Who is the hero that the Jurchens most admire? Then they would definitely reply in unison that it was Nurhaci, because it was he who integrated the power of the Jurchens, and it was he who created the later Great Qing. He spent his life running for the creation of a unified Jurchen regime, and like many entrepreneurial emperors, Nurhaci was indispensable to the beauty of the country while fighting the country. Nurhaci naturally also has a very favored woman, this woman is the famous Manchu beauty - Abhay. Since then, the love of Nurhaci's life has been handed over to this beautiful Manchu girl. Although he liked Abhay very much, they eventually separated, and he voluntarily gave up his beloved girl. What kind of love-hate entanglement is there in this?
Nurhaci married Abahai when she was only twelve years old, the difference between the two was 30 years, and only two years later he promoted her to his concubine, which shows that this woman has great charm for Nurhaci. There are three main reasons why Abhay can obtain this status. First of all, because of her beauty, perhaps the name Abhay does not sound beautiful, but in fact she looks particularly beautiful, and it is this beauty that attracts Nurhaci. The second is the political factor, her whole family is a famous nobleman of the Jurchen tribe, her father and brother hold a lot of power in their hands, and Nurhaci can only be loyal to him if he loves this woman. And after she married Nurhaci, she soon gave birth to three sons, the ancients are very important to heirs, the more children mean that this woman is more favored by her husband, from this point can also be seen that Nurhaci especially likes this woman.
Abhay was favored by Nurhaci and was naturally jealous of Nurhaci's other women. Nurhaci's younger Fujin had made a small report to the Great Khan, saying that Abhay and his second son Daishan had an affair. Whether in ancient times or modern times, his wife's secret affair with other men is something that ordinary people cannot tolerate, and it is embarrassing enough for his beloved woman to betray him, and the object of stealing is his own son, how can he tolerate this? Daishan is the second son of Nurhaci, who was particularly heroic in battle and made many military achievements, so he also loved this second son very much.
With his beloved woman on one side and his beloved son on the other, Nurhaci did not want to believe in this disgraceful thing. But Xiao Fujin listed multiple pieces of evidence, and all indications were that the two men were indeed infected. It is said that Abba Hai asked people to bring meals to Daishan several times a day, and often went out late at night to go on dates with Daishan. The evidence was conclusive, and Nurhaci was very angry when he heard this, and immediately beat Abahai into the cold palace. At this time, many people took advantage of the fact that this concubine was in distress to expose her shortcomings. Some people accused her of hiding the stolen money in her son's house, and also bribed officers and soldiers and used money to win over some people, which undoubtedly exceeded her duty, and many people begged Nurhaci to put her to death.
But Nurhaci still loved this woman after all, and he also thought that the family was ugly and unseemly, so even if Abhay betrayed himself, in the face of the three sons he gave birth to, he had no further intention of taking action. But abhay stole money and bought people's hearts, and he still had to explain it to others. So the outcome of the woman's trial eventually took some reversals, and Nurhaci decided to leave her and let her go back to her mother's house. However, after Nurhaci captured Liaoyang, he immediately recalled Abhay, who had been divorced for a year, and re-established himself as a concubine.
Not long after Abahai's comeback, he ushered in a catastrophe, that is, Nurhaci was accidentally injured in the Ningyuan Battle with Yuan Chonghuan, and soon died of poisonous sores. As soon as Abba Hai's main heart died, her bad luck was imminent, and in the new power struggle, Huang Taiji gained the majority of support, and in order to cut off the troubles, Huang Taiji and several great belles forced Abhaydun Khan to go to the funeral with the so-called "emperor's last words". Emperor Taiji naturally did this to prevent Abahai and Daishan's three sons from being unfavorable to him in the future. Although Abba hai resisted in every way, he could not bear the pressure in the end, and finally hanged himself (some say that he was strangled by the bowstring).
As the woman of the ancestor of the Qing Dynasty, Abbahai was not at ease and did some unspeakable things, so in the end, she also paid the price for her actions. If Abhay does not die, through her and Daishan to jointly support her son Dolgun, after the death of Emperor Taiji, Nurhaci may really have the absolute advantage of inheriting the throne and directly ascend the throne as emperor, but unfortunately history cannot be assumed.
References: Draft History of the Qing Dynasty, Records of Emperor Taizuwu