Why do girls like to marry pilots: What are the pros and cons of marrying a pilot?
The advantage is that the pilot's salary and subsidy are very high, and the economic conditions are good, but flying is very dangerous, and it is always necessary to worry. Civil aviation is better. Or so it seems.
Do you aspire to marry a pilot? But often many girls are deceived by this profession,
In 2020, Shanghai police let out a roar during interrogation of fraudsters.
It stands to reason that piloting is a job that requires a lot of expertise. How did this liar deceive multiple girls at the same time, and even the flight attendant could not see through it? How did he end up exposed?
An unemployed man in Shanghai, surnamed Wu, in his twenties, good looking.
A day ago, Ms. Pang, a flight attendant of an airline in Shanghai, received such a private message. Ms. Pang saw that the other party said that it was the same company, so she casually talked. Wu told Ms. Pang that he and she were pilots of the same airline and that she was a fellow countryman.
As a colleague, Ms. Pang instantly felt very kind, and the distance between the two suddenly became much closer.
That night, they added contact details to each other.
Ms. Pang went through Wu's "circle of friends", of course, did not find any clues, because this is all designed by Wu.
Two days after the two became friends, Wu began playing his old trick of saying, "I like you, do you want to date me?" However, Ms. Pang thought that the two had just met and came up. It was a bit too hasty to say that the processing object was a bit too hasty, so I didn't say yes at the time.
However, although Ms. Pang did not promise Wu this time, she also began to consider the relationship between the two. She thought that if the two really wanted to deal, they should know each other better.
Most importantly, the two met in online chat after all, and Ms. Pang, who has always been vigilant, always felt that this matter was not very reliable.
In order to be more assured, Ms. Pang deliberately went to the company's internal system to check. As a result, she found that there were indeed people in the company, and the basic situation was consistent with what Wu told her.
In this way, Ms. Pang's vigilance was reduced a lot.
After that, Ms. Pang agreed to meet with Wu offline. The two often make appointments to eat, chat, watch movies... As the contact deepened, the two quickly established a romantic relationship.
Ms. Pang attaches great importance to this relationship and can be said to be fully committed. Because she feels that she has indeed reached a certain age, it is really not easy to meet an ideal partner who is with her and close to home, so she cherishes it.
However, how did she know that this "ideal object" had a bad heart from the beginning, and all the warmth was just his acting skills.
Not long after the two confirmed their relationship, Wu "acted" again.
Ms. Pang was puzzled. The salary level of pilots is still considerable. How can they borrow ten thousand dollars?
Wu Mou has long wanted to say something, he said that I am investing in wealth management products outside, the return of funds is slow, and now I need money turnover, and I can borrow ten thousand yuan to transfer to you. ”
Perhaps afraid that Ms. Pang would be suspicious, he said, "Haven't you always wanted that new bag?" In two days I'll turn the money around and buy it for you! ”
"I don't mean that, forget it, at this time Ms. Pang directly believed Wu and said to send me the account number." Ms. Pang was anxious to prove that she was not the kind of gold-worshiping girl he thought.
At that time, Ms. Pang felt that the amount was not high anyway, and the two were from the same company, and he absolutely could not default on his debts, so she lent him the money.
After receiving the money, Wu showed a lewd smile and said in his heart: "It is really convenient to be a cover for yourself!" ”
After that, the two continue to fall in love, but Wu does not mention anything about the loan. Miss Pang was puzzled, but still comforted herself, maybe he had forgotten.
However, this matter has always been a knot in Ms. Pang's heart. After all, borrowing money from his girlfriend is really not something that an "ideal person" can do, and he has not even mentioned paying it back.
In addition, the contemplative Ms. Pang also found something. By then, the two of them had been dating for some time. Ms. Pang has also been to the Wu family several times, but there is one thing that always makes her feel strange: the Wu family does not have the suitcases, uniforms, documents, etc. of the pilots.
At first, Ms. Pang asked him, and he said he had put everything in the hotel where he was staying. But one day, Ms. Pang found that the hotel he said was not convenient at all from home to the company. This phenomenon made it impossible for her to ignore her doubts.
However, deeply in love, she still has not fully seen through Wu's lies. This situation made Wu casually find a reason to prevaricate.
So, how did Wu's identity as a liar come to light? It can be summed up in one sentence: self-inflicted sins, not survival.
Ms. Pang's doubts about never seeing Wu's uniforms and documents were not completely dispelled. A person's "appearance" makes her completely sure that Wu is a liar. After work that day, Ms. Pang was playing with her mobile phone on the sofa when suddenly, a verification message popped up. Ms. Pang opened it to see a Chongqing woman who claimed to be Wu's girlfriend and said Wu was a liar.
Ms. Pang had mixed feelings in her heart, only to feel a faint green light above her head, and a black light! She just wanted to find someone to live a stable life, but was cheated on by money and sex. Ms. Pang laughed self-deprecatingly.
Ms. Pang then approved the Chongqing woman's friend request and asked if what she said was true or not.
The Chongqing woman seemed to have expected Ms. Pang to ask such a question, and immediately sent a bunch of chat records of Wu and herself, as well as her transfer records to Wu.
The Chongqing woman also told Ms. Pang that in addition to them, there were other people who were deceived by Wu, and she was told by another girl, when she saw Wu and Ms. Pang "show love" on social platforms, only to know that Ms. Pang was also one of the victims.
At the same time, she "dated" so many girlfriends that the money she borrowed often did not pay back. Wu's actions made Ms. Pang creepy. Finally, Ms. Pang went to the nearby police station to report the case.
After receiving Ms. Pang's report, the police launched an investigation into the case.
After the police launched an investigation, they quickly discovered the strangeness of it: this Wu and the pilot Wu were not alone at all!
This truth shocked and reasoned Ms. Pang, and finally realized that she had indeed been deceived. I finally saw Wu's true face: he was not a pilot at all, but a liar with no serious job!
Things will start in 2019.
One day in 2019, Wu, who has no job, went online at home as usual. Inadvertently, he clicked into a web page with a list of pilots of an airline in Shanghai. He found that his name was pronounced exactly like the airline's Wu pilot.
Looking at this name, Wu Mou flashed a "bold" thought in his mind.
The pilot's social status and income level are undoubtedly enviable. Wu stared at the name of the pilot Wu Mou, feeling different from the "name", and decided to take advantage of this coincidence.
How to take advantage of this coincidence?
At that time, what Wu had in mind was the movie "Cat and Mouse" that he had just finished watching not long ago. In the movie, the male protagonist cheats in 26 countries as a fake pilot and cashes out huge sums of money with a super high IQ. And he also cheated a lot of flight attendants, and his career is booming.
The plot of the film is not entirely fictional and is based on real events.
This made Wu's mind come alive. If someone has successfully impersonated the identity of a pilot, defrauded a large amount of money, won the hearts of beautiful women, and even reached the peak of his career, why can't he?
After that, Wu began to pay attention to and collect various information about the "Wu" pilots and their airlines, only to disguise themselves more and more closely.
However, Wu himself also knows that he is fake after all, and he cannot withstand the test and scrutiny, so he decided to set a "trap" on the Internet, under the guise of online dating.
He bought a new calling card specifically for "fishing."
He signed up for a lot of social software with this phone. On social platforms, he said he was an airline pilot who had studied flying skills in the United States for six years.
In addition, some ordinary developments always reveal that he is a pilot of an airline. It can be said that he is a very "hearty" businessman.
Soon, some girls were "hooked".
Seeing Wu's profile, they felt that Wu was a hard-working young talent, so they took the initiative to say hello and chatted.
Wu doesn't have a serious job, he's working on how to talk to girls and make them happy. These girls were quickly coaxed around by Wu.
After chatting with them online for a while, Wu pretended to like them. Because of their well-being as pilots, these girls tend to maintain some symbolism before agreeing to engage with them
In this way, Wu mou has a group of "girlfriends" within a few months. When the time came, he asked the other party to meet privately, or "unintentionally" said online that he was in urgent need of money, cheating the other party. These girls are immersed in the joy of having a pilot boyfriend, and will not suspect Wu's behavior for a short time, and even some silly girls will "brainwash" themselves.
They delude themselves, convincing themselves that "as a Wu pilot, he will not miss him because of so much money" or "it is my honor to be Wu Pilot's girlfriend".
And Wu also knows that the identity of the pilot is his "sharp weapon" to "run all over the world", always deliberately exposing his "daily" flight.
After many successes, Wu began to be a little dissatisfied with his "girlfriend", so he began to look for a new target and found Ms. Pang...
The amount of each fraud of Wu ranges from a few hundred yuan to tens of thousands of yuan, depending on the degree of trust the victim has in him. In half a year, he defrauded more than a dozen girls, and the amount involved exceeded 100,000 yuan. The policeman asked him: "You use someone else's identity to fall in love, if you have a girl you like who wants to marry her, what identity do you plan to use to get married?" Unexpectedly, the suspect boldly said: "Use your own identity." , real name! ”
Forget it, no girl wants to accept such garbage.
What is false is not true, Wu's exposure is only a matter of time, and what awaits him is the final legal sanction.
It is not difficult to find that Wu's deception is actually very clumsy, but he grasps the essence of deception, that is, to use people's admiration and vanity psychology, and then use all kinds of rhetoric to fabricate facts to fool people.
Therefore, everyone must stay awake and keep their eyes open, not only to see the decoy of the liar, but also to see the line tied to the bait!