Beautiful love can not be sought, everyone is eager to meet the right person, to be able to hold the hand of the son, and the son with the old is undoubtedly the most enviable thing, but the world of feelings is very complicated, especially marriage, the most feared is to fall in love with someone who is not worthy of love, and the result is to pay a lifetime.
When you are in love, you can be free, you can also be strong, but marriage is not about love, there is not so much wind and snow and romantic passion, the essence of marriage is a plain life like chai rice oil and salt, it takes two people's efforts and efforts to operate the warmth of the family, in order to make the feelings enduring, you know, can talk about love to get married, it is undoubtedly lucky, but it is the happiest to continue to fall in love after marriage.
Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, for women, marriage is related to the second half of their lives, if the divorce is far from being as dashing as a man, after all, the family and children are their own efforts, it is impossible to say that they put it down, sometimes they can't even get out, and they can't start a new life, so what kind of psychological changes will women have in their hearts after divorce?
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Women are emotional, she also longs to get the care and love of men, but when people are not ladylike, the happy life she imagines will become a bubble, an unhappy marriage will only make her physically and mentally exhausted, and when she gets rid of the shackles of marriage, she will naturally lack of security, she no longer has a man to rely on, encountered trouble, but also have to rely on themselves to overcome, a person who carries the weight forward will inevitably feel depressed, but also suffer from gain and loss.
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After divorce, women will often bear greater pressure than men, such as worrying about not finding the other half, the rest of their lives can only be spent alone, or from the pointing point of people around them, when staying in the mother's home, there will also be pressure from their parents, in the long run, if you can't put the right mentality, you will feel that you are really not good enough, or where you really do it wrong, which has led to the dilemma of today, once you feel anxious and inferior, you will fall deeper and deeper, but you will not be able to get out of the shadow of divorce.
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A relationship, lover seven points is good, to remember to leave three points to love themselves, but for women, sometimes they will love very blindly, and even pour out all of it, but when they can't get the return they deserve, they will lose their trust in men, and they will not dare to open their hearts when they interact with people, even when they meet people who are very good to themselves, they do not dare to give each other any response, once they lose their sense of trust, they naturally dare not pay their hearts again, because fear is empty in the end, it is the fear of being hurt again. Will choose to reject people thousands of miles away.
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If a woman is divorced, her future life will be a person, there is no companionship around her, no matter what she does, she needs to do it herself, especially when she sees others in pairs outside, and when the family is happy and happy, the heart will be more uncomfortable, every late night, loneliness will also arise spontaneously, suddenly become a person eating, sleeping, watching movies, naturally will be uncomfortable, but also feel lonely and bitter.
Life will make people grow, will make people strong, but also let people understand, no one will really accompany you through this life, after all, the world is unpredictable, the deepest feelings before marriage may also fade with the passage of time, and eventually will be defeated by the details, love is easy to get along with, want to really work together to the end, can not do without mutual support between each other, otherwise the feelings are easy to deteriorate.
Lin Yutang said: The so-called happy marriage is only the result of the couple's accommodation and habits with each other, just like a pair of shoes, which become fit after a long time. It's just that people's hearts are unpredictable, some people are no matter how to adapt and run in, can not get along, and finally have to separate as the end, but the wood has become a boat, you can only accept it calmly, sad or sad, all by time to heal, as long as you live in the present, you have to look to the future, face life positively and optimistically, in order to regain a new life. #Emotion##Emotion Firm ##婚姻与家庭 #