From ancient times to the present, the people at the top of power are doomed to be lonely. Even today, which has long been democratized, the political giants in many countries still live a different life.
For example, Indian Prime Minister Modi, a poor boy from the lower castes, in order to rise to the top of power, he did not hesitate to marry for more than forty years and imposed the strictest abstinence on himself.
The real opportunity for Modi's wife to appear in front of everyone is the political reshuffle, and Modi only wrote his wife's name into the spouse column when he sought re-election.
Before that, the Indian public, as well as the people of the world, almost all thought he was single.
And when people knew the fact that he had a wife, it was suddenly discovered that for the sake of politics, the big man took an almost unprecedented path of determination: abstinence.
According to media reports, Modi has had different ambitions from ordinary people since he was a child, he is not willing to live a humble life of low caste, and he does not want to live a life of obscurity. To this end, he joined the Indian "National Volunteer Service Group" at the age of 8.
This is a very influential and extremely demanding organization in India, and those who enter this group must live like an ascetic, hone their will from the most basic level, and exercise their endurance.
In such cases, abstinence becomes the most distinctive feature.
Modi was engaged at 12 and married at 18, and he was simply unable to resist his parents' words at a young age.
However, Modi has enough authority in front of his wife. His wife, Jasuda, was a year younger than him, and had already enshrined him from the day she knew she was going to marry him.
So, without much effort, Modi easily dominated Jasuda's will: I am a national volunteer, I must serve it, so abstinence is one of the top priorities.
Whether Jasuda has resisted, or whether he has fantasies to persuade her husband, the outside world has no way of knowing.
All you know is that after a year of marriage, Modi left his hometown and began to fight for his career. Jasuda, on the other hand, was not pregnant, and spent her life serving her in-laws and caring for her in Modi's house, which was more than forty years.
Some people say that when Modi was running for the election and canvassing for votes, Jasuda almost showed his most sincere will, prayed for him, and canvassed for votes.
From this, Modi nodded, and she would be absolutely right to willingly burn herself for it.
"As long as Modi needs, he makes a phone call and I'll be there for him at any time."
This is what Jasuda meant, but Modi doesn't seem to need her, even after revealing the identity of his wife, the two are still the prime minister of the country and the other lives in poverty as a retired female teacher in the countryside.
Probably Modi also saw through it, what about whether he has a wife or not?
If you also have a wife like Abe, who is high-profile and disobedient to management, wouldn't you be asking for trouble?
Indeed, among the many political powers, former Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe's wife, Akie Abe, is an example of not caring about the image of her husband, and even making the other party afraid of herself.
Akie Abe is very famous in Japan because she has a tavern known as "Whirlpool".
A prime minister's wife opening a tavern? This is true, and Abe can do nothing about it, even affecting his re-election.
But what about Akie Abe? It seems that Abe's life is related to her, and her life is completely her own. Therefore, what kind of life she wants to live is up to her.
According to reports, Akie Abe's relationship with her mother-in-law Yoko Abe is very bad.
On one occasion, Akie Abe stood in the street and posed with Abe's opponents because she was pro-politician with the other side.
For this reason, Yoko Abe was furious, believing that Akie Abe had lost her son's face and had no appearance as a woman at all.
But Abe Akie was so safe about this that even Abe Could not see.
Why? Because Shinzo Abe has always been a supporter of Akie Abe, whatever she says, his will is what he wants.
To use the most popular phrase: Abe Issei is afraid of his wife.
No way, Abe was a little civil servant at that time, listening to drink under his father's seat. And Akie Abe is a big Japanese chaebol family, living a free life and having a distinct personality.
At that time, Abe Shinzo fell in love with Abe Akie at first sight and spent a lot of effort to pursue her.
Under such a reality, it is natural to be afraid of the inside: who cares more in love is doomed to lose.
Therefore, in the years since Abe Akie and Abe Shinzo were married, drinking, chasing stars, and opposing their mother-in-law, they were all not virtuous. And most importantly, she was unable to have children, not even a child, leaving the Abe family, a single seedling, to die.
Why does Yoko Abe look at her daughter-in-law so that her nose is not her nose, and her eyes are not her eyes?
Not having children is one of the very important reasons. Unfortunately, her son had no complaints, and she could only shut up as a mother.
However, there are not a few politicians who don't want children, and don't you see the president of France, Macron? A yearless love affair is known all over the world.
In front of Brigitte, who is 24 years older than himself, Macron took out the specialization and obsession that are rare in men, from small to large, from large to old. This love really has a feeling of earth-shattering weeping ghosts and gods.
It's not a problem that his wife is older than himself, but the problem is that Brigitte was 54 years old when he married Macron, and it was too late to have children.
Moreover, Macron believes that if he uses high technology to get his wife pregnant, it will not be good for her health, so he would rather not have children for the rest of his life.
However, the absence of a childless Macron does not mean that there are no "offspring".
Because Brigitte had 3 children when she married him, and they were all adults, married, and even gave birth to a large group of third-born grandchildren (about 7 children).
The youngest president in the world, that's what people define macron.
He was only 44 years old, but he was already a grandfather, and this age, for most politicians, is really too young.
However, Macron does not mind becoming someone else's step-grandfather, on the contrary, he and his wife take their grandchildren out, looking more loving than their own children: holding children, feeding, hugging, that is all handy, very smooth.
Including the children of his wife and daughter, Macron is also prepared to become a grandfather: take the children out on vacation, take the motorboat to make the children happy, and the proficiency is the means of the senior "daddy".
It is a pity that Macron has such good genes that he can reach the top of political power at a young age. If there is a child to inherit his career, Presumably it is easier for Blue than Blue, right?
But this is the current situation of political marriage, some people choose to hide the truth of marriage, some people put their wives on top of their heads, and Macron does not want children is nothing.
It's just that we eat melon masses, as an ordinary ordinary person, in the end there are some difficulties.
Obviously, I have the brightest life, but I can't achieve perfection, and the meaning of this struggle is completely incomprehensible, is it?
Of course, it may also be that everyone has a different definition of consummation, so they have a different marriage, you say?