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I've seen this dynamic.
What is the most painful inquiry?
In many of the comments, I saw high praise for the comments and received 11,053 identities: "There is a child. ”
How much pain is there?
I saw this analogy:
"It's like someone trying to squeeze a watermelon out of their nostrils. Or, someone uses pointed shoes to continue playing with the belly. ”
It's just that after seeing the popular searches, the emotions intersect.
Ms. Li, the second mother in Changsha, used a "hip baby" that paid 8 pounds for 16 minutes.
Her mother-in-law gave a doctor a cell phone to record her child and cheered for her.
As my grandson waited outside the operating room, I said "Tough! ”
The headline of the popular search is Warm Heart Mother-in-Law Documenting the Entire Birth Process.
After reading, I didn't have warmth, but I saw the ugliest human scene and had a few questions.
Just like the comments of the following netizens:
Perhaps in the face of the mother-in-law's strong heart shooting video, the daughter-in-law can only smirk.
Some netizens questioned why babies are buttocks, which are also available.
I watched the children send away and asked her what a "hip baby" was.
She told me that the buttock bite is the baby's ass first, it belongs to the birth, and the pregnant woman, saying that she is very powerful, the child is half-bitten and just a ghost door.
I think if it's a mother watching your daughter in the operating room, you should just cry, or be distressed.
Wouldn't get this phone to record this scene because they had a baby and knew that the kids had a lot of pain.
In order for more women to have a small child, they were taken out by the mother's family. "You see, people have bodies, you can also give birth, your child's fetal position is positive, why can't you stick with your delivery?"?"
Most women who want to opt for a caesarean section when they have children, so they can alleviate the pain.
However, because the family believes that the child is beneficial to the child, insisting on whether the wife will repay it, but must compromise until birth.
Do I remember august 31, 2017, at the Obstetrics and Gynecology Department in Yulin City, Shaanxi Province, a pregnant woman fell from the 5th floor of the budget?
The reason is that the mother cannot tolerate patient fertility, but it can be a caesarean section but insists on delivery.
In the end, it couldn't, and Mother chose to jump to the building to end her life.
"嬛" has a word:
"Women and children are near the Ghost Gate."
Unfortunately, this is not everyone's understanding.
Thoughts on friends with me about a child's child.
Before getting married, I initially said there was stable financial stability.
After a few months of marriage, my husband changed his mind because of her mother-in-law.
In desperation, she can only cooperate.
She thought she was pregnant and her family's living husband would help.
As a result, her husband and partner, even though she was swollen and her stomach could not bend, her husband did not hold hands.
She said she was the saddest scene when she was launched from the operating room after giving birth to a child.
Only her mother and relatives ran by, how was her state, her husband and her family just watching the children.
When I had a house, my mother and my husband only took care of the children to others, but did not ask her how she felt.
Later, the mother-in-law stewed soup to give her a drink, she really can't drink.
My mother-in-law said, "You don't drink more, what does my grandson eat?" ”
Only her mother, told her I didn't want to drink, not to drink.
Later, after this month, my husband also rarely helped with the children.
Sometimes it gets too tired for my husband to help see the kids and my husband still doesn't want to be happy.
I used to see such enthusiasm online.
Netizens said that since childhood, husbands who like to play games love to go out with friends, but actually refuse to go out and go home with their children.
And will sacrifice their rest time, let netizens and friends go out for walks in the street, eat and eat, take children at home.
It could be such a nice guy.
When you have a child, it's two people.
I don't know how many people become a person and that person is a woman.
Just like the director of Sheng Gong, Chen Wei said:
"Although fertility is two people, it is not. Really face everything is a woman. ”
What does a child mean to a woman?
Hair loss, stretch marks, chest, long spots, obesity, diapers and severe postpartum depression.
In addition to these physical problems, they are also seen because they are pregnant, and it is impossible to bring children in order to give up their careers and society.
This is the case with the book "Kim Ji-young" in 82 years.
Kim Chi-young started out as an elite woman with a career of her own.
But because pregnant is sitting on the subway, it is seen by outsiders.
It seems that pregnant women in the abdomen should not squeeze the subway, but should take a taxi.
In the company, they are the joke of male colleagues due to the welfare of pregnant women.
Later, I gave birth to a child.
Once, Kim Ji-young took the child and drank coffee in a chair in the park, watched the scenery, and enjoyed the moment of tranquility.
But he heard a white-collar worker and others tell her, "I also want to take my husband's money, buy coffee and drinks, and turn around." ”
There seems to be no eligibility to enjoy coffee on stay-at-home mothers with children.
Children born are children between the ages of 3 and 5. Even if they don't have children, they'll be rejected and they'll be crowded with companies.
In the eyes of many, women seem to have good jobs.
Just like roses in various shows "Women 30+ Women":
"Because of the child, society will give the girl, she gave birth to this label."
I know it may be necessary to face all the changes, why are women still willing to have children?
The reason is simple, because I really love my own man.
If not, who wants to keep a child at ghost gate?
Just like Zhang Xiaoyu:
"Love is a double dance, and I don't mind two people not dancing. But I didn't mind that I just jumped and the other one just stood next to it. ”
Women don't mind two people bringing bad kids too, but they are very concerned that the child is just the ego and their husband is right next to it.
If you need you the most, you don't reach out.
Have time, what are they most?
Without looking at the phone, it is more about accompanying your wife and getting to know your wife.
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