So far, the effect of the three-child policy has not yet been seen.
Various supporting policies cannot be said to be insincere, after all, some places even directly pay families with two or three children. Although the money is not much, it is not enough to catch up with the subsidy for raising piglets, but at least the attitude is very correct. No matter how much, the people who are willing to pay real money and silver this year are true love.
All of the above is from the adults to work hard, and recently I found that they have begun to work elementary school students.
For example, some primary school textbooks have quietly changed the cover:
This is the cover of an older third-grade book, Ethics and the Rule of Law.
Mom and Dad took their girls to the park for a walk, and the baby flew a kite carefreely. A family of three, the years are quiet.
Last year or the year before, the same book, the style of painting changed. The cover becomes something like this:
The kite in the boss's hand was gone, replaced by a stroller with a small baby sitting in it. Dabao's hand was unnaturally stretched out, as if he wanted to wave goodbye to his father and mother, and as if he was waving awkwardly, calling for his father and mother to catch up. Mom shook her hand as if to say, "Slow down, we can't run."
Although everyone's expression has not changed, just one more baby, but Dabao's toy is gone, the whole composition has a kind of "happiness is theirs, and I have nothing" faint sadness.
In addition to the book cover, the content of the text is also quietly changing.
For example, I don't know which version of the dialogue in the English textbook.
Girl A asked Girl B: How many people are in your family?
Girl B replied: There are three people in our family, Mom and Dad and me.
Girl A looked proud, and without waiting for B to ask, she took the initiative to Versailles: There are six people in our family.
Girl B was taken aback and repeated like a repeating machine: 6 people?
Girl A replied: Yes, my father and my mother, my sister and my brother and me.
Vaguely, I seemed to see a chain of contempt, and the superiority of the three-child family over the one-child family was jumping on the paper.
This is not the end, the girl B counted for half a day, weakly asked: But your family only has five people.
Girl A once again gave a precise critical hit: I still have a puppy at home!
Look, this is the perfect three-child family model: both children and daughters, plus pets.
Regardless of whether there are brothers and sisters in the primary school students' homes, they cannot escape this subtle, bit-by-bit infiltration. Even if more than 70% of a class is an only child, at least the first step is to make them feel that only children are not the norm, and more children are.
This wave of operations is really well-intentioned, and the purpose is to clear a major obstacle on the road to the second child and three children: the boss.
This makes me want to go to the debate that was said last year: Do I have to get the consent of the boss to give birth to a second child?
Children are very good at flickering, and children are very bad at fooling around.
Most kindergarten children are eager for siblings. In their view, brothers and sisters are exclusive playmates who can play with them 24 hours a day.
I've been harassed by my girlfriend for a long time. When she was a child, she often had nothing to say to me: "Mom, you give me a sister!" "Mom, I want a sister, can you give me one?" "Mom, give me a brother!" Brother can protect me. ”
Strangely enough, she had never wanted a brother, probably more dismissively than her little little boy.
However, this stage only lasts until the first and second grades of primary school. When the baby has her own social circle, she no longer has attachments to her younger siblings.
They have even begun to realize that younger siblings may be predators of resources.
For example, after the third grade, my baby once knocked on the side: Mom, if you have a brother or sister, do you love me more or love him?
(I thank you for assuming an extra baby.) Just thinking about it, your mother is going to die of exhaustion.
I finally understand now that "men are bent on playing two games in the dark, where to go at night to pick up a string, but the woman is next to me and asks: Do you still love me?" Is there someone out there? "What a feeling)
After getting older, most of the babies in first-tier cities even began to have a small book in their hearts, and with one more younger brother and sister, the house assigned to him by the family would be less.
Therefore, in most cases, Dabao is a roadblock on the road of father and mother creating people.
Let them assume that their younger siblings are a natural existence early, and they have to vote when they save their parents from asking for two treasures and three treasures.
Of course, it is best to cause a comparison among elementary school students: Do you only have one younger brother? I have a younger brother and a younger sister.
Then this purpose has been achieved.
However, sometimes it is inevitable that there will be a phenomenon of "overcorrection" and "excessive force".
The following volume is very up-to-date with the integration of younger siblings into the title, so that children feel the hardships of being a brother and sister in advance.
In this three-child family, the younger brother just went to kindergarten, and the younger sister was born, so the sister had to become the main force with the baby.
The younger sister drank milk to feed the sister.
Just feed, can't you tell your sister how many spoonfuls of milk powder to feed? You have to let people calculate, in case the calculation is wrong, the milk powder is more to support the sister to death, and the milk powder is less to starve the sister to death. Who is responsible?
This father and mother are also irresponsible.
Look at the third sub-question, the eldest is writing an essay, and her father actually asked her to take her brother to play in the yard. What is Daddy doing? Changing your sister's diaper? It is good to let the family finish the composition, ah, it is really angry to see people.
Let's look at the fifth question. The younger brother wants to eat meatballs, and the mother does not want the younger brother to have a single nutrition, so she instructs the boss to chop the meatballs? Chop it, don't tell her how much to chop, just give the girl a box of tofu and let her add as much meat as she can.
What a motherfucker! This treatment, the sister is Sanmao, the younger brother is the young master of the shopkeeper's family, right?
Finally, there is a comprehensive question. Casually pinch your fingers, the only child team is getting smaller and smaller, and the number of second and third children is rising.
But with this kind of roll, I don't know how many children will think that younger siblings are a nightmare. As long as you have younger siblings, you will not have a good life.
Feeding milk powder is the boss's job, taking the baby out to play is the boss's job, and even cooking has become the boss's job. Just do the work, and you have to keep calculating. Think about the consequences of feeding the wrong milk powder, what are the consequences of not being able to do the homework, and what are the consequences of the wrong amount of pork cutting.
Who can stand this?
This wave is definitely in reverse Amway. Some children still want younger siblings, or they don't care about one more person in the family, and after doing this problem, it is estimated that they will completely say no to their younger siblings.
It is suggested that the teachers should not only keep pace with the times, but also take into account the psychology of the children, even if they do not contribute to the great cause of the three children, they cannot become a stumbling block on the road of population growth.
If you must come up with a question, it is recommended that you can arrange for your brothers and sisters to take your younger brothers and sisters to Disney, to Happy Valley, to Universal Studios... Older siblings can play all the rides, while younger siblings can only play a third. Then the older brother got down from the speed wheel of light and could give the younger brother a question of speed and distance.
In short, when they think of their younger siblings, they can be full of joy and pride.
It would be better for the babies to have an impulse to go home.