Asking what the worldly situation is, only teaching life and death to be promised.
What is love? Perhaps in everyone's eyes, love is just a fog, hazy, but for Feng Yidai, love must have its own entity.
Feng Yidai was a famous translator during the Republic of China period on the mainland, and while he had a successful career, he also met two women who loved each other with him.
Some people may ask, they all have a second wife, can they still be regarded as "loving each other" with the first?
The answer is yes, because not all men will completely forget their wives after their death, and Feng Yidai is a typical example.
When Feng Yidai was approaching, he wrote a love letter to his second wife, "I wish to be a dog and horse compensation in the next life", but when he turned his head, he still instructed his family to be buried with Yuan.
First, the first time I was excited
Why can Feng Yidai's original match occupy such an important position in his heart?
To understand the love between them, we must start from their first encounter in college.
In 1933, Feng Yidai entered the university, and by chance, he watched a performance in the school theater on Shakespeare's work " A Midsummer Night's Dream " .
That day was really like a dream for Feng Yidai, he met the girl he was destined to, Zheng Anna, who played the elf Parker.
In Feng Yidai's eyes, Zheng Anna's body seems to carry a soft light, which makes the girl on this stage particularly gentle and beautiful.
Dressed in elf costume and speaking fluent English, she quickly attracted Feng Yidai's full attention.
At that time, there was only one thought left in his mind, that is, "I must know her."
Feng Yidai, who had just opened his heart, did not realize that this was actually a liking, but God fulfilled them and arranged the timing for them to meet for the second time.
"What a clever fate."
When Feng Yidai saw Zheng Anna again at the door of the classroom, this sentence inevitably jumped out of his mind.
It turned out that he only needed a chance encounter again, and he could determine that Zheng Anna was the fate of his destiny. He fell in love with Anna Zheng!
In the later time, the two vividly interpreted what is called "talented beauty".
Zheng Anna is a "beautiful person" in the English department, and Feng Yidai is a well-known "talent" in the whole school, the two stand together, do not have to do any superfluous movements, can make people feel that they are a natural pair.
Attracting two people to each other, they naturally came together.
After several years of love, they successfully entered the palace of marriage and became a legal couple.
The two have walked hand in hand for more than fifty years, during which there are both happiness and ups and downs, and the most difficult time, Feng Yidai has been regarded as a "thorn in the eye" by many people because he has expressed some views, and he wants to get rid of it quickly.
In order not to involve Anna, Feng Yidai offered to divorce her, but Anna firmly refused.
Later, as Feng Yidai expected, Anna was implicated by him and was sent down, losing an eye.
Feng Yidai blamed himself for this, but Anna kept comforting him and telling him that nothing was wrong.
Perhaps only two souls who are so compatible can get through all the difficulties and always stand together.
Unfortunately, people can not compete with the disease after all, in 1991, Anna left early because of a stroke, leaving Feng Yidai alone in the world.
Second, came together with Huang Zongying
Anna's departure made Feng Yidai's heart like a knife, but life always had to go on, so Feng Yidai tried to cheer up.
By chance, he became familiar with Huang Zongying, and although the two had known each other before, the relationship was not close.
After this time, they entered each other's lives as if they really "knew".
Perhaps the two people have similar experiences, Feng Yidai and Huang Zongying have a feeling of pity for each other, they have to write letters every day, they can write two or three letters a day, just like a couple in love.
As the letters grew, when the number of words reached more than half a million, the hearts of the two were finally connected and they were married in 1993.
This marriage has caused Feng Yidai to suffer a lot of gossip attacks, and some people do not understand why his wife has only died two years ago, and he can enter the next relationship.
In the face of a steady stream of questions, Feng Yidai and Huang Zongying seemed to be indifferent.
For them, being able to live the rest of their lives is the most important thing.
The two spent several years together, and in 1996, Feng Yidai's health problems, because of the stroke, he not only had a significant decline in hearing and memory, but also had to give up the writing career he had insisted on all his life.
Seeing that her husband was increasingly depressed because he could not pick up a pen, Huang Zongying was very sad in her heart, so she ignored her own fatigue in her seventies and moved with Feng Yidai, tirelessly taking care of his daily life and living, and re-teaching him to write hand in hand.
Perhaps huang Zongying's meticulous care played a role, and two months later, Feng Yidai miraculously got better.
The moment he was able to pick up the pen again, Feng Yidai's heart was not only excited, but also full of love and gratitude for Huang Zongying.
3. Buried in one place with the original partner
The two of them just held each other and continued to spend the rest of their time.
Unfortunately, life has an end after all, even if there are too many things in the human world that cannot be abandoned, no one can escape death.
After experiencing many times of suffering from illness, Feng Yidai finally couldn't bear it.
When he felt that his limit was approaching, he wrote a love letter to Huang Zongying, expressing his love and gratitude for Huang Zongying between the lines, saying that if there was an afterlife, he was willing to be a dog horse to compensate Huang Zongying and give her double love.
Such a love letter touched countless people, but what many people did not expect was that even if Feng Yidai was so reluctant to Huang Zongying when he died, he still instructed his family to bury himself with the original Zheng Anna.
This move undoubtedly caused a lot of speculation, and whether Feng Yidai loved Huang Zongying or not has also become a question of discussion.
As one of the parties, Huang Zongying was not surprised by such an approach, because she knew that this was a promise that Feng Yidai had made to his wife.
By now, so many years have passed, and Feng Yidai still remembers what his wife said back then, which just means that Feng Yidai is a person who cherishes love and righteousness.
Life is limited, but love can never end.
Although Feng Yidai had two wives in his life, he still showed the world what love should look like.