Wen | West Window
Communicate with you with words, convey emotional life, pay attention to me, and grow together.
01
There are many storms on the road of love, and no matter how much you like someone, you may not be able to accompany you for a lifetime.
A good relationship often requires two conditions: one is that you should love each other enough and cherish each other enough; the other is that the timing of your encounter should be right, too early or too late.
Satisfied with these two points, it is possible to fall in love in exchange for keeping, if not satisfied, the two people no matter how entangled or will miss.
The division and combination of feelings is not a rare thing, if you can think of opening up, you will not suffer.
But sometimes, fate really loves to trick people, and the person who leaves you is the most loved person in your life.
Before you met him, you had never been so crazy about a person, loved him once, and you did everything you could do.
From pleasing and pandering at the beginning, to being willing to give when falling in love with him, to the humble retention when you broke up with him later, the sincerity, time and energy you have paid for him are so much that you are surprised by yourself.
Maybe this is fate, you are planted on him, the ordinary in the eyes of others makes you completely fall, love him to the point of desperation.
Those years with him were the happiest times of your life.
The pampering and care he gives you makes you completely addicted to your love, he has made a promise to you, and you believe he will deliver on it.
At that time, you loved fiercely and innocently, completely unaware of the problems that existed between you, and you thought that you could continue to love as long as both of you wanted.
Walking with him through the spring, summer, autumn and winter, just when you think everything is about to come to fruition, he has a showdown with you.
Either he can't afford to give you happiness, or he meets you too late, for a number of reasons, but it boils down to the same meaning – he can't start a family with you.
There are two options in front of you, either leave him and start over, or you will always be entangled with him.
In fact, no matter which way you choose to face it, it is destined to be the beginning of an ordeal, and the more you can understand it after encountering it.
02
Love each other but can't keep each other, knowing that two people will not have results, but it is not so easy to let go.
It is true that you have been touched by him, it is also true that you have paid love, he has entered your heart, how can you say that you do not love so quickly?
In the days when you first separated from him, you were always sad and waited for his message with your mobile phone. You don't believe he can be so free, you always feel that he will come back to you.
You are too confident in your feelings, in fact, since he said that he could not give you the moment in the future, it is equivalent to giving you the final answer.
Maybe he also has his helplessness, but it is true that he can't give you long-term happiness.
If you don't force him to give it to you, he may still be able to communicate with you; but once you start making demands of him, he will break up with you.
He will not come back to you, at most say a few words of apology, all the pain and grievances, you have to bear alone.
You are reluctant to blame him, and you repeat the scene when you are with him in your mind, and it is difficult for you to accept that you cannot love him, but this has become your own ordeal.
Not only do you have to suppress your unwillingness, but you also have to force yourself to learn to die, your love with him is over, but you can never find the happy self you were.
03
Forgetting him is too hard for you.
Even if you have broken off contact now, there is always a place in your heart that belongs to him.
Because of him, you become a person with a story, and the bits and pieces that happened between him and him are still timeless after all these years.
Once you thought that when you are old and mature, you will be able to look down on everything in the past, but now you understand that the most unforgettable love in your life will be a person's lifelong concern.
You think of him every once in a while, and you can't help but wonder what he looks like now, whether there are already other people around him.
In those days when your thoughts are thick, you will even dream of him several times a night, and every time you wake up, you will secretly cry, which is really uncomfortable.
You yourself may not have thought that he would make you so unbearable, but now, no matter how much you miss, you can only endure.
You and he already have their own lives, you have no qualifications and reasons to bother him, just silently worry about him, this is the only thing you can do.
04
In this life, there is always a person who is your destiny.
Between you and him, because of fate, we know each other, and because of the end of the fate, we are gradually drifting apart.
He left you, but you can't let go of him no matter what, and no one can make you move and make you remember like him.
The thought of him has never stopped, and a lot of things have happened to you over the years, and the only constant is the love for him.
Of course, now you don't bother with anyone anymore, more often, you miss your past in the depths of your heart.
Meeting him makes you realize what it means to "be happy at first sight";
Leaving him makes you understand what it means to be "unforgettable in the heart, but it is difficult to be peaceful in the end".
He and you may not meet again in this life, but he has always been on your heart, which may also be a different kind of guard.
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Author: West Window, a post-90s girl who loves to write, if you like my article, welcome to interact with me in the comment area.