A couple with their own traffic, one is the only son in the family, one is a transgender person who needs to take estrogen for a long time, this is a transnational relationship, and their feelings are you and me, which is more enviable than the average couple. They are often the subject of heat because of their special status: conservative people see them as different and feel incomprehensible; open people feel that they listen to their hearts, and true love should not be prejudiced. Today, let's talk about the Chinese boy Bao Xi and his Thai girlfriend Nisha.
Two parallel lines that do not intersect
Nisha is a transgender person, and it is precisely because of this special identity that this transnational love has been controversial from the beginning, so how did Bao Xi and Nisha form this transnational fate? Can they get married? Can their feelings persist during the special period of the epidemic?
In 2019, a travel blogger accidentally interviewed the love story of Bao Xi, a boy in Beijing, China, and Nisha, a transgender girlfriend in Thailand, while traveling in Thailand. The video quickly caused a wave of attention on the domestic Internet, and Bao Xi and Nisha also exploded overnight.
Bao Xi was born in an ordinary family in Beijing, his parents are highly educated people, after successfully spending his student career in Beijing, Bao Xi came to work in a real estate company, at this time Bao Xi was no different from other boys, made several girlfriends, and died because of various things.
In 1992, Nisha was born in Pattaya, Thailand, just born Nisha, is a full-fledged boy, the second oldest in the family, in addition to an older brother, there is a sister, before Nisha was born, her parents hoped to get a daughter, and even named Nisha in advance. But what I never expected was that Nisha, who was a boy, had a girl's heart. More precisely, Nisha seems to think that she is a girl in the first place. In junior high school, Nisha, who thought she was a girl, began to take estrogen at the suggestion of her classmates. At first, Nisha's parents were still very opposed, but on second thought, after all, the child grew up, and gradually agreed to let her son do what he liked.
In 2009, Nisha was admitted to the university of her choice, and by this time he was no different from other girls. During her college years, in addition to studying hard, Nisha also seized all the time to work and save money, and finally plucked up the courage to go to the hospital for gender reassignment surgery and complete her dream for many years. This makes Nisha a real woman in a way, not a so-called shemale.
Until 2014, a trip completely changed Bao Xi's life, because he and his previous girlfriend had just broken up, he and the company took a long vacation, went to Thailand alone to relax, after coming to Thailand, Bao Xi met the most important person in his life. His first meeting with Nisha was on a MV, and this beautiful-looking, graceful girl immediately grabbed Bao Xi's heart.
An MV became the "red bride" of the two
After graduating from college, Nisha participated in the 2013 Tiffany Miss Universe contest and won the title of "Most Beautiful Miss". And the MV that Bao Xi saw was that Nisha did not participate in this competition to shoot, after knowing the ins and outs of the matter, Bao Xi specially bought a ticket to go to the scene of the competition, cheering for Nisha, and it was also the first time he met Nisha in reality, it was this meeting that made Bao Xi make the bravest decision in his life, that is, to pursue Nisha.
After the end of the game, Bao Xi dialed the mobile phone number that had just arrived with a nervous mood, and at the same time, he also expressed his heart to Nisha. Perhaps it was at this time that for the first time, these two equally lonely hearts were not limited by international and gender, and were closely attached.
Over the years, Nisha has met countless men who have said they love themselves, but no one really wants to be with him, he yearns for pure love, but this time is different, in the serious and responsible Bao Xi saw the shadow of love.
That time can be said to be the happiest moment for the two people, but the good times are not long, Bao Xi's vacation ended quickly, although there were thousands of reluctance, but he could only embark on the flight back to China. However, this distance of ten million miles did not hinder the direction of the two people's hearts, the two people instead chatted more warmly, for Nisha, Bao Xi also ran to Thailand for three days, so Bao Xi and Nisha finally got together.
Bao Xi and Nisha are together, although it is said that they are very happy, but this is only the first step in the long march, how to tell their parents about the existence of Nisha has become the biggest problem in front of Bao Xi, after all, the parents' ideological tradition, it is difficult to accept the existence of Nisha.
After struggling for a while, Bao Xi still brought Nisha to her parents with the idea that "the ugly daughter-in-law always wants to see her in-laws". Surprisingly, the parents did not as angry as imagined, but quite supportive of the son, in order to better manage this hard-won relationship, Bao Xi quit the "iron rice bowl" job, came to Thailand alone, just came to Thailand Bao Xi, because there is no job, can only be around Nisha every day, perhaps because of Bao Xi's strong personality, the two people often break out of contradictions, fortunately he can recognize the mistake every time, take the initiative to apologize to the girl, the relationship between the two people is getting better and better.
For love, he went to Thailand to start a business
Bao Xi began to start a business in Thailand, he used his years of savings to open a restaurant in Thailand, and he also devoted all his energy to the operation of the restaurant. Just as the so-called "pay has a return", Bao Xi's restaurant is booming, in order to give Nisha a better life, he even spent 5 million yuan to buy a mansion for Nisha in Bajiya, after work every day, Nisha designed, sewed clothes, Bao Xi read books, the two did what they liked, almost became the most common and warmest moment of the family.
Bao Xi and Nisha also gave an interview to Youtube in Thailand, in which Nisha revealed that she is still taking estrogen and will take it for life. Transgender people's life is not simple, although they can't have children, but Nisha still wants a child that belongs to him and Bao Xi, and even once Nisha said to Bao Xi, "Do you want my sister to help us with surrogacy?" Such a proposal was still a surprise to the traditional Chinese man, who resolutely rejected Nisha's proposal because he loved Nisha wholeheartedly.
In July 2020, Bao Xi shared a video of him and Nisha taking wedding photos, and fans thought it was a good thing. In fact, according to the current Chinese policy, they cannot get a Chinese marriage license unless Bao Xi goes to Thailand to get a marriage license. Of course, the certificate is only a formality, and their love is always in the "preservation period".
With the advent of the epidemic, Bao Xi's restaurant business has been greatly impacted, often unable to make ends meet, because of the huge pressure, people have lost a lot of weight, Nisha does not abandon the company of his side, encourage him to get out of the predicament, Bao Xi also began to share their lives through vibrato. Bao Xi hopes to let more people know Nisha, so that Nisha will have the opportunity to work in China, and the two can be together for a long time.
But in the end, the problem of children has always been Bao Xi's most distressing problem, as an only child, the parents always can't pass that level. If one day Bao Xi and Nisha break up, it is most likely because of the child.
"Good-looking skin bags are the same, interesting souls are one in a thousand", Bao Xi likes Nisha, not because of appearance.
I have to say that Bao Xi is a brave person, even if he is on the cusp of controversy, he can still listen to his own heart, live a very transparent life, not worldly, not prejudiced, and cultured.
Bao Xi is also a lucky person, he and Nisha two people are in love, support each other, in this materialistic, impetuous environment, may be the real interpretation of love.
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