Tolstoy said: "Happy people are all similar, and unfortunate people have their own misfortunes." ”
Woman, your appearance is not as delicate as living happily and exquisitely, and your face is not as beautiful and colorful as life.
As we get older, the years begin to leave marks on the face. But the temperament of a woman's life never changes, and what makes a woman more and more beautiful is not her youth, but her strong heart.
The appearance changes with the inside, and when you have a strong heart, you are also an increasingly attractive woman.
01. Learn to smile and keep smiling
A smile is a woman's most beautiful makeup. As someone said, "If a woman forgets to put on her makeup when she goes out, the best remedy is to show you a charming smile." ”
Smiling is the most beautiful language. A woman who knows how to smile can definitely experience the storms of life and create a brilliant rainbow.
Many girls are always worried that they will not be cared for by their favorite people. I asked, "Do you know how to smile at him?" "A woman who wants to attract praise and love cannot give a sense of distance. And the best way to melt the sense of distance is to smile.
Women, on the way to growing up, regardless of whether there is anyone to love, must know how to love themselves.
02. Learn to look forward and complain less about life
Mo Yan wrote in "Life and Death Fatigue": "The world is like a book, and the pages are turned over." People should look forward and turn over the old accounts of history less. ”
People who really understand life will never use the past to fill the present. Let the past things pass, no matter how much you remember the past is a gust of wind, blowing a blow will be gone. People have to learn to look forward and look back once in a while, but the future is the most important thing.
The days are your own, good or bad, and you must live with enthusiasm. When you are happy, cherish it, and when you are unhappy, don't complain. Learn to look forward, complain less about life, life should be beautiful to face, and the bitter smile will only become more and more miserable.
"A happy person is not because she has more, but because she complains less. A happy person is not because she looks back, but looks forward. ”
03. Do not feel inferior, do not blame yourself, and adhere to principles
Smart women never lose themselves in order to please others. Someone cherishes and gives back; no one can be independent. This is the most correct way for a woman to live!
In life, we can give in, but we can't give in when others are unscrupulous. Don't be a "resentful woman" in life, while blaming others for not being good enough for themselves, while at the same time going on.
No matter what, I want you to live the way you want to be. Learn to withdraw from a failed relationship as soon as possible and stop the loss in time, and learn to change the dissatisfied life in front of you from changing yourself.
A woman with courage will live a radiant life, because in her world, there is no such thing as "self-hatred and self-pity"!
Women, I hope you can live the way you want to be!
Adhere to these three good habits, for the rest of your life, learn to smile, keep the habit of smiling, learn to look forward, complain less about life, do not inferiority, do not blame yourself, and adhere to principles.