When a new life is ushered in, dear parents have each initiated the greatest love and care that can give their babies. But often grasp too tightly and counterproductively, the more nervous you are, the easier it is to mess up. Especially when the baby is crying, he starts to be busy and can't do anything.
When it is difficult to put the baby to sleep, this problem is whether to put the sleeping baby down? Or should I pick up my waking baby? What is the impact of hugging or not hugging? In fact, there are no fixed rules, and it depends on the baby's reaction!
So what are the performances of the average baby after waking up?
The first case: the baby who wakes up cries and begs for a hug
This should be the most common baby reaction, because the baby is still young and cannot communicate verbally, only by crying to release signals and summon the mother's attention. Usually this type of baby should be slightly worse off, and it is very likely that there is an extreme insecurity in the heart. A small number of parents will be "not very interesting", feel that they can not "spoil" their children from an early age, and are more afraid of giving their children habits, becoming a dependence, and increasing the burden on parents. It will be even more difficult to bring when you grow up later.
In the child's heart, the parents' disregard has a very serious impact on the child's psychology, the baby can not get the mother's warm love when he is a child, and he will distrust and disapprove of the mother when he grows up.
Method: First check whether the baby should change the diaper is not wet, the discomfort caused; secondly, it can be appropriate to pat the baby's back or touch her head or hand, small face, when the baby may be happy after feeling the mother's care.
But if the baby's crying is loud, but also on all fours, very impatient and emotional panic, then we must pay attention to whether the baby is frightened or woken up by a nightmare, so the role of conventional comfort is not obvious, this time you need the mother's embrace, holding and coaxing to settle down.
The second situation: the baby not only does not cry after waking up, but even smiles at you
If there is such a baby in the family, it is really a blessing to cultivate, we usually call it angel babies. This kind of baby is very good to bring, very well-behaved, after waking up, do not cry and laugh at the mother, if this is to the waking parents how much comfort, parents are still very easy to move. This baby is in a good mood, then eating will be good, everything will go smoothly. Go tease him at this time, play with him, and he will definitely "giggle" and laugh at the hen.
The third situation: after waking up, the baby hums a few times and begins to look east and west
Many babies will start to look around for their parents when they wake up, and if they can't find the familiar figure, they will feel overwhelmed and unhappy, and then they will cry bitterly, and be attracted by some novelties as they look for the figure.
For example, look at the ceiling, look at the door and the window, hear the sound to find the sound source, some will play with the toys around them, in short, there will suddenly be something to do, so busy to forget their "grievances", and then the bad mood will naturally fade.
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