Zhao Benshan is an excellent sketch actor, known as "China's Chaplin".
He has participated in "Uncle Niu Tigan", "Blind Date", "Not Bad Money", "Yesterday, Today Tomorrow", "Selling Abduction" and other wonderful sketches.
Zhao Benshan's current achievements are inseparable from her first wife, Ge Shuzhen.
Ge Shuzhen followed Zhao Benshan at the age of 19, and for the sake of her husband's career, she taught her husband and children at home.
After Zhao Benshan became famous, he abandoned his wife and left the house.
Ge Shuzhen and her two children depend on each other, what kind of life is she living now?
Ge Shuzhen, born in 1960, to a rural family in Kaiyuan, Liaoning Province.
Not long after giving birth to Ge Shuzhen, her parents died, and she and her sister and brother depended on each other. When he was a teenager, he followed his brother to the fields to do farm work.
At a certain age, the villagers began to introduce her to her.
In 1974, Zhao Benshan joined the commune's literary and art propaganda team, because he could sing two people, which was very popular in the village, and chatted well with the uncle and aunt in the village.
Usually, when there is nothing to do, the people in the village will go to see Zhao Benshan perform, and they will pull together after the end.
Within a few years, Zhao Benshan was 22 years old and had been single. At that time, he was older. Grandpa and Aunt began to worry about his marriage.
Many people introduced objects to Zhao Benshan, because the poor refused.
Among them, there was a grandfather who asked Ge Shuzhen, who had just turned 19, to introduce her to the boys of the propaganda team.
She heard that it was the boy of the propaganda team, and her heart was full of expectations, and she had a candidate in her heart, and she hoped that it was that person.
Ge Shuzhen dressed up and went on a blind date, and saw Zhao Benshan's inner deer for the first time.
Zhao Benshan invited her to sit down and chat, Ge Shuzhen was a little shy, but he thought the girl was cute.
Ge Shuzhen's brother hated that Zhao Benshan was a poor boy, had no money, and his job was not stable, and he did not want his sister to communicate with him.
Ge Shuzhen ignored her brother's objections and was with Zhao Benshan, not caring whether he had money or not, feeling that he was very similar to his own experience, and was willing to share happiness and hardship with him.
Unfortunately, Ge Shuzhen chose the wrong one, she was in the same situation as Zhao Benshan, but she did not share the blessing.
In 1979, Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen did not know each other for a long time before they got married.
Without a wedding dress or a bride price, the two simply invited friends and family to a meal and began the wedding ceremony.
After marriage, not long after, Ge Shuzhen became pregnant, and she married and taught her son at home, and Zhao Benshan earned money to support the family.
Pregnant, Ge Shuzhen took care of all the housework and farm work, and had to work in the fields with a big belly. Zhao Benshan performed outside, just wanting to make more money for this family.
Later, Ge Shuzhen gave birth to a daughter for Zhao Benshan, named Zhao Yufang.
Zhao Benshan is very happy, for this family, wife and children, but also to perform well. And his wife Ge Shuzhen also encouraged him: If you have me at home, you can rest assured.
With his wife's words, Zhao Benshan worked outside with peace of mind and never asked about things at home.
Every time he came home, Ge Shuzhen would cook him a hot meal, eat his research works, or rest
The children's life and study are all handled by Ge Shuzhen alone. She didn't go to school for a day, she didn't have the culture, she just asked people little by little.
In 1982, Ge Shuzhen was Zhao Benshan's second child, a son who was deaf and mute, and had congenital heart disease and other diseases.
Ge Shuzhen and Zhao Benshan quickly came out of the sad mood, and in order to treat the child, he had to cheer up.
And Ge Shuzhen is not only responsible for taking care of her son's life and living, but also keeps the home in order, and Zhao Benshan does not have to worry about it.
In the same year, Zhao Benshan participated in the first rural small drama performance and began to be famous.
From this point on, his career seemed to be hanging, performing continuously, and he also joined the Tieling Civic Art Troupe.
At this moment, the bitterness and tiredness that Ge Shuzhen experienced were not worth mentioning, and she was very relieved that her husband finally survived.
What she didn't know was that life was getting better and better, but her feelings with her husband were getting weaker and weaker.
In 1989, Zhao Benshan's mind was all on work, and he did not care about Ge Shuzhen, nor did he care about the life and study of his son and daughter.
Back at home, he studied works and sometimes communicated with Ge Shuzhen.
However, Ge Shuzhen is a rural female doll, who does not know how to create at all, and she also wants to have fun watching sketches.
Zhao Benshan felt that he and Ge Shuzhen were not on the same frequency, so he did not want to communicate with his wife, and even had the idea of divorce.
He knew in his heart that his wife's world was only himself, and if he mentioned divorce, I was afraid that she would not be able to accept it, and he was afraid that she would drink medicine.
Zhao Benshan never mentioned it, but he never returned home once, and lived outside after each performance.
Ge Shuzhen thought that her husband was busy at work, so she concentrated on taking the children at home and did not add to his chaos.
As a result, Zhao Benshan still couldn't help but propose a divorce with Ge Shuzhen, and she directly collapsed and cried after she knew it, which scared Zhao Benshan.
He never dared to mention divorce again, for fear that his wife would have an accident.
Zhao Benshan went to Ge Shuzhen's brother and told them about it.
Ge Shuzhen's brother was silent, the two lived just right, and did not want her sister to divorce her younger siblings.
Zhao Benshan had already made up his mind, and it was useless for his brother to continue to retain her, saying: We can help you persuade her, but you have to give my sister an explanation, and you must settle my sister well.
Zhao Benshan thanked his brother very much and promised to arrange her well.
With the help of Ge Shuzhen's brother, she accepted her husband's divorce proposal and agreed, calling Zhao Benshang to handle the divorce procedures.
Before Ge Shuzhen signed, she said to Zhao Benshan: Give me 100,000 yuan.
For Zhao Benshan, this money was the money for a show, and he agreed without hesitation.
In 1991, Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen successfully went through the divorce procedures, and the child followed the woman.
The 12-year-old daughter tried to stop it, without success. The day Zhao Benshan moved away, Zhao Yufang cried with a cracked lung.
He was distressed about his children and decided to earn money, the car and the house were all given to his ex-wife, and he paid a one-time child support of 250,000 yuan.
After the divorce, Ge Shuzhen was sad for a while, looking at her sensible daughter and sick son, she had to cheer up.
Although Zhao Benshan left a lot of money, sooner or later there will be a day to spend, and her son's medical expenses are relatively high, so she decided to go out to work.
Without culture and education, Ge Shuzhen ran into walls looking for a job and could only do some physical work.
She went to a hot pot restaurant to work as a dishwasher to support the family and children.
Zhao Yufang learned that her mother was looking for a job, and at first she was in favor of it, but she did not agree to her mother's work of washing dishes.
Ge Shuzhen told her daughter: The money I earn can subsidize the family, you and your brother have what they want, and your mother can buy it for you. Working in the back kitchen, your mother can learn to make good food for you and your brother.
When Zhao Yufang heard her mother say this, she did not continue to stop it.
Ge Shuzhen also instructed her daughter to keep it a secret and not to tell anyone. Because she didn't want to cause trouble for Zhao Benshan and delay his career.
Zhao Yufang was very obedient, and went to play with her father and did not say anything about it.
Ge Shuzhen was very happy to get the first month's salary, this was the first time she made money, 150 yuan was used to buy medicine for her son.
Ge Shuzhen works hard for the sake of her children. Zhao Benshan, on the other hand, had a new love.
Before Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen divorced, he and Ma Lijuan met and became friends.
Because he has a family, the two have no interaction other than communicating at work.
During the Spring Festival in 1992, Zhao Benshan was seriously injured in a car accident on his way to the performance.
Zhao Benshan has divorced Ge Shuzhen, and her daughter is still too young to take care of, and can only be cared for by friends in the hospital.
But friends have their own things to do, can not be with them for a long time, just call Ma Lijuan.
How many days Zhao Benshan was hospitalized, Ma Lijuan did her best to take care of how many days, and the relationship between the two rose from friendship to love.
Not long after being discharged from the hospital, Zhao Benshan proposed to Ma Lijuan.
On the wedding day, Zhao Benshan also invited his daughter Zhao Yufang, who told her that this was a new mother.
Zhao Yufang did not call her mother, but sent blessings to her father and Aunt Ma.
After returning home, Zhao Yufang told her mother: Her father has remarried. Ge Shuzhen said calmly: Bless your father.
The daughter said in a serious tone: Mom, Dad is married, you should also consider your marriage.
Ge Shuzhen said: This is not something you worry about, you study hard, your mother will be satisfied.
Later, the friends around her could not look down, and relatives and friends began to persuade her one by one to consider remarriage. Finding another person and raising two children can reduce some stress.
Ge Shuzhen had all kinds of reasons to shirk. Didn't give the child a complete home, didn't want to hurt the child twice.
Zhao Tie Egg was still sick, and he couldn't do without people around him, and he didn't have the energy to think about other things.
When my friend saw Ge Shuzhen's attitude, he no longer urged, and occasionally mentioned it in front of her.
Ge Shuzhen only wants her two children to live a good life, and her son's health is getting better, even if she does not marry in this life, she will be satisfied.
Unfortunately, many things cannot be decided by oneself.
In 1994, Ge Shuzhen and her two children looked forward to the following spring and fantasized about hanging out together.
However, Zhao Tie egg suddenly had a heart attack, which scared Zhao Yufang into crying, and Ge Shuzhen rushed to the hospital.
The result was too late, and in the end, Zhao Tie Egg did not rescue him, and Ge Shuzhen was heartbroken, and she and her daughter hugged her head and cried.
Zhao Benshan knew about it and rushed to the hospital, and his mood could not be calmed when he saw this scene.
After dealing with her son's affairs, Ge Shuzhen washed her face with tears every day and her body fell ill. Zhao Yufang saw the pain in her eyes, and her mother was distressed, and she wanted her father to help the family.
Ge Shuzhen did not allow her daughter to do this, and her mother could support her daughter and regain her strength when her mother was well.
Under the care of Zhao Yufang, her mother's health improved. But there was no recovery, so Ge Shuzhen went out to work and found a job as a salesman.
Ge Shuzhen is still quite satisfied with this job, the salary can support the mother and daughter, and she is not too tired. Every few months, the boss stopped doing it.
Later, she thought about doing something herself and setting up a stall to sell things, but it was not as simple as she thought.
By chance, I saw a handyman with long working hours and low wages, but when she thought of her daughter going to school, Ge Shuzhen still went.
All the money she earned was spent on her daughter, and Zhao Yufang did not disappoint her mother, studied hard, and was admitted to Dalian Foreign Chinese College.
Zhao Yufang was going to dalian to go to college, she did not trust her mother, and her mother did not trust her, so Ge Shuzhen followed her daughter.
The two rented a small house, the daughter went to school, and Ge Shuzhen worked.
However, she has not had a stable job, but fortunately, her daughter is sensible and will earn her own money without worrying about her mother.
In 2003, Zhao Yufang graduated from university and was assigned to work in the Dalian Public Security Bureau, with a stable income, Ge Shuzhen was very pleased.
Next to the neighborhood where they live, there is a restaurant that is about to close down, and it is not well run to be transferred.
Ge Shuzhen has always wanted to rent it, but her daughter has more money to go to college, so she has not done it, but she has always been thinking about it.
After surviving until her daughter graduated from college, she began to think about her own affairs.
In the past few years, Ge Shuzhen has saved some money, just enough to rent it, and told her daughter about this matter.
Zhao Yufang disagreed, she was already working, she didn't need her mother's hard work, she could support herself.
Ge Shuzhen had been living for her children before, but this time she wanted to live for herself and set up the restaurant.
She was an outsider who ran the restaurant, and during that time she had been learning to find a way to run it well.
She found that the boss had very few requirements in the past, so she increased the amount of dishes, but the restaurant was still unable to make ends meet at first, and her life with her daughter was frugal.
Zhao Benshan in Shenyang has a thriving career and is worth hundreds of millions of dollars, and when he learned that his daughter and ex-wife were not doing well in Dalian, he decided to help.
He gave his daughter a position at the Benshan Academy of Arts with a decent salary.
Zhao Yufang resigned and returned to Shenyang to work, hoping that her mother would follow her.
Ge Shuzhen had a hard time having her own career, did not want to give up easily, and decided to stay in Dalian.
Zhao Yufang advised her mother: Mom, you work all day long and can't make money, follow me back to Shenyang. No, I'll ask my dad to get you a job.
Ge Shuzhen refused because she wanted to have some achievements in her career.
When Zhao Yufang saw that her mother insisted on doing business, she gave her mother an idea, saying that she could rely on her father's reputation to attract customers to the restaurant.
Ge Shuzhen solemnly told her daughter: Zhao Benshan is Zhao Benshan, I am me, I can't smash his signboard, and I can't smash ge Shuzhen's signboard either.
In her concept, it had nothing to do with Zhao Benshang. Even if life is difficult, he will not ask him for help.
Zhao Yufang never said such a thing again and supported her mother in opening a restaurant.
Zhao Yufang returned to Shenyang, not only has a stable job, but also has a happy marriage.
And Ge Shuzhen was alone in Dalian, doing her duty and making a good meal with her heart.
After months at a loss, the restaurant finally started to make money, and every day the restaurant was full, without even a reservation, and the turnover was considerable.
It is said that she also opened a branch in Dalian, worth millions of dollars, but unfortunately she is still single.
Ge Shuzhen is a rural woman with no culture and no skills.
Although divorced from Zhao Benshan, she can also rely on him, while Ge Shuzhen did not, choosing to work hard with her own hands, raising her daughter to adulthood, and having her own career.
Ge Shuzhen is a successful woman.
Marriage is not all women, women can not be married, but must have their own career, to believe in their own potential.