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Some people feel that people who live well must be very smooth, all have good conditions, and have nothing to worry about.
In fact, the truth is often not like this, those who are working hard to live, may not be in a satisfactory situation, or even very difficult.
The only difference is that they have a better mentality, are more optimistic, more positive, will have hope, will always find the good in life, will have fun in suffering, will have confidence, have strength, and feel more agile, stronger, and wiser about happiness.
In fact, to be a happy person, it is probably not so difficult, because happiness is a feeling, as long as you have the ability to feel well, and are willing to feel, you can touch happiness anytime and anywhere.
As Tolstoy said: "There is no way out of worry, it rains outside the window, sitting on the sofa, eating chocolate, reading Dickens, the mood will get better again, and the world will compromise." ”
There is an emotional transformation in this, there is sorrow in the front, and there is no cure for this worry? Of course not, you can sit on the couch and eat something delicious.
Of course, you can also sit wherever you feel comfortable eating some food you like, and then read a book you like, so that even if it is a kind of happiness, it is simple and easy to do.
It's just that many people disdain to do such things, or feel bored and bored when they do it, and don't want to feel fun in it, and they don't think it's happiness.
They may not feel dull, but they are too demanding and dissatisfied, so they tend to ignore what they have in the moment, always expecting and worrying about the ungotten and unfulfilled people and things.
Even in their eyes, those who have no money, or those who are materially deficient, do not deserve to smile, or feel that there will be no smiles and no happiness in that category of people.
If they act happy, he may feel that it is pretended, short-lived.
It is true that for some people who have difficulties to solve at the moment, it is more difficult to be happy all the time, but for a moment, in an instant, it is possible to have and easy to have.
Because people and things that make people feel happy are everywhere, they can be there at any time, depending on whether you are willing to discover, to experience, to touch, to accept, to sense.
Matt Hagrid said something that made him feel enjoyed:
"Sunrise, crystal set.
The dark sky shines with thousands of stars and the world they illuminate.
Driving at night, the lights of the city outside seem to fall into the galaxy of mortals. Undisguised love and affection.
Long affectionate or brief polite kisses..."
Take a look, is not almost at all cost, if you want to enjoy, you can also have. The premise is that you appreciate these, can "see" and experience these wonderful beings.
In fact, the mountains and fields outside, lakes and streams, wild grasses and red flowers, there are things everywhere that can make people feel happy, and the focus is on what kind of mood you use to look at these beings.
If you are in a bad mood, everything you see is gray and dull, meaningless and meaningless.
On the contrary, with a good attitude, a good mood, optimism and positivity, and hard work, there is hope and strength in the eyes at any time, and the heart is softer, and it is easy to find many wonderful or beautiful things around, and feel happiness and throbbing from them.
People must have the ability to easily find the carrier of happiness and easily feel happiness.
As the Summer Palace says: "Although my current situation is embarrassing, although my heart is heavy, I can also be happy immediately, I just have this ability, I feel that I have a future, the more miserable I am now, the more promising." 」
Being able to be happy anytime, anywhere is a person's superpower, a priceless treasure, and a lifetime of wealth.
Because such people will get better and better, even if there are temporary difficulties or difficulties in the material, it must be temporary, because a good mentality and concept of life will drive a person's aura.
People who are optimistic and smiley, people who feel happy at any time, ask for less, and get more joy.
On the contrary, those who are difficult to be happy with "a thousand golds are difficult to move their hearts" will suffer more losses.
Because they will miss a lot of beautiful things, will ignore or waste many moments or people and things that can make people happy and happy.
So we can ask ourselves, what is in the world? More beautiful or more sad?
You must have a pair of eyes that are willing to discover the good, and you must also have a sunny and optimistic heart, so that you can feel happiness anytime and anywhere, and you can understand that "happiness is really simple and easy."
Because we can feel these happiness everywhere and understand that there are many things that can be enjoyed in the world, we will have more strength and courage to face the ups and downs in life.