Halfway couples need to pass three levels

The so-called halfway couple is a man and woman who have both been married, divorced or widowed and reunited, also known as remarried couples. It is reasonable to say that both parties are people who have come out of a failed marriage, and together they will cherish each other more, but in fact, the couple who are halfway, if they want to have a happy marriage, need to pay more effort, because the ideal is very full, the reality is very cruel, and there are too many influencing factors, so let's share the three key factors that the halfway couple needs to be vigilant about:

1. Wounded heart

Most of them have experienced unhappy marriages, and entering the next marriage with a wounded heart, they must be afraid of being hurt again, and they will become more cautious and unable to give their whole body. Most of them hold the mentality of finding a partner, so as not to be lonely and old, anyway, it is just a mentality of living together, and if they can live, they will live, and if they can't go on, they will change another one.

2. Children

Most remarried couples have children, and neither spouse can treat the other's child as if they were their own. If there is a child, the party with the child is afraid that the child will be wronged if he or she has his own existing child, and refuses to regenerate, of course, no child wants to be born, no one wants to lose the right to be a mother (father), and the contradiction will inevitably breed and worsen. Both parties have children, they want to be good to their children, they will inevitably ignore each other's children, and the contradictions between husband and wife will be stimulated with the problem of children.

3. Economic issues

Remarried couples, already with a wounded heart, the two sides are bound to have estrangement and defense, so they can not be transparent economically, afraid that after the marriage breaks down again, most of them will hide their own small treasury, and even both sides will manage their own money.

Many people say, "Full of children, it is not as good as the halfway couple", but the problems of the halfway couple are too many, and both parties need to make sufficient preparations and pay more efforts to have the beauty of expectations.