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01. Preface
In the movie "Parasite", it is said: "Money, like an iron, can iron all the folds of life." ”
Life is like a roller coaster, sometimes high and sometimes low. After falling into the trough, the most intuitive feeling is that I have a tight hand and can feel the importance of money the most.
People, poor, will live thoroughly, will see through life and human feelings.
When you are poor, you will know who your true friends are and you will be able to see more people. People at the low point can also see themselves clearly, can face up to their shortcomings, and choose the right time to choose a turn.
Without money, it is like being forced into a desperate situation, there is no way back, but will be bent on moving forward. At this time, if you can adjust your mentality, it can become the stage of the fastest progress.
You don't have to pull relationships, and you don't have to ask for people. Unless you have the real ability to make others think you are useful, no one wants to help you all the time.
Once people have no money, they must learn to rely on themselves, see clearly the cold and warm of human feelings, and strive to run forward.
People, once they have no money, will see through the "three things".
02, see through people's hearts, see through the feelings between people.
When people have no money, it is easiest to see the feelings between people.
Yu Huanshui in the TV series "I Am Yu Huanshui", he married Gan Hong when the conditions were very good.
But creation makes man. After Yu Huanshui reached middle age, in an accident, he was devastated and became a very depressed person.
And Gan Hong's mother's family is much better than before, and Gan Hong looks at Yu Huanshui wherever he is not satisfied. In fact, she just hated that Yu Huanshui couldn't make money. Two people, and therefore divorced.
Once you fall, you can see what the human heart looks like.
In fact, many people around me, who seem to be very close to themselves, can only share happiness and cannot share suffering. Even if that person is your dearest and dearest.
When you are down, you will see clearly who is the person who really treats you and who is the person who is humble to you.
When you have no money, if you are around you, there are people who have been encouraging you and helping you, that is pure and sincere feelings, and it is most worth cherishing with your heart.
03, see your own shortcomings
If you don't have money in your hand, you will see your own shortcomings.
Failure is something that everyone has to experience on the road of life.
Repeatedly tasting the taste of failure is also the norm in life. In fact, experiencing failure will also make you "rich" and let you accumulate experience continuously.
Poverty is only a temporary state, in fact, it is not terrible, what is terrible is that there is no pattern.
If you are poor in your heart, you will never be able to get rich. Don't be afraid to lose, try a few more times, you can learn to "avoid lightning" and can walk out of a successful path of your own.
In poverty, constantly improve yourself and don't lose your fighting spirit.
Sum up the experience and cheer yourself up. If you don't give up, you will slowly get better and better. To overcome oneself is actually to win.
The pattern of a person is larger, and he will get closer and closer to wealth.
Once people have no money, they can see themselves most clearly, know what their shortcomings are, how they should improve, and how to progress. With a little adjustment, you can find a goal and direction that suits you better.
04, see clearly that life is not easy
Once people have no money, they will understand how difficult life is, and they will finally understand that people can only live on their own.
In this world, there are no people who have been poor, there are only lazy and ignorant people.
People who really don't have money are often because they are lazy, don't work hard, and are not willing to improve their abilities.
Always complaining, but not willing to change themselves, unwilling to cultivate their own good habits, will be in the same place, or go downhill.
Poor people, who want to break through the predicament, must learn to be self-reliant.
Even if you don't have much success, you can make progress every day, and one day in the future, you will become a real strong person and get out of the predicament.
Everyone has many shortcomings, but also gives each person a different talent.
As long as you work hard, as long as you work hard, everyone can choose the path that suits them best according to their own strengths, and go out of a road to create value.
Once people have no money, after learning that life is not easy, they will know more about relying on themselves, and they will know how to spend their minds to strengthen themselves, work hard, and create a better life for themselves.
05. Summary
People, once they have no money, have experienced the taste of failure and poverty, they will see through the things in life.
On the road of life, don't rely on anyone, rely on mountains and mountains, rely on water and water. Even if someone protects you, you can rely on it temporarily, but in the next crisis, you may not be able to rely on others to solve it.
No matter how difficult it is, no matter how poor it is, please learn to work hard. Just make a little progress every time, and you'll become infinitely stronger.
There is a "law of compound interest" in psychology: "1 to the 365th power = 1, 1.01 to the 365th power = 37.8." ”
Don't be discouraged, don't feel that your power is too small. Keep pursuing self-motivation and will see your abilities continue to improve.
With enough effort, you will find that at some point, making money is no longer a difficult thing to do.
If you want to change your destiny, you can only rely on yourself, not others.
When people are poor, they analyze themselves from multiple dimensions, have a clear understanding of themselves, and work hard to make their lives slowly change.
As long as you work hard enough and keep creating with your hands, you can change the status quo, break through yourself, and usher in a better life.
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Author: Xia Mo MO, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.