There are two kinds of women today who are the most pathetic.
A kind of woman does not have the life of Bai Fumei, but there is always a disease of Bai Fumei, but in the end she never returns on the road of the group or the famous woman.
The other is to put all your happiness on another man, sacrifice your youth and career for the family, and finally be old and yellow, but abandoned by men.
The wisest woman is neither dreaming of being unrealistic, nor blindly paying, but fighting with her own hands, first realizing her own value, and then having her own happiness naturally.
In the TV series "The First Half of My Life", the most impressive thing is Tang Jing, played by Yuan Quan.
For friends, she inserted a knife in both ribs; for career, she was seriously responsible; for love, she moth to the fire. In the face of her boyfriend's betrayal and her girlfriend's love, she can quit gracefully, without a trace of hesitation, and leave herself with enough dignity.
However, ironically, compared with the housewife played by Ma Yili in the film, Luo Zijun, he himself has lived like Tang Jing in reality.
From 2014, when the article was exposed to cheating on Yao Di, to 2019, the two divorced, a full five years have passed.
In the past five years, in order to get rid of the title of "scumbag", the article has constantly flattered Ma Yili in feelings and actively sought a comeback in her career.
However, fame and popularity are jobs for actors, and the rice bowl is smashed, and it is even more difficult to eat this meal again.
He does not have the vast and deep roots of the superstar Jackie Chan, so even if Jackie Chan has a "little dragon girl", even if he makes the "mistake that all men in the world will make", the audience cannot remove the glory of Jackie Chan's fighting performance in his movies, the label of moving Chinese and the Oscar Lifetime Achievement Award from memory, because these halos are too dazzling.
Everyone needs circles, even if he's very talented, and that phrase works for anyone.
It can be said that after cheating with Yao Di, the reputation and popularity of the article plummeted, and the quality of resources also declined rapidly, even though he has won the Popular Film Hundred Flowers Award, soared at the film box office, and is hot in the entertainment industry, but all of this includes the gains of his own struggle, nor can he deny that he is stepping on the shoulders of giants.
To put it bluntly, the foundation is unstable, the career is like a bubble, just a thorn in their character, you can easily break.
Different from the article, before Ma Yili married the article, she was already a domestic first-line actress, the three escort girls played in "Black Hole", ziwei in "Huan Zhu Gege 3", Jiang Xueying in "Qiao Family Compound", Charlene in "Struggle"... These TV series that audiences are familiar with, it can be said that each one is a hit.
And if you think that Ma Yili is just a good actor, then you are wrong.
She is not only a celebrity in the circle, but also can maintain a good relationship with the people in the circle.
Zhang Li, Guan Hu, Teng Huatao, Jiang Shan, Liu Haibo... Take out one at random, they are all big names in the film and television circle, and the above people have a close relationship with Ma Yili.
If an actor's work is an iceberg floating on the surface of the sea, then the connections and resources behind him are the glaciers underwater.
With strength, confidence, capital, and resources, Ma Yili at the peak can even let a director like Hu Mei modify his role in the work, modifying the original cowardly woman into a strong woman who takes revenge on the male protagonist.
After marrying the article, although he temporarily postponed his career for the sake of his family, Ma Yili was never restricted by his family, let alone announced his withdrawal from the entertainment industry.
For herself, she took over the filming of "Marriage Defense War", "Heaven and Earth", "Twin Cities Life", "Adolescence Bumps into Menopause", etc., which are also of good quality.
For the article, Ma Yili can also be said to have contributed all his resources.
She introduced him to her old acquaintance Du Yuming, so she had the later classic - "Snow Leopard"; she recommended her husband to one of the most powerful screenwriters in China, Liu Liu, and her friend Teng Huatao, and only then did she have the later phenomenon-level hits "Snail Residence" and "Naked Marriage Era".
And the film "Thirty-three Days of Lost Love" that really made the article take off, the director is still Teng Huatao.
This film directly made the article win the Best Actor of the Hundred Flowers Award for Popular Film, and also let the article kick open the door of the film industry.
It can be said that in the original accumulation period of the most arduous article career, Ma Yili has been escorting all the way.
After the most difficult period of primitive accumulation, after the career was on the right track, the article finally "broke away" from the scope of Ma Yili's help and entered the circle of big figures such as Jet Li and Zhou Xingchi, and the "Journey to the West" directed by Xingye invited him to serve as a male one, with a box office of 1.245 billion yuan, becoming the domestic box office champion that year.
At that time, the article was so popular that even the kung fu emperor Jet Li matched the article, participated in "Ocean Paradise" and "Detective No Two", and the article even became Jet Li's "dry son".
However, the water is overflowing, the things will be reversed, and the articles at the peak of the entertainment industry's resources seem to be getting farther and farther away from the people around them.
Later stories we all know, in 2014, the article was exposed by China's first paparazzi Zhuo Wei during the pregnancy of the second child, and public opinion was in an uproar.
In the face of public opinion as strong as a tsunami, Ma Yili said the famous phrase "do and cherish".
After the derailment, the public originally thought that Ma Yili would play the role of the weak and sympathetic, but without too many responsibilities and resentments, Ma Yili focused on acting, and her career did not fall but rose.
"Kitakami Hiroshi Doesn't Believe in Tears", "The First Half of My Life", "Chinese-Style Relations", "Find You"... All of them were both applauded and acclaimed, among which "The First Half of My Life" helped her win the Best Actress award at the Shanghai TV Festival in one fell swoop, and her career reached a new peak.
On the other hand, the article is not so lucky, from the male protagonist in "Journey to the West to Descend the Devil" to the cameo in the "Mermaid" movie, the director is still the famous star master, the male protagonist has become the new king Deng Chao, and is praised by the star master as his successor.
Such a gap has to be lamented, but the entertainment industry is so cruel, who is hot is the grandfather.
Subsequently, although he was hung up as the director of the movie "Offensive and Defensive Road" by relying on the relationship of Jet Li's "son", the audience paid more attention to Ma Yun's "banknote ability" and a number of big names, and did not fall on who was the "director".
Although Ma Yili is a victim in this relationship, she can use an independent and strong female perspective to fight for more career chips for her emotional loss!
Therefore, after being betrayed by her husband, Ma Yili did not immediately complain to herself as a victim and seek pity for public opinion, but took care of her family, children, husband and her own career.
In the many film and television dramas, Ma Yili is no longer Charlene, who feels good about herself in "Struggle", nor is she Jiang Xueying, who was ruined by love in "Qiao Family Compound", but transformed into a middle-aged female image in film and television dramas that focuses on expressing confusion on the road of career and feelings.
There is no doubt that such an image is more three-dimensional and plump than the role played by Ma Yili before, and it is closer to real life, and of course it is more accepted by the audience.
Therefore, when Ma Yili stood at the peak of her career again, she had enough confidence to choose not to forgive.
In 2019, Ma Yili and the article officially announced a divorce.
In reality, there are a large number of women who have a derailed view of love.
Nowadays, women are more and more pursuing the so-called "sense of refinement" and "sense of luxury", they use a piece of youthful and beautiful clothes, a price of bags, a palatial hotel to package their own nobility and refinement, in fact, it is in vain, feel good about themselves.
The true nobility of women is to have a heart that can look down on men, and to have a calmness that can be responsible for their own lives.
Because no one in this world can be relied on, the only one who can be relied on is himself.
As the first female captain of the mainland said, the real nobility of a woman is that the watch becomes precious because of her own wearing, not to wear a noble watch.
So here, I would like to say to the majority of women that the premise of having happiness is neither dependence nor dedication, but to have yourself.
If you are well, love will have sunny days.