Li Bai and Wang Wei's "love triangle" tells us how "wild" love is

Valentine's Day meets the Spring Festival, and the impression is not the first time.

This year, I happened to be staying in my hometown, alone at my desk, taking advantage of the emptiness of the middle school campus to talk about love briefly.

(I) The Great Poet's "Love Triangle"

Not long ago, I read about Li Bai and Wang Wei's "love triangle".

The synopsis of the story is this: Wang Wei fell in love with a Tang Princess, and this princess also loved Wang Wei. Later, the Tang Princess fell in love with Li Bai again, and then Wang Wei and Li Bai blacked each other, that is, where Li Bai appeared, Wang Wei would not go; where Wang Wei was present, Li Bai avoided it far away.

Like many love stories, this Tang princess loved Li Bai more, but she still became a monk and went to Jingting Mountain to become a nun. Li Bai eventually died at the foot of Jingting Mountain. Regarding Jingting Mountain, Li Bai once wrote such a poem: "The birds fly high, and the lonely clouds go alone." Looking at each other is not tired, only Jingting Mountain. ”

At first, I thought it was to write about the beauty of Jingting Mountain, but reading this, we all understood that Li Bai was actually writing about the beauty of Jingting Mountain, a poignant love story. This is the power of love, which can make two great poets not interact with each other, and can also give birth to such an unprecedented verse: "Looking at each other is not tired, only Jingting Mountain." ”

(ii) The third law of love

When I was in college, I was a bit "not doing business", Wrote several articles on love, the most impressive is "love economics", of course, not to analyze the relationship between money and love, but to study the process of love production, development and end.

On this basis, I also put forward the three laws of love, the first two are forgotten, the third is still fresh in memory, mainly to say that after a person fails in the first love, it is often not until the third time to succeed. That is to say, the second love of life is often a failure. Looking back on myself, I once thought that I had failed many times in a person, that is, in a person, after more than one love and failure.

Later, I became fascinated by the research books of sociology and economics, and gradually learned that this kind of analysis is called "economic imperialism", hoping to use economic tools to analyze all social problems. This is wishful thinking, but in my senior year, when I wrote my graduation thesis, I still wrote "The Economic Analysis of Human Nature", which is also not to analyze the relationship between money and human nature, but to study human behavior in the four realms.

(3) How far can the first love go?

One day in the last century, an old man asked his wife if his first love had just passed through the city and could meet him.

The wife looked at the old man's eyes, pure and persistent, actually smiled, very cheerfully agreed, the old man was suddenly happy like a child.

This is a true story that a friend told me. At the time, I understood very shallowly, and now I seem to understand it more.

Life, some feelings are impossible to forget, will only sink deeper and deeper, encounter the right time, will flood, but not necessarily there will be waves. And this old man will cherish his wife even more, after all, in human feelings, the most beautiful and delicate is love, this kind of trust, understanding and tolerance is not easy.

(iv) Missed, is a lamp

In 1995, my second uncle and I went to Shucheng, which was a trip that affected my life.

The second uncle took me to many places and met many people, one of whom was a good friend of his youth, who used to work together to build dirt and go to the market together, but they were not "lovers". The second uncle was very happy when he said it, but now in retrospect, when the second uncle talked about her marriage, it was mixed with some regrets and hidden pains, but I did not understand it at the time.

When the second uncle was hospitalized, I once again thought deeply about a question. The second uncle never married, at first the family composition is not good, there are no conditions for marriage, and then there are conditions, in addition to age, I am afraid that the deepest reason must be related to the person who is not a "lover".

In 2014, the second uncle went to Hangzhou, because of one thing, he mentioned this good friend when he was young to me, and told me the story of their youth, and I clearly remember that the expression at that time was very joyful, but vaguely mixed with regret.

Perhaps, some fates because of practical reasons, missed is missed forever, can only be put in the heart, as a kind of sustenance, a kind of nutrition, or a bright light in the dark night, illuminating the loneliness and misery on the road of life, bringing some warmth and comfort.

(v) Poetry is a kind of compromise

From Li Bai and Wang Wei to Li Shangyin, Liu Yong, and Lu You, love setbacks are inevitable, and poets are even more so, so that throughout the ages, soft but tear-jerking poems are thousands of them.

Lu You sighed bitterly, "Red crispy hands, yellow wine, and willows on the walls of the spring-colored palace in the city." The east wind is evil, and the joy is thin. A few years of sorrow. Wrong, wrong, wrong. Spring is as old as ever, people are empty and thin, and the tear marks are red and silky. Peach blossom fall, idle pond pavilion. Although the mountain alliance is there, the Jinshu is difficult to trust. Mo, Mo, Mo! ”

Tang Wan wept bloodily: "The world is thin, people's feelings are evil, and the rain sends dusk flowers to fall easily." Xiao Feng is dry, tears are broken, he wants to write his heart, and he speaks alone. Hard, hard, hard! People are everywhere, today is not yesterday, and the sick soul is often like a swing rope. The horns are cold, the night is dark, afraid of people asking questions, and tears are filled with joy. Conceal, conceal, conceal! ”

Humanity's continuous development has given rise to the reality that marriage is a necessity and love is a luxury. A marriage steeped in love must meet the right person at the right time and maintain the right communication to have a real consummation, otherwise, most of them are regretful.

Indeed!

For thousands of years, inside and outside the country, there are many love in the intestines, but most of them are tragedies, just like Jack and Ruth on the Titanic, after entanglement, yin and yang are separated, a love is "frozen", if the two go ashore safely, probably will not live a happy life like Zhuo Wenjun and Sima Xiang.

(6) If they meet again, they will not be separated again

Often think of,

There was a spring,

I am brisk and curious,

Carrying helplessness in your arms,

Left you,

Didn't think of --

Since that day,

We have entered another century.

I love the rainy season,

Listen to the rain,

Smell the rain kissing the fallen leaves,

If a swallow flies,

By dribs and drabs

A word or two

Perhaps, it will bring -

Your beauty in the early morning hours.

If we meet again,

There is no longer a need to hug each other for a long time,

And there is no need to cry deeply,

I just want to repeat some of the old questions —

Where the dragonflies fly tonight,

What song do you want to sing tonight?

Hope you don't answer because

I, already sitting in your cooking smoke, are no longer separated.

"I don't know my fate, I can't think of a gentleman." In life, you must know your destiny in order to become a true gentleman; love, when it is also so, can you have a happy and peaceful life.

Although like the love for the hometown, longing for a certain day in a certain month of a certain year, "if we meet again, we will no longer separate", but in the end it is "this matter is difficult to complete", so Valentine's Day -

I wish that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become dependents;

I wish you peace and happiness for lovers in the world.