Click on the blue word above to follow, and Sunny Wind dissects emotional knowledge with you every day.
Text: Sunny wind
Figure: Network (if there is infringement, please contact to delete)
There is a saying: Confusion is a blessing.
Oh, yes! In fact, for each of us, being confused is a good thing, confusion can make us think less, can make us think less, and make our lives happier.
Therefore, in this life, it is rare to be confused, but many people do not understand, always afraid that after confusion, life will be more difficult, always afraid of confusion after life is more difficult, the important thing is to be afraid of being deceived.
So many people are very shrewd, even if they are not shrewd enough, they also try to play a shrewd appearance, always thinking that this will not suffer losses, will not be deceived.
In fact, when you are young, it is good to be smart, but when you are old, don't be shrewd, and being stupid is a blessing.
When people are old, don't be too shrewd
When you are young, a person is afraid of confusion because he is afraid of losing, and he does not belong to himself in the end, in order to live, we fight, we fight, and even we are afraid that we will suffer losses.
But this is not the case after the old age, after the old age, we will find that life is not as we imagined, after the old age, we are most exposed to the family, many people are retired at home.
At this time, we should not be so shrewd, our shrewdness can be used on outsiders, but not for our families.
After all, we have struggled all our lives, worked hard all our lives, and finally hope that our children's lives can be better, if in their old age, they are still calculating, and shrewd, afraid that their children will spend their own money, then the future life will only be more difficult, only more tired.
Therefore, in the old age, don't be too shrewd, shrewdness will only make us and our children farther away, once the distance between the heart becomes farther, the future life will be difficult.
What is important is that in the later years, too much calculation, too shrewd, cut out of the money, these are actually given to the children in the end, so why bother?
It is better to be confused in our old age and let our children not be defensive about us, so that our life in our later years will be easier and more comfortable.
People are old, don't be too shrewd, in fact, a little confused is a blessing.
Stupid, less calculating
In later life, what we are most afraid of is calculation, if we really calculate, we will find that we may win, but we have lost our humanity, lost the care and concern of our children, and such calculations are meaningless.
Instead of calculating like this, it is better not to worry about it, but to live your own life and make your life better.
So after the old age, stupid, in fact, it is a good thing for us, the important thing is that after the old age, many things are not easy for us to think about, if we always go to the calculation, find that the children feel okay, and we can't figure it out, in fact, hi is not cost-effective.
Therefore, after the later years, there are fewer calculations.
In the TV series "Three Lives Have the Honor to Meet You", at the beginning, the Marquis's father was always calculating, feeling that the Marquis was not working hard enough, that the Marquis could not support the company, and was unwilling to give the company to the Marquis, always suppressing the Marquis.
At that time, he forced the marquis to leave the company and become a designer in another company, and then they designed something that defeated the plan of his father's company, and his father could not accept being sick and hospitalized.
When he was hospitalized, he suddenly figured out that the company would be a marquis in the future, and there was no need for him to do so now, except to make the relationship between father and son bad, and there was no benefit to himself.
So he handed over the company to the Marquis and retired at home.
In fact, in the old age, a little less thinking, life will be better, less calculation, life will be happier, when we calculate less, the heart is comfortable, life will naturally be happy.
Be stupid, think less, and feel comfortable in your heart
In the later years, the most feared is too shrewd, when a person is too shrewd, always like to think about the west, always like to think too much, the more you think, the more you will calculate, the more important is easy to think.
Once we can't figure it out, it's easy to get into trouble, and once you can't figure it out, the relationship is easy to deteriorate, and at this time we will find that our body can't bear it.
In old age, only by thinking less will you be comfortable in your heart and your life will be happy.
The cousin's mother-in-law is like this, in her later years, any owner of the family does not do it, but gives it to her children, leaves 50,000 yuan of pension money for herself, and also tells her children, saying to her children that all her savings are given to them, and she only leaves 50,000 yuan for herself.
In the future, if they are sick or something, they will need to contribute, and now they are nervous and need money, so they will take it out to help them.
After the children knew, they did not feel that their mother gave money, and it would not be good for their mother in the future, but because of this matter, it was better for her.
Someone advised her not to do this, in case her children did not care about her in the future, but she thought very openly, saying that this life is for the children, in her old age, it is good to see them happy, and she also firmly believes that her children are not such people.
She didn't think much, she ate and drank well every day, just fine, for the family's affairs, they were handed over to the children, I thought her old age was very bad, in fact, on the contrary, the life in her later years was very happy.
After her old age, she did not have to worry about the contradictions in the family, nor did she have to find a way to hide her children's own savings, nor did she think about how to prevent her children, but simply lived happily.
Sometimes, being stupid is really a blessing, being stupid, thinking less, and having less irritable things in your heart, is naturally happy.
When people get old, it is actually a blessing to be stupid
When people are old, they are different from when they are young, when they are young, we can make our own decisions about our own lives, but in our old age, we can't do it, we can't change our lives, and we can't be the Lord.
In the later years, many things are involuntarily, and want to live a better life, live more comfortable, then in the old age, do not be too shrewd, but learn to be stupid, in fact, this kind of stupidity at this time, is a blessing.
-END-
About the Author:
Sunny wind, rational to see the world, warm to see love, may my words can move you, bring you warmth.