Dream of the Red Chamber Continuation Text 114: Xue Baochao got married, Jia Mu said a word, Xue Baochao privately explained to Aunt Xue, and Aunt Xue left Jia Mansion with the family.
(The logic of this article:Marriage is a special form of social connection, after men and women get married, the relationship between the relatives of both families also changes, and in secular etiquette, some originally intimate relationships will become estranged because of social etiquette.) ）
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Men should marry, and women should marry. No matter what era, marriage is an important life transition for women.
If a woman is not born well, she can completely change her life trajectory and destiny through marriage. This is the first motivation and thrust of beautiful women in different societies who desperately want to marry into the rich or aristocratic.
Xue Baochao himself is a giant, but compared with the Jia family, he is slightly inferior.
In order to change the fate of her emperor, she entered Beijing to participate in the draft, and eventually failed. In desperation, he could only live in Jia Fuli. Until the age of fifteen and the age to marry, I did not find a suitable in-laws.
With the help of Lady Wang, Jia Yuanchun, who was favored as a concubine, pointed out to her the path of life of Jinyu liangyuan by rewarding her with the Dragon Boat Festival.
Under the guidance of this road, Xue Baochao withstood the test of time, the cold eyes of others, and the disgust of Baoyu, and finally defeated Lin Daiyu and successfully married Baoyu.
After the wedding, the big picture is decided.
Aunt Xue was happier than her daughter Xue Baochao. Although she has a son and a daughter, her son Xue Pan does not learn any skills and cannot rely on them; from a young age, the big things and small feelings in the family rely on Xue Baochao to come up with ideas and think of ways. Now that Xue Baochao is married to Baoyu, a widow of her own, she can now live with Lady Wang in a justifiable way, sisters are one, rely on each other, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are one heart, and the lives of daughters and Lady Wang will also be satisfactory.
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In the face of such an ending, after congratulating Aunt Xue, Jia Mu said a meaningful sentence: "Aunt and wife live here, everyone is closer."
Jia Mu said that this sentence is a repetition of the old saying.
Aunt Xue brought her son and daughter into the Beijing draft, and there are three to choose from last year:
The first place to go, live in your own house in Kyoto. In this regard, Xue Pan clearly said on the way to Beijing: "Although we have several houses in Beijing, no one has lived in Beijing for more than ten years, and the guards will inevitably steal the lease and people, and they must first clean up and clean up." (Dream of the Red Chamber, 4th)
What Xue Pan said revealed that the Xue family had their own house in Kyoto to live in.
The second place to go, live in the prince Teng's house. The greatest power of the Wang family in Kyoto was Prince Teng. When the Xue family entered Beijing, the prince ascended to the control of the nine provinces, was ordered to go out of the capital to check the border, the family idle countless real estate, the power is hot, back to his mother's home, you can reminisce, you can use the prestige of Prince Teng.
After Xue Pan was beaten by Liu Xianglian, Aunt Xue was distressed about her son, so she wanted to find the prince to come forward to catch Liu Xianglian and ask for guilt, and was eventually stopped by Xue Baochao.
The third place to go is Jia Province. When Aunt Xue chose her residence, she explicitly said to Xue Pan, "I have been away from your aunt and sisters for a few years, but I have to stay together for a few days, and I took your sister to your aunt's house." When they arrived at Jia Province, Jia Zheng took the initiative to stay and sent someone to say to Aunt Xue: "My aunt has already had Spring and Autumn, and my nephew is young and does not know the way of the world, and I am afraid that there will be life affairs when I live outside." We have a dozen rooms in the northeast corner of the Lixiang Courtyard, white idle, cleaned, please aunt and sister brother live very well. Before Madame Wang could stay, Jia Mu sent someone to say, "Please aunt and wife stay here, and everyone should be closer." (Dream of the Red Chamber, Episode 4)
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Jia Zheng took the initiative to retain, and Jia Mu sent people to send a message, which was intimate on the surface, but in essence, it was caused by the situation.
The four major families have contact with each other, one is prosperous, one is lost, Xue Baochao entered Beijing, the intention is very obvious, that is, to participate in the draft into the palace.
Jia Yuanchun, the eldest sister of the Jia family, has been in the palace for many years and has been serving as a female historian, without any sign of being promoted and reused.
Xue Baochao has a virtuous personality and is thoughtful, and once he enters the palace, he will naturally form an alliance with Jia Yuanchun and take care of each other in the palace.
Based on this consideration, Jia Jiasheng intended to keep the Xue family.
Xue Baochao was anxious to enter the palace, Jia Yuanchun had been in the palace for many years, and naturally it was also the strength that the Xue family thought could rely on, so the Jia family invited and the Xue family responded. The two sides asked for something from each other, so they hit it off.
So after Aunt Xue agreed, she found a long-term solution: "The daily fee supply is exempted, and the method is the way to deal with the norm." ”
Madame Wang naturally agreed.
Now that Xue Baochao is married to Bao Yu, the relationship between the Jia family and the Xue family is more harmonious, in this case, Jia Mu repeats what she said before, Aunt Xue is happy, but Xue Baochao hears the sound.
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Blood is thicker than water, and there is a very strange phenomenon in this social life bound by blood kinship:
After the strange man and woman get married, there is no blood relationship, but through the marriage form of union, the establishment of the family, the birth of children, they form a more intimate relationship than the original family.
Therefore, a widely spread saying was formed, and the girl who married out spilled the water.
After Xue Baochao got married, he listened to this sentence said by Jia Mu again, and he had a different feeling in his heart.
When Aunt Xue was happy, Xue Baochao found her mother and said what Jia Tanchun once said to her: "Relatives are good, and there is no longer a need to die and live." ”
This sentence occurred after Wang Xifeng led the team to inspect the Grand View Garden at night, and after Xue Baochao took the initiative to move away from the Grand View Garden, Jia Tanchun said that Xue Baochao used her original words at this time to remind Aunt Xue that after she married Baoyu, she could not live in Jia Province.
Because in general, mothers cannot live in their daughters' homes.
Zhen Shiyin's home was burned, there was no property, and he could only return to his mother's house to live, but he was not welcomed; Liu Grandma was very old, and she turned to her daughter, not only brought two acres of thin land, but also contributed to the family, regardless of dignity to go to Jia Province to fight the autumn wind and ask for things, in order to gain a foothold in her daughter's home.
Aunt Xue has a son, Xue Pan has become a relative; Xue Tadpole and Xing Xiuyan are engaged, and they should also set up another portal; Xue Baoqin already has an in-law family and cannot live in the Jia family for a long time. These reasons were superimposed, and Aunt Xue had no reason to lie in Jia Fu.
After Xue Baochao finished speaking, Aunt Xue suddenly realized that the woman was not left in the middle, and after the daughter got married, her arm turned outward, which was irreversible, and after the daughter got married, she only had one way to go and moved away from Jia Province.
Therefore, shortly after Xue Baochao got married, Aunt Xue took her son and Xue Tadpole and others and left Jia Mansion in a gray and slippery manner.
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