Also the daughter-in-law of Jia Fu, Wang Xifeng experienced a huge change of "one from two to three people"; the marriage between Lady Wang and Jia Zheng stumbled and turmoil, but it finally lasted without danger; and the marriage of Jia Mu and her husband Jia Daishan left a happy legend and a perfect marriage model for posterity.
In terms of origin, these three generations of daughters-in-law in Jia Fu (Jia Mu, Lady Wang, and Wang Xifeng) are extremely similar, they are all rich and rich, and they are the right households with the Jia family; they are all in the best years, with the most abundant dowry, and they have concluded a good relationship with the young master of the Jia family and become the young grandmother of the Jia family.
Their starting points are the same, but their endings are very different, even very different.
The happiest woman is Jammu. When she first married into Jia Province, Jia Mu was just a low-brow and pleasing granddaughter-in-law, carefully serving the three-tier in-laws above, and doing her best to make good relations with the little uncles and sisters-in-law in the family, and taking care of their diet and living.
Although, according to the rules of Jia Province, Jia Daishan also married six concubines successively, but it did not affect the feelings between the couple in the slightest. Most of Jia Daishan's children are born to Jia's mother, which also proves that the couple's relationship is very good. Therefore, many years later, when Zhang Daoshi, who was pure and vain, mentioned the "grandfather of the country" at that time, Jia Mu's thoughts about her husband could no longer be contained, and the old tears flowed in an instant. Her extreme love for Jia Baoyu, in part, is also because this grandson looks most like her husband.
Mother Jia, who was harmonious in husband and wife and good at managing the family, became the most successful and happiest woman in Jia Province. Her perfect life continued into her later years. Although her husband died early, there were children and grandchildren around her knees, which also filled the spiritual emptiness of Jia Mu.
The initial relationship between Madame Wang and Jia Zheng should still be good, otherwise they would not have had three children in a row. However, the longer the couple spends together, the greater the rift between them.
For Jia Zheng, he hoped that his son Jia Baoyu would study well and take a concubine a few years later; but for Lady Wang, she spoiled her son unprincipledly, concealed her husband early, and arranged a room for Jia Baoyu. This incident has also become the biggest rift between husband and wife.
In addition, after the death of their son Jia Zhu, Madame Wang changed from the previous "really loud" woman to a "wooden person", which naturally made it impossible for husband and wife to get along harmoniously. Therefore, Jia Zheng soon began to spoil Aunt Zhao and had two more children with her.
With the mixing of Aunt Zhao, the relationship between Jia Zheng and Lady Wang became more and more strange, until the appearance was separated. When Jia Zheng beat Jia Baoyu, he saw Madame Wang come in, and "the board went down faster and more fiercely", which was the most direct evidence of the rigidity of the relationship between the couple.
And the marriage of Wang Xifeng and Jia Lian is not even comparable to Lady Wang. Initially, this young couple was also very affectionate. Whatever Wang Xifeng said, Jia Lian would unconditionally support his wife. The wife did not like that there were other women around her, so Jia Lian took away the two concubines before the marriage by the wife.
However, Wang Xifeng's strength and Jia Lian's restlessness eventually made the rift between the couple born in the Nehe New Year that could not be healed. Especially after Wang Xifeng forced You Erjie to die, Jia Lian looked at Wang Xifeng's eyes, probably similar to the enemy, and he even claimed to "avenge" You Erjie in front of Jia Rong's face.
Wang Xifeng is a shrewd and capable woman who keeps Jia Fu in good order, but she can't take care of her marriage. She changed from the woman Jia Lian loved the most to the woman that Jia Lian hated the most, until she was suspended from the Jia family.
The same are all the daughters-in-law of Jia Fu, and they were also once the rich and powerful, why did Jia Mu, Madame Wang and Wang Xifeng experience a completely different marriage in Jia Fu? Why is it that among these three generations of daughters-in-law, only Jia Mu can laugh to the end?
In fact, we have to admit that ancient women had a very sad fate - they had to learn to compromise, they had to learn to accept their husbands' concubines. This is the basic way for them to gain a foothold in the giants.
The times have given men privileges, and no matter how strong a woman is, she cannot rewrite this rule. Jia Mu obeyed this rule, and her marriage with her husband continued smoothly. Lady Wang's way of semi-compromise with this rule, she accepted her husband's concubine, but she could not get along with Aunt Zhao, so her marriage to Jia Zheng was in a state of stumbling; Wang Xifeng was completely unable to accept Jia Lian's concubine, and her marriage with Jia Lian was getting worse and worse.
Such rules were unfair to women in ancient times, but they had to accept them. Jia Mu laughed to the end in this way, which was actually a helpless choice.