My mother-in-law brought me a child for six years, but suddenly she did not quit and left only a letter. I burst into tears after reading it.
The letter reads, Son and daughter-in-law, when you see this letter, please stop complaining. I plucked up the courage to make up my mind to do this. I should be in my hometown now, and I don't have my granddaughter with me, so you should still find your own way, don't worry about me, you should read this letter first. Exactly why did I go back.
Just six years ago, son, you called me in the middle of the night and said, Mom, your daughter-in-law has given birth to a granddaughter, you come to serve your daughter-in-law's confinement, I am very happy to agree. But the daughter-in-law just looks at me unfavorably, either it is not good here, or it is not good there. I did everything I could to please my daughter-in-law for the sake of my sons and granddaughters, but my daughter-in-law was not satisfied with anything. In fact, I know that there will be friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but I never thought that it would be so difficult. Every day, I get up early in the morning and clean up the house, buy vegetables, cook, wash clothes, and take the children. In fact, these things are nothing, to be honest, all I am afraid of for so many days is to see the faces of both of you. I'm so old, I still have to live separately from your father, just for you. I came here, I thought you would be very grateful to me, but I didn't expect that I would be exhausted.
I just can't understand, what am I trying to do, I came to help you for free, how can you have such a big opinion on me? I just want to say who stipulates that grandma has to bring grandchildren, I bring my granddaughter, I am willing, but I really can't stand your attitude towards me, and my daughter-in-law always dislikes me for not cooking well, thinks that my clothes are not clean, and always says that my cleaning is not thorough. Just the other day, I fed my child, and the food was so hot that I blew it with my mouth. You say that I have saliva that is not good for children, and you always say that I don't wear diapers for children, and you think I wash children and take hand washes. Wasn't that how people used to have children? You ask your own parents if they've ever done this, and I just can't stand what you say to me, and the tone of your voice.
I have always lived in the countryside, I grew up in the countryside, I don't pay so much attention, my generation has come this way to raise children. I feel like I'm already pretty good, so I'm used to these things, and these habits have been around for decades. You may not be used to it, but your tone is honest and I really can't stand it. Just a few days ago, the child was running around the house and accidentally broke his arm. You saw that the child was injured, and you actually scolded me and told me to roll. The child is injured, am I not distressed when I am a grandmother? You don't welcome me, I don't have to stay here anymore, I'm gone.
To tell you the truth, my daughter-in-law has such an attitude as you do, and I don't expect you to give me a pension. I also take advantage of the time when I can work with my old man now, earn more money, save more pension money, and save you the time to watch I love you. He also said that I have dragged you down, and the two of us don't need you to take care of it when we are old, you just have to live your own little life.
Seriously, after reading this letter, I was stupid on the spot, I really didn't think about the problem from the perspective of my mother-in-law, I really didn't know. Over the years, my mother-in-law has suffered so many grievances in me and silently paid for us for so many years. At that time, my husband was particularly angry, so he said to me, this time you are satisfied, my mother has returned to her hometown, no one bothers you. From now on, the child you bring it yourself, and you can also experience the work that my mother does every day.
When the mother-in-law is gone, I really want to break down. I now finally realize that my mother-in-law is really not easy, and after my mother-in-law left, the family made a mess of me. I really know I was wrong and now I just want to take my mother-in-law home.
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