I have always felt that Su Mole fell in love with Dorgon because the latter, when he was drunk and dreaming of death, cried bitterly in her arms, arousing her pity, and this pity rose into love, and since then it has been out of control.
You think, a man with a noble and courageous identity, who is incomparably affectionate and single-minded, weeps bitterly in your arms, and you watch him lose his mother, throne, and lover overnight, how can you not feel sorry for him?
At that moment, the tenderness of the woman and the motherhood of the heart come at the same time, and from then on, your love is no longer for the purpose of possession, but only for protection and fulfillment.
But after watching the first few episodes, I found that Sue's love for Dolgun should have been synchronized with Or sooner than That of Daiyu'er.
The emotional line between Da Yu'er and Dolgun begins with Dolgun's desperate pursuit + personable and heroic. And Su Mo'er fell in love with Dorgon from the beginning, so she would repeatedly pinch Xiao Yu'er. As Brother Zhen said: I think you have a bit of a fake public welfare.
Although Su mole vigorously denied it, it was true.
She is not jealous of Da Yu'er, one is that Da Yu'er's talent and temperament are all one of the best, Dorgon's love for Da Yu'er is reasonable and convincing, and the other is because she is a squire, and she knows that her identity should not give birth to such delusions.
But when she met Xiao Yu'er, stupid and rude but with a higher status than her, and repeatedly announced to the whole world that she had to be indispensable to Dolgun, the indignation came up. Just like Ye Lanyi was more angry and confused about Zhen Huan after returning to the palace, but to Huanbi, it was a merciless attack and sarcasm.
I feel like "you don't deserve it" but "I'm jealous" you have more hope of marrying him than I do.
But Su Mo'er is very smart, but also listen to people's advice, since Zhen Ge told her that even for the sake of your family master, you must also make a good relationship, she is not so impulsive in dealing with people, she began to realize that if she treats people well or badly, the other party will be recorded on The head of Da Yu'er.
Later, Dorgon escaped from the battlefield but had to accept that his lover wanted to become the fourth brother's side Fujin, and after losing the will to survive, Su Mole ran to persuade him. This move, one is to reassure Dayu'er, and the other is for his own heart. Just like Brother Zhen said, fake public welfare for private. But for Su Mole, only through such a moment can he release the long-suppressed love.
Su Mo'er not only gently persuaded, but also ran to ask Dafu Jin to allow Da Yu'er and Dolgun to meet in order to untie the knot and recuperate, she was really distressed by his heartache.
The same little Yu'er, who loves Dorgon and can't help herself, almost everything she does is to pour salt on Dorgon's wounds, not only putting Dayu'er in danger in the name of storytelling at the wedding feast, but also ignoring Dorgon's injuries and explicitly implying that Dayu'er abandoned him. She may feel as long as she is herself
She didn't care about Dorgon's life or death at all, she just wanted to destroy Da Yu'er and make Dorgon fall in love with herself. She thought it was a causal relationship, but it wasn't, even if there was no Big Yu'er, or Dolgun was completely dead to Big Yu'er, Su Mo'er had a greater chance of getting Dolgun's love than hers. Just like The little grandfather's later wife, slowly relying on his own strength, let the little grandfather take his eyes back from Minglan.
When I watched it, I was always curious, what was Xiao Yu'er doing, did she think that as long as she desperately said bad things about Da Yu'er, Dolgun would instantly transfer her love to her? If it were so easy, the next time Dolgun would be tricked out of it by someone else. It is because of his deep affection that she loves him, he wants to meet a love one, his love is not worth much.
Later, su mole and da yu'er, the pair of master servants, repeatedly cooperated inside and outside to make Dolgun turn the danger into ruin. On Dorgon's life medal, there is a strong stroke of Su Mole. Although more often than not, she considered the problem from the perspective of Da Yu'er, but for Dolgun, she also did her best.
So when Dorgon joked about introducing a man to Su mole, she would be so sad and angry.
Is there anything more heart-wrenching than the fact that your loved one wants to introduce you to someone? I have not asked you to love me, and have you not even stripped me of my right to continue to love you?
Too aggrieved.
Realizing that something was wrong, Dolgun immediately changed his mind:
Su Mole, to be honest, you are a good woman who is understanding and sincere, but in the end, I can't give you anything. I understand that I am still ashamed of you. What cannot be said clearly in this world is a love word.
After hearing Dorgon's words, Su Mole burst into tears and was relieved—oh, he knew my heart, that was enough.
So far, in the love between men and women, my favorite model is still these two:
One is that two people firmly choose each other, sincerely, gently, and bravely to take care of the relationship. The other is that I am in love with you alone, and I know that you are unlikely to fall in love with me, either not to disturb my tenderness, or to do my best to fulfill you and lift you up.
To be together and to help you, at least to be the same, so as not to waste my love.
This is, of course, an idealism, after all, it is difficult for people to abandon their selfish nature, and it is difficult to say anything decent in the soil of reality, but it is always good to have ideals.