Text: PingJie Yue Shu
Where is Xiaozhuang's strength?
According to the analysis of many people on the Internet, the most powerful thing about Filial Piety is that he has extraordinary communication skills. She assisted three emperors in her lifetime, and was a prominent female politician. According to historical records, her wisdom and strategy were not inferior to those of men.
In Schenkova's version of Xiaozhuang, many famous scenes are arranged, showing her wisdom to the fullest.
01
Whenever there is a big event, there is calmness
From the beginning of Dong Efei's illness, Shunzhi did not pay attention to the government. After Princess Dong's death, the ministers could not even see the emperor's face. The folds sent from all directions were piled up like mountains, and the emperor did not go to the dynasty, as if the country was going to be paralyzed.
When they were helpless, Sonny and several other important courtiers could only rush to the Cining Palace to ask for help from Empress Xiaozhuang. Sonny said that he guessed that the emperor was going to escape into the empty door to become a monk. Hyo-trhow was shocked, but she quickly sorted out the matter from Sony's analysis:
First, this scandal cannot be allowed to spread out, and the fewer people who know about it, the more conducive it is to the stability of the court and the stability of people's hearts; second, how much room there is still for this matter to be salvaged, how much time to redeem it; third, whether the suggestions of several ministers are feasible, after some deliberation, it is decided to use the method of cursing the monk Xingsen, let him repent, and then persuade the emperor to change his mind.
Straightening out the eyebrows of the matter, Xiaozhuang made a decisive decision:
The first is to let Sonny take her fold and personally ask Xingsen's master Yulin Xiu to let his master take in this monk who does not know the height of the sky, save the emperor, and ensure the tranquility of the Great Qing.
The second was to order Ao Bai and others to ensure that the imperial court could not be chaotic and that the world could not be chaotic under any circumstances. Blockade of the palace ban, strengthen the guard, within three hundred miles of the capital is forbidden to move a soldier and a pawn, violators will be dealt with as a conspiracy.
The third is to adopt the policy of loosening the outside and tightening the inside, so that it is necessary to ensure that the lead is not sent out, all departments go to work as usual, the people live a peaceful life as usual, and everything must remain peaceful.
After everything was properly arranged, he did not forget to instruct a few important ministers to remember a sentence, and it should be soaked into the bones: the throne will always change, and the Great Qing will last forever.
This is equivalent to telling them: don't panic, we can change the emperor when we have to, as long as we work together and unite as one, there is no problem that cannot be overcome. Everything is important to the state affairs of the Great Qing Dynasty, and everything else is not important.
"With my filial piety, this day can't fall." She is like a needle in the Qing Palace, not only the country has a helmsman, but the royal family also has a backbone.
In "The University", it is said: "Quiet and then can be safe, safe and then can be worried, worry and then can be obtained." ”
The more he encounters earth-shattering events, the more Xiaozhuang can be as calm as water and not be alarmed.
In the workplace, we will encounter a lot of annoying things, if we are impatient every time we do things, without any thinking and planning, we will eventually hit the nail in impatience.
Therefore, in case of trouble, we must learn the calmness of filial piety.
02
See through people's hearts and move forward and backward
The inner minister, BamburShan, at the behest of Aobai, came to request the replacement of the emperor. At the time of the briefing, Xiaozhuang guessed that his request for a meeting was for the enthronement ceremony. As she said to Concubine Tong, "No matter who you are, you have to think about it, and before you see him through, you have to see through him." ”
Without waiting for Bumble to speak, he first asked how he was preparing for the enthronement ceremony. Because he is not sure which specific matter he is for, he can ask questions directly and grasp the initiative of discourse.
Later, just lure Bumbleshan to say what he really wants. It turned out that their gang was going to replace the emperor's Han master Wei Chengmo. If at this time, it is not impossible to directly dismiss it, after all, she is still in power in the palace.
However, Xiao Zhuang understood that these Manchus had colluded and just showed her the game. Since they already had plans to exclude Han Chen, they could only agree.
Compared with the change of the ceremony ceremony and the disobedience of the will of the heavy minister, which head is heavy and which head is light, Xiao Zhuang knows very well in his heart. The emperor was still young, and many things had to rely on these important courtiers.
At this time, it is not the time to fight with them. Moreover, this is not a major matter related to the safety and security of the Great Qing, and satisfying their wishes can win people's hearts.
When our ability is not yet able to control the goal, we can learn filial piety:
Don't be too real in small things, let go, maybe it will be better.
03
Grace and grace are combined, and leniency and severity are combined
Before the emperor ascended the throne, Xiaozhuang gave a lesson to the four auxiliary ministers.
Starting from her own merits, assisting the emperor to grow up was the biggest thing she had ever done in her life. Although the journey was arduous, in order for them to be obedient as emperors, she dared to eat any hardship and could carry anything. After half a lifetime of ups and downs, I am still blind and deaf. And the emperor is her lifeblood, don't think about doing things against their orphans and widows.
In short, she was clearly telling them not to play tricks in front of her woman, and she would see clearly who was loyal and who was unfaithful.
Of course, just posing majesty was not enough to make them loyal, and they had to be close to them, and ordered Concubine Tong to personally make tea for them.
You know, at this time, Concubine Tong is already the empress dowager, and making tea for them is a relatively high royal courtesy. However, Xiaozhuang did not value these sub-sections, and it was the most important thing to buy people's hearts and do things for the little emperor.
Next, we must also pull them into the partnership and work together for the Daqing Group.
The world is the world of everyone, one is prosperous, one is lost. The relationship between the emperor and the chancellor is linked by bones, and it is the credit of everyone to assist the emperor in governing the world well.
In order to dispel their doubts, she further stressed that she would not interfere with their governance of the government, fully trusted their ability, and assured that the emperor and the world would be handed over to them, and that she would only assist behind her.
This is to give the four of them a reassuring pill.
It is your fault that the errands are done well, and it is also your fault that the errands are not done well.
Having said that, who dares to joke about major national affairs can only do their best to assist the emperor and govern the country.
Of course, it is not enough to play tricks on them, but it is also necessary to let them obtain some practical benefits, and only by promoting officials and promoting them to knighthood can they completely subdue their hearts.
If we are a team manager, we can learn filial piety: we must not only establish our own prestige, but also play the role of human feelings. Only Liwei cannot let employees obey you from the bottom of their hearts; only by doing so can we manage our subordinates well and effectively exert their talents.