Loved ones are the last bastion of life. Even if fate is reversed, no one should be abandoned or abandoned.
Happy families are similar, but unhappy families have their own misfortunes. Recently, the encounter of Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives in Hebei, has made countless people feel sad. If guo gangtang and Sun Haiyang's parents are respectable, Liu Xuezhou's biological parents are how sad people are. When he was only 3 months old, his biological parents "sold" him at a hotel in Datong, Shanxi. Because the birth mother was unmarried and pregnant, this money eventually became a dowry for the two to get married.
Liu Xuezhou's suffering did not stop there. When he was 4 years old, his adoptive parents died in an accident caused by a fireworks explosion, and the family's house was destroyed. He has since been raised by his grandparents. After learning the truth about his origins, he released a video to find his relatives. With the help of information in the childhood vaccine book, Liu Xuezhou only took 3 hours to find his biological parents.
At the scene of the "Reunion Action" recognition ceremony, everyone's face seemed to be filled with the joy of regaining family affection. Who would have thought that in the face of practical interests, family affection is fragile.
In the early morning of January 17, Liu Xuezhou posted that he was "blocked" by his birth mother on WeChat, and he felt "abandoned" again. In her self-disclosed phone recordings, the birth mother even angrily complained that her adoptive parents died early, saying that if it were not for them, there would be better families who wanted to be adopted.
↑ Liu Xuezhou said that his birth mother had "blocked" her WeChat.
Faced with a tidal wave of accusations, Liu Xuezhou's biological parents stood up to respond to the questions. They said that the reason why the two sides tore their faces was that the trigger was to buy a house. Liu Xuezhou's birth mother said that "pulling black" just wants to regain a peaceful life. After recognizing their relatives, they wanted to make up for their children, and they once borrowed money to let their children travel to Sanya. She said that she did not expect Liu Xuezhou to repeatedly ask them to buy a house for them, and also threatened to divorce their biological parents separately, which affected the lives of the two families. However, Liu Xuezhou's Weibo retweeted the response with a caption pointing directly to "inverting black and white."
In fact, the specific details and right and wrong are difficult for outsiders to judge. On the cover of the novel "The Seventh Day", Yu Hua wrote: "Compared with the absurdity of reality, the absurdity of the novel is really a small witch. "In the face of the real relationship between material desires and money, the affection that should be thicker than water may be cooler than drinking ice water on a cold day."
It should be noted that Liu Xuezhou's "family" relationship is too complicated. Both father and mother formed separate families, and he also had a half-brother, a half-sister, a half-brother, and a half-brother.
Liu Xuezhou, who became an "orphan" at the age of 4 and is accustomed to seeing the cold and warm feelings of human feelings, has reason to suspect that even if he recognizes his relatives at this moment, why should he be home and where will he be home in the future? How much kindness can be expected of parents suspected of trafficking and abandonment? From Liu Xuezhou's standpoint, material security is obviously more secure than the verbal promises of "ruthless" parents.
Although Liu Xuezhou calls himself an "abandoned child" and places special emphasis on being "abandoned" after recognizing his relatives, in the author's opinion, he did not give up his efforts to live a good life. When facing the camera, he smiled brightly. When he posted a full house of award certificates, we have more reason to believe that he has the ability to live himself as a beam of light. For Liu Xuezhou, instead of continuing to tear up in the internet noise and let the remaining family affection be eroded, it is better to hand over the rights protection to the law and give yourself to the future.
In the past few days, on the one hand, the story of the "genius son" has been swept across the network, allowing countless people to break through defenses; on the other hand, Liu Xuezhou's search for relatives has made countless people sigh.
Loved ones are the last bastion of life. Even if fate is reversed, no one should be abandoned or abandoned. Only when we ride together in a flat boat and care for each other can we break through the terrifying waves of time.
Liu Xuezhou's encounter makes us understand that not everyone has the same "luck" as Jin Xiaoyu. However, even if we can't give everything for our children like Jin Shengyong and Cao Meizao, at least don't be too selfish and let the family relationship become a calculation.
Red Star News special commentator Bai Jingjing
Edited by Wang Yaotao
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