We always say that there are many worlds and want to go out and see. But they were bound by the trivialities of the family. We think the future is still far away, but we don't know that the future is within reach.
Be a woman with a strong heart, brew yourself into a fine wine without promotion and sale, with the precipitation of the years, it will only become more mellow and fragrant, because you are unique and bloom alone.
If you feel that you are not good enough and not independent enough, why not learn to work hard, when you change your life and master your own luck through your own struggle, you can get everything you want.
If you are not particularly lucky, then work extra hard. To be a woman with a strong heart, we are better than anyone.
01. Be confident, and go straight to what you want
When you meet a boy you like, don't go directly to chase, you don't have the courage to take the first step, and you don't think that others will see you first.
Why some women can live a smooth life, why some women have so many men to pursue, obviously the conditions are not as good as their own. But what you don't know is that there's one reason for this: self-confidence.
A woman without confidence and hope, even if she is not ugly, will never have that heartwarming attraction.
Women must have self-confidence, and self-confidence is the best decoration for women. No matter how high or low the self-confidence is, it feels the size of our happiness cost. Try asking yourself, do you feel beautiful? Do you love yourself? Do you feel that you deserve to be respected and loved by your loved ones?
02. A smile is a woman's passport to conquer the world
Women who like to smile, luck will not be too bad.
A woman's smile can best reflect the gentle beauty of women. This beauty flows naturally from the body, and there is no need to speak with age, without speaking with the body, but with a smile.
This kind of smile is a beauty woven with thought and wisdom, others always say who is beautiful, but everyone may not necessarily agree, but the only kind of goddess, they are the "fighters in the healing department" laughing super good-looking girls.
Women who love to laugh will always have a place in the eyes of both men and women.
03. Hard-working women never live in age
The self in other people is not necessarily the real self, it is better to learn to work hard. Don't pay attention to the worldly vision of "what kind of things should be done at any age", do not find someone to marry because you are old, and do not care about the discussion of "tossing and turning when you are so old".
Pursue the life you want and live your life.
Be a woman with a strong heart, try to live, try to love people, even if life is difficult, you must go all the way to the blossom, all the way to blossom, live out the "if I bloom, the breeze comes from" wonderful.
Even if one day your relationship fails, or your marriage is unhappy, you can still be spoiled, dare to love and hate, and have nothing to fear.
Resist the pressure of the outside world and will not live within the framework set by your own age. The heart is full of sunshine and yearns for beautiful things. Don't be unhappy for a word or two from someone else.
As the writer Wang Shuo said in "Letter to Daughter", "You must be rich in your heart to get rid of these superficial similarities." Cooking soup is more important than writing poetry, your craft is more important than a man's, your hair and chest and ass are more important than your face, and your heart is so strong that an asshole is more important than anything else. ”
Be a woman with a strong heart, be confident, chase after what you want, and never live in age.