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Title: The woman persuaded her friend to break up 800 times, and finally came to eat, and the comments of netizens made people laugh
As the saying goes: It is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy one marriage.
In the past, when you quarreled with the object, relatives and friends used to persuade and reconcile, but now it is different, and there are more persuasions than persuasions, and even they will help you celebrate the breakup and divorce.
In the perception of these people, they always think that the next one will be better, but they do not know that this is actually their own wishful thinking, and some people will regret it once they miss something.
Compared with handing over life to the future, I think that cherishing the words of the person in front of you is more in line with the reality of life, and for those friends who advise you to break up, we need to think more rationally.
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Recently, a video of "persuading friends to break up 800 times and finally come to eat" went viral on the Internet, causing heated discussions.
In the video, the 3 women use the special effect of bitter melon face to hide their embarrassment, and for them, sitting at this table is like sitting on a needle felt.
Although they are friends of the bride, after all, they were not optimistic about the groom before and persuaded them to break up, and now when they come to the home of other people's homes, they are naturally uncomfortable.
If the groom hadn't been too busy, I reckon he would have come over and squeezed two sentences to show his victorial posture, and this scene would have felt "exciting" to think about.
In fact, in the matter of persuading the breakup, the female girlfriend does have some unique talents, some people are really for the sake of friends, and some people are actually carrying selfish envy and jealousy.
Therefore, for our own emotional problems, we should learn to judge ourselves, the opinions of friends are only opinions, and only you really understand the object.
For this matter, netizens have something to say:
Some netizens believe that in such a scene, who comes to who is embarrassed, although the groom will not say anything on the wedding day, but it will certainly be indispensable to squeeze two sentences in the future, so that the wife can stay away from them.
Some netizens also joked that the woman is simply a realistic version of the "big injustice", which is how embarrassing it is for the two sides to meet after that, and persuade friends to grasp the scale, otherwise it is too offensive.
In my opinion, women are often more emotional in dealing with emotional problems, and they always feel that they have been greatly wronged and cannot think calmly at all. At this time, a few good sisters came to comfort, will definitely help the woman speak, and will naturally degrade the man to worthless.
But after the qi subsides, if you think about it carefully, it may be a completely different view, so people often say "a woman's heart is a needle in the sea", which is actually the meaning.
Through this incident, let us understand that when there are friends around you to tell you about emotional problems, do not blindly go along with each other, to give friends rational advice, after all, the final decision is not yourself, the words will often offend people.
In fact, such a situation often occurs in real life, presumably many female friends have a deep understanding, some good sisters today crying and breaking up, the next day began to show love, treat this kind of emotionally abnormal friends, we still have to speak cautiously, do not dig a pit for themselves.
Finally, I would like to say that it is very normal for couples to quarrel before, which is conducive to both parties to find deficiencies between each other, and quarrels mean that they care about each other. So in a sense, couples who love to quarrel are actually more likely to break up, and those couples who can't say anything to each other are faster.
What do you think about this? Welcome to comment and forward!