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Giving birth to a child is really a mother who runs through the ghost door alone, and this courage and dedication are not summed up by the two words "great".
Actor Sun Iridium has been carefully recording since the beginning of pregnancy, and sharing his experience during pregnancy with netizens can aptly explain what is meant by stepping into the ghost door.
Childbirth is a "life-and-death battle" for moms
That day, Sun Iridium, who saw the red, was sent to the hospital by her husband for the first time, and the tension and pressure in the car made her can't help but shed tears, but at this time, she did not forget to comfort herself not to cry.
The next step is hospitalization, waiting for delivery, and waiting for the baby to start.
The severe contractions made Sun Iridium very painful, and the raised green tendons were clearly visible on his forehead, because it was too painful, Sun Iridium chose no pain. After that, the process went smoothly, and Sun Iridium gave birth to the baby.
Just as everyone breathed a sigh of relief, the most terrible thing happened.
Sun Iridium had a heavy bleeding after childbirth, and the newborn was also infected with a lung because of the early rupture of amniotic fluid, and was issued a critical illness notice, and the mother and son were rescued at the same time.
This is the first minute of Sun Iridium's motherhood, and it is also the first minute when the baby comes to the world.
Sun Iridium's consciousness began to blur, flashing the happy moments in his life over and over again in his mind, thinking of his newborn baby, Sun Iridium told himself that he could not sleep or sleep...
At this time, living and taking care of the baby is the most powerful force in Sun Iridium's heart. Fortunately, in the end, Sun Iridium survived, and the baby was also out of danger.
Watching the entire video, netizens without exception broke the defense at the second when Sun Iridium was bleeding after childbirth, what kind of feelings should resonate with millions of people.
Childbirth has never been an easy task
Gorky said that the only force that can bring Death to its knees is the Mother!
Now it seems that this is indeed the case, Huo Siyan told the terrible experience of giving birth to her son on the show: she also experienced heavy bleeding, and on the fourth day after giving birth, the doctor issued a critical illness notice, Huo Siyan signed while looking at her husband and the newborn Hum on the side, followed by rescue.
"At that time, all kinds of machines that I had never seen were used on me", when recalling that experience, Huo Siyan's eyes were full of tears, and Xie Na and Wei Daxun on the side also wet their eyes.
It is the identity of the mother that makes Huo Siyan struggle to survive, and it is the faith that must also be reached.
Because of excessive blood loss, the doctor suggested giving Huo Siyan a blood transfusion, but Huo Siyan was worried that the blood transfusion would affect breastfeeding, so she refused, even if the doctor repeatedly confirmed that the blood transfusion would not affect, but Huo Siyan still refused, because she did not want to have someone else's blood when connecting with the child's body.
Although this practice should not be advocated, it should be based on health, but it can indeed be seen that a mother's selfless love for her child is selfless enough to exchange her life for it.
Wang Xiaobo's love letter to Li Yinhe said: Loving you is like loving life; and Huo Siyan's love letter to Hum is: Loving you is more important than life! Maybe this is a love letter that all mothers in the world will write to their children!
The star's economic conditions are superior, from the beginning of pregnancy there is a professional team to follow, the birth of the child also chose the best medical conditions, will still experience such a life and death moment, Liu Qiangdong's sister is because of amniotic fluid embolism, fell on the delivery bed of the third child, not to mention our ordinary mothers.
There is only one reason to have a child, and that is to love him!
The arrival of a new life makes the whole family happier and sweeter, so that the original clumsy boys and girls become parents and take responsibility, which is the meaning of the birth of the child.
No one needs to have children in order to fulfill their parents' wishes, to "raise children and prevent old age", to compare with others, once they decide to leave this life, parents will spend their lives to love and protect.
Moms don't need great labels, just enough understanding!
The outside world has labeled the mother as great, selfless, and superhuman, but no mother in the world has ever taken the initiative to stand up and praise herself.
Mothers never need verbal praise, they only hope that they can get enough understanding and tolerance for the ghost door to go.
Please the husband of the pregnant woman, accompany her without hesitation!
I hope that all husbands can accompany their wives when they are in childbirth, facing danger and unknown, maybe you can't do anything, but your company can give your wife a courage and motivation to persevere.
She guards the crystallization of love with her life, and you should also accompany her in production.
When a woman becomes a mother, she no longer belongs to herself, can resist the danger of pain, suffering, and loss of life, but cannot withstand the incomprehension of others.
Please give more tolerance to the mothers around you, because they are the heroes of this world.