Don't always take pity on yourself, because it's hard for anyone to live

We are always deceived by rhetoric, but often ignore the people around you who really care about you, many times, you think you are a good friend, but you can only share the same hardships, and those who usually have little contact, the reaction can help you get through the difficulties, do not be deceived by a person's short-term attitude, the person who really loves you is not there when you are happy, only when you are sad, friends under the sun are common, friends in the night are rare.

One day you will know: people's hearts cannot be exchanged for people's hearts, and seriousness cannot get deep affection. No matter how well it is done, some people will turn a blind eye; no matter how much they say, some people will turn a deaf ear.

A little more patience will lead to fewer regrets. The fewer times you turn your face, the fewer steps you have. The more times you can't hear it, the fewer times you will disturb yourself. A few harsh words, there is more leeway.

There was no one to shield the wind and rain, and he held up a piece of the sky. Don't always take pity on yourself, because it's hard for anyone to live.

Don't always show your vulnerability, and don't always be soft for things that are not worth it, vulnerability and softness of heart will only make people think too much, and anyone's fluttering words may make you sad because of it. People who are always vulnerable and soft-hearted are also susceptible to the influence of others and cannot show their true selves. More importantly, vulnerability and softness cannot be exchanged for the same treatment of others, and people will only think that you are a good bully. In short, if you look at others more seriously than yourself, the ultimate harm will only be yourself.

People are accustomed to understanding happiness as "having", having a car and a house, having money and power. In fact, happiness should be "nothing", carefree, no disease, no worries. The saddest thing about life is that life has turned us into the kind of people we hate the most, but we still can't live the life we want.

Don't care what others think of you behind your back, make up right and wrong about you, or even attack you. People are precious in the atmosphere, learn to say to themselves, if this can satisfy you, I am willing to accept. Please believe that people who really understand you will never deny you because they have nothing.

On the road of life, there are bound to be many uneven, there are many unsatisfactory, but this constitutes the content of our lives, we have no way to escape, the more we escape, it will only make our situation more embarrassing.

The same injustice, different people will have different views, some people are too calculating, the focus is always on what they have lost, a little thing, not thinking about solving and facing, but complaining about the world, will only harvest more resentment and injustice.

And some people have a calm state of mind, even when they are not satisfied, they will comfort themselves, take all this as a test, the more unsatisfactory, the more kind to themselves, will eventually survive, harvest peace and tranquility.

When you are more calculated, you will find that life is more obstructive, as if the air will be against yourself, troubles are always uninvited, but when you have a peaceful mind, look down on gains and losses, find that life is full of scenery, you know how to appreciate life, know how to live in the present.

Some people seem to live in the eyes of others, interfering in other people's lives at every turn, and are accustomed to pointing fingers at other people's lives, such people cannot live themselves.

Whether a person is good or bad, that is his life and cannot affect you. All you have to do is live your own life and live your life.

Don't take others too seriously, don't take yourself too lightly, don't overestimate human nature, human nature has an egoistic side, can't withstand temptation.

Therefore, instead of caring about others, it is better to let go of yourself and learn to look down, but ask other people's things and focus on yourself, in order to live easily.