Knowing the topic: Why can't you spoil your girlfriend or boyfriend indefinitely?

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Knowing the topic: Why can't you spoil your girlfriend or boyfriend indefinitely?

Re: Why can't you pamper the other half as a licking dog indefinitely?

If you understand human nature, this truth is very simple, infinitely accustomed to each other, pay a lot, have been low as a licking dog, itself in an unequal relationship between the sexes,

It will inspire greed and inertia in their human nature, taking it all for granted, not understanding contentment and gratitude.

When the party licking the dog is slightly sluggish, the party who pays less will complain, think that you are not good enough to me, and ask you to continue to kneel and lick and pay more.

But as the party who pays more, it is certainly also hoping to get returns and feedback, and I hope that everyone's relationship is mutually mobile and balanced.

The party who pays less has always been in a high position, feeling that I am with you, not just because you are very good to me, I am willing to choose you, it is already a gift to you, how can you ask for equal feedback and pay?

At this time, the contradiction problem is highlighted, a high and a low position, in the end, there must be one party who does not like the other party so much, but the figure is good to her, can not find a more ideal choice, and retreat to the second.

The "low" side, he does not want to be low all the time, hopes to get positive feedback: you can also like me, we have an equal dialogue.

So we don't agree with unilaterally and infinitely paying when licking the dog to touch each other, getting used to each other, this is not the right way to love people.

The healthy relationship we advocate should be mutually giving, mutual understanding, giving each other as licking dogs, flowing to each other, and the whole is in a state of equilibrium.

In fact, all relationships in this world are the same, they all give to each other and flow with each other.

We must manage our own expectations well, but also manage the expectations of others, so that two people are not tired of getting along, it is a good relationship.