Liu Huan is a veteran of Chinese pop music.
Music is the most important thing in his whole life, and it can even be said that music is his life.
Even his wife commented on him:
"If God only allowed him to keep one thing he loved, he would first give up his wife, then grit his teeth and give up his wine, then grit his teeth and give up his daughter, and finally wander the world with the piano."
And that's exactly what happened.
Liu Huan dedicates everything he has to music.
In fact, before music, Liu Huan had also been in contact with cross talk, and almost worshipped Chang Baohua as a teacher.
But in the end, because of the opposition of his parents, he gave up this opportunity.
You don't give up on what you really love.
In other words, the things that you can easily give up are not what you really like.
Sure enough, Liu Huan came into contact with music by chance during college, and then fell in love with it uncontrollably.
He secretly swore that he must forge his own way in this industry.
After that, he sang countless songs with his own hard work and talent.
In 2008, he was invited to sing the theme song "Me and You" for the Olympic Games.
This can also be regarded as the most glorious deed of his life.
However, when his career was booming, he forgot to spend time with his family.
Companionship for family
He and his wife, Lu Lu, met at a New Year's Day party.
After only nine days of acquaintance, they decided to get married.
It is worth mentioning that the old-fashioned drama from "love at first sight" to "hating each other" has not been repeated in them.
They lived an unusually happy life with a "flash marriage".
After marriage, Lu Lu knew that her husband's music path should not stop at marriage.
Therefore, she provided enough freedom for her talented husband and guarded the big rear for him.
The solution of worries made Liu Huan plunge into his career, busy and busy, and rarely stopped for the sake of his family.
But it is clear that this situation cannot be sustained forever.
Although parents unconditionally support their son's career, what parent in the world doesn't want his son to be by his side?
Although they have tried their best to cover it up, the details of their usual relationship still reveal their parents' true thoughts.
On a rainy night, Liu Huan began to realize the seriousness of the problem and made changes.
Since then, whenever he has time, he will return home to spend time with his wife, children and parents.
Unlike Liu Huan's neglect of his family, Li Xiang left all his time to his family.
The biggest difference between them is the education of their daughter.
One is "laissez-faire", while the other has planned everything for his daughter.
Li Xiang did not hesitate to give his daughter the best living conditions.
However, her behavior attracted ridicule.
They all think that such "doting" will only spoil the child.
But Li Xiang slapped everyone in the face with reality.
Because while she provides her daughter with the richest material life, she also has strict requirements for her daughter's spiritual life.
Therefore, her daughter is very independent, sensible, assertive, and proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting at a young age.
On the other hand, Liu Huan adopted a "free" education method for his daughter.
Even if her daughter showed a high talent in music at a young age, she was not well trained.
It was because of this neglect that he missed the best time to train his daughter to learn music.
This also directly led to the "mediocrity" of his daughter.
He also began to worry that his daughter would hate him because of this.
But there is no regret medicine in the world, and there is no chance of redemption for what has been done.
The different choices of education methods directly lead to a huge gap between the two girls.
The education of daughters is a failure, as is the care of wives.
His wife, Lu Lu, used to be the host and assistant director of the Hunan New Year's Day party.
It can be seen that Lu Lu himself is also extremely capable.
However, after marrying him, she was willing to stay behind the scenes, filial piety to his parents and raise children for him.
Liu Huan didn't take all this for granted.
He had promised his wife that when he was able, he would support her in anything, but this promise could not be fulfilled.
Suffering from a serious illness
How to solve the worries, only Du Kang.
The road to chasing music is destined to be full of obstacles.
As a result, he contracted an alcoholic disease, which also sent him to hell.
After realizing the importance of spending time with his family, he began to reduce his work schedule.
However, this comfortable life seems to be calm before the storm.
While spending time with his family, he began to have physical problems.
At first, he didn't care, but as his physical problems grew, he began to panic.
"Avascular necrosis of the femoral head", this is the result of his examination.
This news hit Liu Huan's heart mercilessly like a thunderbolt from the sky.
But all because of his own doing.
He regarded music as his life, and for inspiration, he drank heavily and stayed up late, and finally burned his body.
In fact, the family members who knew that Liu Huan was an alcoholic had admonished him many times, but he never repented.
His reputation for being able to drink and love to drink is almost well known in the music industry.
Even Zhao Zhongxiang commented on him:
"Drinking wine is like drinking water".
In fact, he is not only an alcoholic because he likes to drink, but mainly because he is easy to get inspired when he is drunk.
Just like the poet fairy Li Bai, most of his poems are written after being drunk.
Liu Huan also created some famous works as a result.
"Phoenix in Flight" is a typical example.
Where blessings and misfortunes are relied upon, misfortunes and blessings lurk.
The consequences of this are irreversible.
But Liu Huan, who was suffering from "immortal cancer", was not depressed and completely withdrew from the music scene.
Instead, he continued to delve into his own music.
Recently, he appeared again as a singer and soothed everyone's worries with his performance on stage.
He not only proved that his strength was not diminished back then, but also used his strength to save face as a Chinese singer.
Write at the end
People are faced with a choice every moment of their lives, and there is no such thing as good or bad, right or wrong.
Each of us must face up to our own choices and strive to walk out of our own way.
When we are pushed forward by fate, we tend to lose sight of what is most important to us.
But no matter how late it is, it's not too late to realize.
Although it is too late to make amends, it is even more irreversible if left unchecked.
Information sources:
Baidu Encyclopedia: Liu Huan
China.com: Liu Huan, the spokesperson of Zhibang International, appeared on the stage of "Singer" again, and the battle of singers sparked a boom
The Paper: The official announcement of the lineup of the battle of singers of "Singer"! There are Liu Huan, Gu Juji, Chen Chusheng, Zhang Jie, etc