Spring Festival is a day of reunion, as the saying goes, "the heavens and the earth are the biggest", no matter where they are, during the Spring Festival, people want to return to their families' side, eat with relatives, nag homely, tell about various things in the past year, even if they are thousands of miles away, they can't stop the mood of going home.
I still remember when I was a child, every New Year's Day, the most expected thing is to buy new clothes, as well as eat delicious, usually can not eat things, will be eaten during the New Year, usually reluctant to buy new clothes, parents will also buy at the New Year. As I grew older, I also joined the work and started a family, and the joy or expectation of my childhood gradually faded.
Unconsciously, you will find that there are fewer people who go home to nag at home for the New Year, but the comparison heart is getting heavier and heavier. Not only in our village, chatting with some friends, but also found that in recent years in the countryside, the New Year home there is a kind of "strange phenomenon", the boy who works outside, may belong to the "poor boy" outside, go out for a year, not only did not earn money, but also borrowed some money, but after returning home, but "dressed" like the boss, the whole new clothes, new shoes, hair polished, and then rent a car, very much like a successful person, said that being the boss outside can also be justified, although all the expenses may be borrowed money, but it does not affect the mood of going home.
The female young people who work outside are different, and they belong to the "goddess" level of dress outside, wearing very fashionable, spraying perfume, walking on the road to and from work in the city, which will attract the attention of many people. However, after returning home in the New Year, there have been big changes, makeup is no longer made, the head is not washed, the dress is not exquisite, usually at home to wear pajamas, cotton shoes, perfume is not sprayed, and "village girl" is basically the same.
The same is working outside, returning home during the Spring Festival, the poor boy becomes the boss, the goddess becomes the village girl, why is this?
Let's start with the reason why "poor boys become bosses". Boys love face, work outside for a year, after returning home, they all want to let others see the best side, there is a certain comparison psychology, can not let others look down, especially relatives and neighbors, behind the gossip, such as whose children, go out for a year to buy a car, whose children, go out for a year to become the boss and so on. If you go out for a year and don't earn more at home after you get home, or you don't make money, you will be told that you are not doing your job.
This is even more serious for unmarried boys, because they have to go home for a blind date, and if they do not appear as "bosses", few people say matchmakers. When you dress yourself up, others see that "the poor boy has become the boss", and there are more mediators. The reality is that if you are strong, others will be close to you, on the contrary, if you are getting worse and worse, others will also alienate you. Therefore, in the psychology of comparison and the reality of the situation, the boys who work outside the home will "package" themselves well when they return home, even if they are poor boys, they must "become" the boss.
Let's talk about the reason why the "goddess becomes a village girl". Girls and boys are not the same, after a year of working outside, back home do not have to compare, outside to work can be dressed better, dress more, some for the needs of work, some for the work to have a good mood, while girlfriends will also help each other with each other.
After returning to the village, it is completely different, if you are still in the rural hometown or in accordance with the city's clothing method, dressed up every day, not only will not be exaggerated, but also may play a counter-role, some people in the village, will gossip, think that there is no good work outside, and even there is a situation of denigration.
In addition, for girls themselves, they don't actually want to spend a long time every day to dress up, but when they work outside the home, sometimes they can't avoid it. When you return home during the Spring Festival, you just want to relax, don't have to care about other people's eyes, wear how you want to wear, get up when you want to get up, dress up when you want, and don't want to dress up.
For unmarried girls, even if someone says that the media, will not deliberately dress up, for example, on our side, some people say that the media needs to go on a blind date, boys need to meet at the girl's home, some girls wear pajamas on a blind date, if there is an eye edge, the follow-up will continue to contact, if there is no eye edge, it will be directly calculated.
In addition, there is a little reason, girls' clothes are generally more expensive, easy to get dirty in the countryside, and it is not easy to wash, and the pajamas worn are relatively cheap, and there is no need to worry about getting dirty. Therefore, the girl who works outside the home, after returning home, changes from a goddess to a village girl, and she can understand.
Some people say that dressing is a science, what kind of clothes to wear on what occasions, in fact, it is also affected by the environment, in what kind of environment, their mentality will be more or less affected. For the "strange phenomenon" of the poor boy becoming the boss and the goddess turning into the village girl, what do you think about this?