The infamous Japanese Black Widow and poisonous spider Kanae Kijima was born in 1975 in Hokkaido, Japan. She has a large round face and a bloated figure, 155 tall and weighs 210. No matter how you look at it, it is not a beautiful woman. But it is such a woman, but it has captured the hearts of countless men, and also defrauded a total of up to 100 million yuan, how did she do it?
Since 2008, she has been active on major dating websites under the nickname of "Jia Miao Kitchen", cleverly packaging herself as a gentle lady. In his self-introduction, Kijima writes: "The best thing you do is cook and make snacks; like men who are older than yourself; if you want to get married in a flash, you can form a beautiful family; and you will do your best to take care of your husband after marriage.
Kijima was sentenced to death in the first and second trials, but he lived freely in prison, and updated his blog titled "Kijima Kanae's Prison Diary" online, sharing his life with the outside world.
Amazingly, the blog attracted a large number of male fans, and she was married three times in prison!
The first male was a post-60s man, who later divorced due to a conflict. The second was a man Kijima knew before his arrest. The third is the editor of a large publishing house, talented and handsome, who fell in love with Kijima when he went to prison to interview Kijima, and married in January 2018.
The people were angry, obviously a murderer, how could she live so comfortably!
Finally, the latest judgment of the Supreme Court rejected the appeal of Kijima's defense lawyer's innocence defense, and established Kijima's death penalty.
So, where is the cleverness of Kijima's methods?
First of all, she is a master of cooking, including delicious meals and exquisite pastries. As the saying goes, if you want to conquer a man's heart, you must first conquer a man's stomach. Kijima thinks the same thing.
Secondly, under the influence of his mother, Kijima liked to play the piano since childhood. Her musical literacy added a bit of artistic flavor to her.
It can be seen that Kijima's cleverness lies in 8 words: to promote strengths and avoid weaknesses, and to have clear goals.
First, have a clear understanding of yourself. I know that I don't look good, I want to look good, I want to be in shape. Not like many women who are trapped in the beauty filter and can't extricate themselves. She knows that she can't catch men's eyeballs, she can grab their stomachs! Moreover, in Japan, where machismo ideology is more serious.
Second, the positioning of the customer group is clear. Know how to take advantage of age. At that time, she was 33 years old, not young, but her goal was very clear and realistic, not looking for young guys or handsome men, just going to the old man who was lonely and lonely. Therefore, a group of elderly leftover men and otaku who are eager to start a family and have an economic foundation have been deceived.
Third, accurately grasp the psychology of customers. For such an ugly woman with an obese body, men do not have a strong sense of wariness and shame when facing beautiful women. Just like we usually see, the girlfriends around handsome guys are always very ordinary, and the boyfriends around beautiful women are always very ordinary. When ordinary-looking people approach you, you don't feel dangerous and inferior, and it's easy to get along with them.
Fourth, lower your body and mouth sweetheart. After gaining the trust of customers, Kijima exerts his emotional value to the extreme, willing to lower the men. All kinds of praise, and active pursuit. At this time, the man who has been empty and lonely for many years will feel that this woman is different, protect his self-esteem, and let himself have a long-lost sense of superiority. Not only that, Kijima's "bed kung fu" is also very good, firmly grasping the man's body and mind.
A reporter interviewed men Kijima had dated and asked, "Why do you like ugly women?" Their answer was "She cooked for me like a mother, loved me, and tolerated me." ”
In this high-intensity competitive society, especially in Japanese society where suicide rates are high and overtime has become a corporate culture, the pressure on middle-aged and elderly men can be imagined. Under such pressure, the hearts of men are inversely proportional to their hard appearances, but they are actually very fragile and need to be cared for, and Kanae Kijima is aiming at this.
The same is true of men in China. Why are men now reluctant to be licking dogs and willing to spend time and money pursuing women? Why is the emotional value in love more and more valued? Because work is too tired and life is too stressful, men who are overwhelmed with self-care do not have the extra energy to cope with the demands of women. On the female side, they are maliciously killed by capitalism and consumerism, living in fantasy all day long, and at the age of 30, they still think of themselves as girls, little princesses, blindly waiting for men to kneel and lick, and the result is only to choose their scumbags shortly.
"Men are looking for objects, women are also looking for objects, and two groups of people are looking for their own children, and there is no intersection." Netizens' comments broke the sky. Tired men are looking for green tea with high emotional intelligence and can provide emotional value, but they are cheated out of money by green tea. Naïve women are looking for rich and handsome people who can satisfy their princess dreams, but they are squeezed by scumbags.
Straight men and straight women, it is difficult to love each other, because each other can not meet each other's needs, marriage rate and fertility rate naturally can not be raised. If the country really wants to increase the marriage rate, perhaps it should pay more attention to the real needs of marriageable men and women, reform the social atmosphere, crack down on unscrupulous media, and let men not be so tired and women not be so stupid.